So, please don't say "no" easily. It is not a tool to be brave, nor an excuse to escape. However, in life, we never mean "no". Elect the squad leader, in order to avoid the important, flaunt yourself as "not daring to be the first in the world", and no one volunteered; But when I was late for school, I refused to let the doorman register my name with a tough attitude to show my courage. Little did I know that I had three treasures at that time: kindness, frugality and not being the first in the world. It was at the time when the princes were fighting for hegemony and the world was in chaos that his "courage" advised people not to rush to fame and fortune, so that the war was in turmoil and the lives were ruined. This is no excuse to shirk responsibility. However, courage is not arrogant and unreasonable. Confucius said that "knowing shame is almost brave." It is brave to realize your mistakes.
Don't say "no" easily. When the world is unclear and the world is not worldly, we should use "no" rationally before we have a deep understanding of what "no" is.
Don't say "no" easily, but also because it requires us to pay a price, sometimes even the price of blood and life. The defeated Xiang Yu said "no" to the director of Wujiang Pavilion, gave up the opportunity to make a comeback and committed suicide in Wujiang River. From then on, Farewell My Concubine became a swan song. Han Xin, who never said "no" or refused her help, endured humiliation and became a great star. The reason is that Xiang Yu cares too much about his heroism, but he doesn't know that a gentleman can bend and stretch, just like Han Xin. If Xiang Yu does not say "no" easily, I am afraid that history will be rewritten, and Xiang Yu may be more than just a tragic hero.
Saying "no" is sometimes a life-and-death choice. Please think carefully before you act.
Of course, saying "no" in front of evil forces is like Wen Tianxiang's swan song "No one has died since ancient times, so we can take care of our history" in the Yuan Dynasty, saying "no" in front of turbid things, such as Qu Yuan throwing himself into the river, such as Tao Qian living in seclusion, saying "no" in front of setbacks and difficulties, such as Beethoven's cry of "grasping the throat of fate", such as the miracle created by Guanyin with thousands of hands ... They are real brave people. So, please don't say "no" easily.