Recently, major media rushed to report that the 7-year-old girl was abused by her biological father and stepmother and lived on the balcony for a long time. The girl also fell from the balcony on the second floor because of hunger and went to the convenience store to steal something to eat. Then it was sent to the rescue station, and the street office also launched an investigation and help. I am deeply sympathetic and angry about this. This incident exposed various social problems. First of all, children from single parents or divorced families are vulnerable. Children who grow up in such a family lack the love of one parent. And this love needs more care and love from parents to make up for it, but many parents just ignore their children's desire for this love. This has a negative impact on children's physical and mental health, coupled with parental abuse and violence. So can such a child be healthy? Second, society does not pay enough attention to these children. Why did the 7-year-old girl fall off the balcony on the second floor before being found out about her tragic experience? Why have children been abused for a long time, but no one cares? Then, when teachers and schools found that students dropped out of school, did they communicate with their parents? If you communicate, won't the students know that they have been abused? Then people come and go in the community. I wonder if the children live on the balcony for a long time? If you know why you didn't lend a helping hand to the girl at that time, only after she was wronged did you stand up and speak. Isn't that ironic?
Home is like a big tree. The tree fell and the fruit was scattered all over the floor. People are talking about why the tree fell, but they ignore the fruit that is about to mature. For children living in single-parent or divorced families, parents should strengthen their self-cultivation and set an example. At the same time, with healthy psychology, personality strength and social morality, we should help our children to establish a sound personality of autonomy, self-confidence, self-esteem, tenacity, honesty and openness.
In this regard, social media can do more than just report and help, but fundamentally solve the problem-put an end to such incidents. Instead of letting the tragedy happen before it can be remedied, why not stop it? Communities and streets should organize more residents to carry out activities about the harm of child abuse, so that people can know more about how to take good care of children and change their ideas. Schools and teachers should communicate with students and parents to avoid child abuse.
Children are the flowers of the motherland and the hope of the future. It is the unshirkable responsibility of every parent to educate their children correctly and let them grow up healthily.