Police investigations revealed that the deceased was a 33-year-old woman from Guangdong, China. She was found with her hands and feet tied and curled up in a suitcase.
Yes, the murderer was none other than Xiaoli's husband Lu.
It is understood that Lu is a famous liar, who knows how to package himself in a glamorous way. He has repeatedly defrauded Xiaoli's friends of money in the name of purchasing and helping to buy air tickets to Thailand.
Xiaoli went to Thailand this time to get her husband's money back.
As a result, the money was not recovered, but it took its own life.
Is there any reason why a husband can be cruel to his wife next time?
It turned out that the acquaintance between Xiaoli and Lu was a scam.
Xiaoli is in the clothing business and often travels back and forth to Thailand to meet Lu.
At first, Lu was very kind to Xiaoli. Although Lu had no money, he knew how to package and was generous. He was obedient to Xiaoli and quickly captured Xiaoli's heart.
But after a long time, everyone found that Lu had no stable job and occupation and owed a lot of gambling debts.
Lumou forged a fake Marriage Certificate and gave birth to a child with Xiaoli. The purpose is to gain Xiaoli's trust through false feelings and cheat her friends of their money.
The poor child was born less than three months ago, and because of the crime of "husband", the light of hope for a better life in the future of several families was extinguished.
To this end, Xiaoli also paid the price of her life.
It is said that the most important thing to find the other half is personality, followed by love.
Why?
Because love may die, but personality will not change easily.
Marriage is like a gamble. If you don't choose your partner carefully enough and find a person with a bad personality, your future will be very difficult.
On the contrary, if you find a man with good character, even if you lose the bet, you won't lose too badly.
How to judge each other's personality, I have summarized the following points for you:
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Attitude towards the weak
Hide each other's personalities
On September 15, a short message triggered a heated discussion.
Mr. Tang, a takeaway from Maanshan, Anhui, delivered the meal to the east gate of Anhui University of Technology according to the order. Because of the epidemic control, it can't be sent downstairs. Brother asked the students who ordered the food to pick it up at the north gate.
Unexpectedly, the student not only refused to cooperate, but also refused to answer the phone, and insulted the takeaway brother by SMS after taking the meal. After the incident was exposed, it caused a heated discussion.
A person's character is hidden in his attitude towards the weak.
People who like to show superiority to service personnel, children and weak women are basically people without emotional ability.
People who don't know how to respect each other will naturally get no respect from others. Getting along with such people will only lower your bottom line and cause unnecessary trouble.
On August 20th, a video was circulated on the Internet, which angered netizens.
In the video, a man holds up a two-or three-year-old child and slams on the sofa.
When the baby cries, the man has no intention of stopping. Instead, he lifted the baby again and slammed it on the sofa. ...
It is understood that the man in the video is the father of the child. Husband and wife are pregnant before marriage, and it is controversial to raise their children. The man actually lifted the child in a rage and fell on the sofa!
Finally, the child died after being rescued.
To what extent should a person be heartless before he can do such a thing to his children?
People who have no sympathy for the weak will naturally not consider your situation. When you break up, it may be your most dangerous time.
It is better to be alone freely than to get along in fear.
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Attitude towards money
Hide each other's personalities
Recently, there was a plot in the hit drama "Twenty Don't Chaos" which caused public outrage.
Jiang's family is average, and he has been worried about money for four years in college. Even so, she lent her roommate Wang Wei 300 yuan money as the fare to go home.
However, Wang Wei seems to have forgotten that he has never mentioned the matter of paying back 300 yuan and a ginger fruit.
Until one day, Jiang found Wang Wei's name on the list of students who applied for 4,000 yuan, so he got up the courage to find Wang Wei and go back to 300 yuan.
As a result, when the two met, Wang Wei not only pushed the buck and said that the money had been returned, but also dragged on. In private, she was busy buying herself new clothes and shoes, and finally even bit Jiang, saying that she was humiliated.
You can feel Jiang's grievance and anger through the screen when you are bitten by a good-hearted borrower.
Money is character. Lending you money depends on mutual affection. If you are not only ungrateful, but also blame others for urging you to pay back the money, then your character can also be seen.
You think that money is the most valuable thing in the world, but you don't know that the lost character is a person's greatest wealth.
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What does it look like when it's low
Hide each other's personalities
How to judge each other's character? Don't look at him when he is proud, look at him when he is frustrated.
Look at him when he is most angry, when he is most angry, when he is down and out, when he is misunderstood.
If all these are acceptable to you, then you can choose to continue to associate with him.
The recent posting on Zhihu's last webpage caused a great sensation.
The netizen said that his best friend, because of quarreling with her boyfriend, smashed all the papers and materials in her boyfriend's computer in a rage.
It turns out that my best friend's boyfriend stayed up late for the last month to write a title evaluation paper. Seeing that my boyfriend is so hard, it is useless to persuade him to go to bed early, so I secretly took some Cordyceps from home to make soup for my boyfriend.
As a result, my boyfriend stopped drinking after drinking two glasses, but turned on the computer to continue writing the paper.
My best friend was anxious, and when she saw that her boyfriend had failed her kindness, she unplugged the computer in a rage. To this end, they had an argument.
Finally, my best friend smashed the paper in her boyfriend's computer in a rage.
To know how much effort and hair you have to pay for a paper, you hit someone else's paper, but in the other person's eyes, you hit the other person's life.
Seeing a person's lowest point clearly is like giving ourselves a shot in the arm, which makes us more aware that some people deserve to make friends and some people should keep their distance as soon as possible.
If you can't accept his appearance at this time, please leave him decisively.
Remember the man who cried in front of the camera because of the 90 million losses caused by the flood?
On July 10, after the flood receded in Shexian County, Anhui Province, when the person in charge went to the factory to clean up, he couldn't help crying when he saw the scene.
One of the affected tea enterprises lost nearly 3,000 tons of tea, amounting to 90 million yuan.
But instead of complaining, he took the initiative to take responsibility, tried every means to save the remaining tea leaves, tried every means to recover some losses, and paid the tea farmers with the money he earned.
I think people can best reflect a person's character when they are proud, but it is not. Only when you are frustrated can you see each other's character best.
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And those who lose their temper once they are unhappy, even play tricks on others, do things that hurt others on the pretext of being in a bad mood, or stay away as soon as possible.
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Write it at the end
Having said so much, how can we find a high-quality object?
There is an interesting question and answer in Zhihu: How to find a boyfriend from Tsinghua or Peking University?
A: Let yourself be a student of Tsinghua Peking University.
In fact, the best way to find an excellent object is not to search hard or pester others, but to make yourself an equally excellent person.