The eyes can't determine the position, but the position is always different because of the eyes. The key is that even if we are in a certain position, our eyes can still be cast in any direction.
As long as we feel at ease in our own position, everything around us will be centered on us, or leave us, or come at us, or revolve around us, or be silent to us; If we always feel that there is no suitable place, then everything around us will become masters. We should wait on them before and after running, flatter them from both sides, cater to them jumping up and down, and compliment them from the inside out.
The image of Mount Everest in the eyes of climbers is not its location, but its height. As long as it is gold, where it is placed, there is a place for gold. A great man is always choosing his position; Only mediocre people will look around and choose their own position.
There is not much difference in position itself, but people in different positions often have different impressions when they look at the same object.
When you are in the position of an actor, you must learn to perform; When you are in the audience position, you must learn to appreciate. Society is a big stage, but we always can't tell whether we are performing or enjoying. Perhaps, life is to let us perform with the mentality of the audience and appreciate with the mentality of the actors; Perhaps, this can just test a person's adjustment and adaptability at any time.
From the standpoint of parents, you can have more love and patience and more hope that will never go out; From the standpoint of children, you can have more true feelings and deep feelings, and you can also have more guilt that will never decrease. Life is about making everyone feel this feeling of hope and guilt, and then arranging for us to become parents immediately after being children for a while.
Only by standing in the position of others can you understand others and miss your own position; A person who doesn't understand others and has no nostalgia for his position will hardly have any position in others' minds. Of course, this also means that at no time should you stand on your own side to show off yourself, and at no time should you stand on others' side to belittle others.
No matter where you are, find meaning.