There are many kinds of feelings in the world, but one kind of love is selfless, and that is the love of parents for their children. Love can help children grow up healthily, but doting hinders their growth.
Children are parents' treasures, and loving children is parents' instinct. In our family education in China, China's parents are among the best in doting on their children. Spoiling is the abnormal psychology of human nature, a shackle, a trap, a rope and a signal of danger.
In our family in China, every parent dotes on their children. Children are really born in honeypots and grow in honeypots. It is parents' nature to love children. However, it is parents' dereliction of duty to spoil and indulge their children too much. Elders are always worried that their grandchildren will suffer, and they always refuse to let their children learn to walk and fall to the ground. Grandchildren are spoiled, their clothes are stretched and their mouths are full of food. Children can't do housework at all. The child does nothing at all. You see, even in the school mountaineering competition, parents followed, rented a sedan chair to carry their children up the mountain, fearing that something would happen to them, and people would take care of them everywhere. If this goes on, how can children grow up! When a child becomes an adult, it is easy to slide to the edge of crime.
However, not every parent knows how to educate their children and let them form the habit of doing it themselves from an early age, just like their previous parents. If the child falls, don't help him, let him stand up and solve the problem with his brain. This has cultivated their judgment, analytical ability and adaptability. Even if their parents are not around, they will do better, succeed step by step and become the pillars of society.
It is the wish of many parents that their children become dragons and their daughters become phoenixes. But if you want to realize these wishes, you can't spoil them too much. Young parents and respected elders, if you want to train your child into a useful talent, a healthy and beautiful person, please listen to my advice: please stop doting on your child!