Just like when we were young, when we wanted something, even if it was unreasonable or unattainable, there was nothing we could do. Because we don't know how to stop, we are always beaten and scolded.
Later, when we grow up, our knowledge is also growing, knowing that not everything can be as we wish. Of course, time not only tells us a lot of truth, but also needs us to learn to accept some things frankly. I'm not like an ignorant age, and I can't let go of my obsession.
There are many things in life that make you addicted and may kill your time, wisdom and youth invisibly. Whether you are in this situation or not, you may be at a loss, and you are confused but helpless. Don't be afraid, people will always re-examine themselves in the past. I never think that people who make mistakes will become hopeless. When you realize your mistake, the new light is not far away.
I used to be like this, but now I know I made many mistakes. So, I learned to restrain myself, to reflect on myself, to stop complaining about life when there is a problem, and to understand the difficulty of others ... naturally, I am not as impetuous as before, although sometimes I am depressed, but it makes sense. I think time will make some people open-minded. This may just be learning restraint.
Learning to handle some things properly is a good thing for yourself and others. I think this is a bit like the golden mean, that is, to grasp the balance.