How to treat your mistakes? It is human nature to make mistakes, it is human nature to make mistakes, and it is not great to be a good person. If many mistakes are admitted early and corrected in time, the harm will not be too great, and the responsibility you need to bear will not be too great. If you cover up procrastination, the mistakes will not stop, and the damage will only get bigger and bigger, which will eventually make it difficult for you to take responsibility, so you have to accept punishment, which is harmful to others and yourself. For example, in the Three Gorges Project, it was a mistake from "once in a million years to" once in a thousand years "to" don't expect too much ". Admitting the facts is the solution. If you don't admit the fact that you made a mistake, you will naturally make a mistake again and continue to build. Geological disasters and ecological disasters occur frequently, or one day, when the flood is terrible and the people turn into fish and shrimp, you just send out the People's Liberation Army at will, but you just add more fish and shrimp. The forces of nature will never be resisted by ignorance or lies. For your mistakes, you can put down your face, admit them as soon as possible, correct them in time, and actively remedy them. If you are arrogant, deny, or try to avoid responsibility and cover up your mistakes, you will only make mistakes again and again, harming others and yourself, and even the country and the people.
How to treat other people's mistakes? If people are willing to admit their mistakes, they don't have to hold on to them. If they are willing to remedy and correct, they can also consider giving them a hand. After all, no one can guarantee that he won't make mistakes. To be kind to others is to be kind to himself. But for those who are too proud to admit their mistakes, it's okay if they just hurt themselves. If it still brings disaster to others, even to the country and the people, it is necessary to severely repair it, or even strike hard and punish it with an iron fist; If a few people make a big mistake, they would rather die than admit it and refuse to correct it, they should be let die. Can't innocent people be poisoned by these people for nothing?
Whether others point out our mistakes or we take the initiative to reflect on our own mistakes, admit and correct them, it is not to explain to others, but to improve ourselves. If a person never doubts that he may be wrong, then he usually makes a big mistake, a special mistake, or even an irreparable mistake; Only by accepting criticism, constantly reflecting and "introspection three times a day" can we learn from our mistakes and grow.
2. (The paragraph is a bit confusing)
A promising soldier killed his comrade-in-arms by mistake in an exercise. He was filled with remorse, applied for retirement and gave up his bright future. However, leaving the military camp failed to relieve his conscience. The scene of the tragic death of his comrade-in-arms often appears in his mind, and he has been living in regret and pain since then. A moment's negligence caused irreparable harm. It can be said that he should repent, but will this make up for the great harm caused to the relatives of the deceased? Presumably, what people want to see is that he will cheer up from his regrets, face life bravely, and try his best to make up for the damage caused to his comrades' families with practical actions.
In life, people will make some mistakes more or less. In the face of inevitable mistakes, some people face them calmly and correct them actively, which becomes a stepping stone to success. They can learn from their mistakes and keep learning, so that they can laugh at them and make them more valuable. Others, however, can't look them in the eye, or try their best to defend them, ignore their existence and lead a muddled life. Or fall into a mistake, doubt yourself, lose confidence in yourself, or even exile yourself because of a mistake. If the former people build a bridge between themselves and happiness, then the latter people cut off their road to happiness-even if they can get happiness by taking a small step, they would rather let sadness surround them.
When interviewed by a reporter, a centenarian was asked about the reasons for his long life. The old man replied in a dialect that sounded unclear: "Learn to be happy. The secret of happiness is: don't care less about other people's mistakes, but think more about your own. It's not hard for others, so don't give yourself a hard time. "The old man's words are unpretentious and thoughtful, but full of wisdom. Let's not talk about how to treat other people's mistakes, let's talk about how to face our own mistakes. Worth our understanding. As I said before, it is inevitable that one will make mistakes. If he is too obsessed with past mistakes and stops moving forward, he will not only lead an unhappy life, but may never succeed.
Scientists with outstanding achievements often have countless failures and countless mistakes behind them. One of the important reasons for their success is to face up to their mistakes, sum up lessons, learn wisdom and gain experience. Edison invented the electric light and experimented with thousands of materials. The curies discovered radium and experienced many failures. Didn't their success show us the correct attitude when facing our own mistakes? ,
Instead of choosing long-term pain and lifelong regret like that soldier, we should think more about the wise answers of centenarians, treat our mistakes correctly and believe that happiness and success are not far away.
3.
No one is perfect, and there is no shortage of gold. It is impossible for a person not to make mistakes all his life. Personally, making mistakes is a process of accumulating experience.
Sometimes the future, direction and goal are not clear, and there is often no ready-made reference on how to go in the future. This may be crossing the river by feeling the stones, or it may be another way. Naturally, there is a risk of making mistakes, but we should not be timid because we may make mistakes. Explore when it's time to explore, and move forward when it's time to move forward, otherwise you will miss all kinds of opportunities. Although mistakes are inevitable, they may not necessarily create new opportunities. We should be careful, because the wrong behavior will bring losses and injuries to others, and we should try to make fewer or no mistakes, at least not to make the same mistakes twice. Making mistakes can be forgiven, but making the same mistakes is unforgivable.
Making mistakes is not terrible. The key is to be able to recognize them, correct them, sum up experience and learn from them. Even if you are afraid to know your mistake, you will still refuse to admit it, never repent and continue on the wrong path. Some people make mistakes, but they are afraid of losing face, self-esteem, admitting and facing problems. This evasive attitude towards mistakes is actually a fear of the difficulty of correcting them. This is very unwise. This is not conducive to the correction of mistakes, but also to the healthy growth and rapid progress of individuals. Dare to admit mistakes, dare to face reality, be able to cut tumors and scrape bones to cure drugs, and let the sick body recover as soon as possible, which is wise.
Mistakes in thought will inevitably lead to mistakes in action. To change the mistakes in action, we must first solve the mistakes in thought. Recognizing mistakes is the premise of correcting them. Some people do something wrong, but they don't think it's wrong because they don't know it correctly. To understand and correct mistakes, we must have a scientific attitude and a spirit of seeking truth from facts. We should follow the law of the development of things, adopt the correct way of thinking, fully understand the situation and correctly evaluate it. Investigate all kinds of factors affecting the development of things in detail, consider the purpose, motivation, behavior, result and influence in the overall situation and reality, so as to find the symptoms of the problem and make logical and regular judgments on the process and result of the development of things.