Ideal, social value and self-worth
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1, many people are unhappy as soon as they set foot on the society. They are doing things they don't like, bearing the heavy pressure of family and interpersonal relationships, and often exhausted and panting to realize their dreams? Hey, hey, that was my childhood dream. Now I just want to earn more money, earn more bonuses, marry and buy a house ... what a realistic idea!
Someone asked why the culture, arts and sciences in contemporary China have been stagnant for a long time. Someone replied that China has invested too little in science and technology. Someone replied that the foundation of China is relatively weak now, but I want to tell you that a very important reason for the decline of contemporary culture, art and even people's moral standards in China is that China is a society without survival guarantee. You want to do something that interests you. All right, you quit your job, and then take 200 yuan's subsistence allowance to create your future. Do you dare?
Our generation and our parents are the generation sacrificed by this society. At that time, their parents were just born and suffered natural disasters for three years. They don't have enough to eat and don't wear warm clothes. When they wanted to study, they met with the Cultural Revolution. Well, after the reform and opening up, they finally have an "iron rice bowl" to work in a factory. As a result, enterprises have been reorganized and laid off. Because of their own misfortune, they asked their children to study hard and be admitted to universities one by one. But as a result, from primary school, we are facing fierce competition. You have to choose a school in the last junior high school, and you have to pay this fee and that fee in the last high school. When we entered the university, there were many troops. University is a good test, but what about finding a job after graduation? As we said at the beginning, we are not much better than our parents.
China is in the transition period, which will inevitably lead to sacrificing the living space of a large number of people to gain development capital. Just like the enclosure movement in Britain in the/kloc-6th century, many of us are like farmers who have lost their land, living by begging, living helplessly in reality, and losing their innocence and self more and more. ......
2. The value of human beings is one of the most important topics in the study of values, and it is also one of the important issues that have been debated endlessly in the history of human thought and culture for thousands of years. Marxism attaches importance to both human social value and human self-value. Marxism holds that man and society are inseparable, man is a social man, and society is made up of people. There are many aspects of human value, and the most fundamental ones are two aspects: self (personal) value and social value. People's self-worth is not only reflected in the significance of personal existence (the importance, responsibility and contribution of individuals to society) and the satisfaction of personal needs, but also in the respect and satisfaction of individuals by society. People's social value is manifested in the individual's satisfaction of social needs and contribution to social progress.
Marx said: "When choosing a career, the main criteria we should follow are human happiness and our own perfection." These two interests should not be regarded as hostile and conflicting. "'Human happiness' here refers to social value, and' self-improvement' refers to self-value. In Marx's view, these two values are not hostile, but unified. What is the basis of this unification? He works for the perfection and happiness of his contemporaries. Marx put it well: "People can only achieve perfection by working hard for the perfection of their contemporaries and their happiness." It is recognized in history that people who work hard for the same goal and become noble are great people. Experience praises those who bring happiness to most people as the happiest people. "These discourses brilliantly clarify the relationship between human social value and self-value: social value is the basis of self-value, and people with high social value must have high self-value.
Theoretically speaking, the relationship between people's self-worth and social value is very clear, but when it comes to a certain person, the embodiment of these two value relationships is often very different. Some people often evaluate their self-worth by their own money, power, knowledge, status and even their own "self-design".
This is unscientific. Because they can't explain what contribution they have to society and what social value they have. There is no basis for evaluating self-worth without social value. In other words, if your money comes from the wrong sources, you abuse power for personal gain, you use your knowledge to do bad things, you eat, drink and even engage in corruption all day, not only can you not realize your self-worth, but you will also degenerate into a black sheep of society. As a realistic person in certain social practice, measuring his value can only be his contribution to society. The greater the contribution, the greater the value; The smaller the contribution, the smaller the value; No contribution, no value. The "personal value" theorists only emphasize "self-value" without talking about social value, and even deny and obliterate social value with self-value, which is extremely wrong.
Historical experience is worth noting. Under the traditional planned economy system, we failed to handle the relationship between self-value and social value, and often emphasized social value while ignoring self-value. Mainly manifested in: one-sided emphasis on the unconditional obedience of personal interests to the interests of the state and the collective, and insufficient attention to the legitimate interests and requirements of the individual, which encourages the individual's dependence on the state and the collective and is not conducive to the individual's enthusiasm and creativity. Since the reform and opening up, with the transformation from planned economy system to market economy system, the tendency of emphasizing self-value and ignoring social value has reappeared. Some people do not hesitate to harm the national and collective interests in order to realize their self-worth, which must be stopped and corrected.
3, sometimes, emotions are really difficult to control, and they will get out of control inexplicably!
When a person's emotions are out of effective control, then, in that state, he sometimes loses himself, and perhaps, he himself will doubt some behaviors at that time! Then, the possible consequence is that in that state, his emotional self-regulation ability will be extremely reduced!
There are many situations that can lead to self-loss:
Stimulated by alcohol, when a person consumes more alcohol than he can bear, usually many people will lose themselves for a short time in this case;
In the state of love, when a person is in this state, his mood will sometimes be influenced by the other person, and will change because of the change of the other person's mood, and there will be frequent self-loss. Although the influence is different according to everyone's emotional control ability, I believe that most of them will be affected to some extent;
It is often seen that we encounter unbearable external stimuli, such as betrayal or death of close relatives and friends; Encountered great setbacks in the work; Serious differences arising from family conflicts. In this case, even people with excellent psychological quality will be greatly affected. According to the individual's psychological endurance and adaptability, the frequency and degree of self-loss are also different.
This situation is actually very common because of the conflict of outlook on life or values. Man is a creature that gradually grows and perfects himself. In the process of growing up, what they see and hear will cause inner conflicts and ideological conflicts, whether you are children, young people or middle-aged and elderly people, whether you are poor or rich, whether you are farmers or citizens. In many times of self-contradiction and confusion, many people will wander about losing themselves and rediscovering themselves, which may also be the embodiment of a certain essence of life!
In fact, there are many situations that may lead people to lose themselves, but they are not necessarily representative.
If a person can always firmly maintain self-identity thinking and behavior, then this person is absolutely worthy of respect and admiration! Because, he has absolutely strong psychological quality and psychological endurance! However, I personally think that the probability of such people appearing is very low. Maybe there is no such person in the world!
So I originally wanted to make the topic' Don't lose yourself', but after thinking about it, I think it is still too difficult to achieve this level. Almost impossible task!
So, tell yourself, try not to lose yourself!
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