Go your own way. My own way lies in the ability to think clearly, not in survival. In this society full of pressure and competition, in China, a special society with historical charm, I can't change it. I chose to adapt on the premise that my heart is full of blood. In this special society, I have not only created rich opportunities, but also brought all kinds of puzzles, emotional desolation, expansion of desire, ubiquitous loneliness, inner conflicts and all kinds of misfortunes in life. Sometimes, although life is hard, awakening and thinking give me good ideas! The rise of thought and the tempering of will are my motivation and passion for a better life. From the lessons of previous people's blood and tears, I gradually realized that only myself, not others, can save myself. Even the reincarnation of the Bodhisattva and the visit of Jesus can't help anyone out of trouble. Therefore, I think that only by being yourself can we do everything well. I am a young man who has just left school and set foot on the society. In the face of this noisy society and the opportunity of great changes, I often feel confused, at a loss and uneasy. Sometimes I feel that I am new here, and I have no right or money, so my position is so small; At the same time, I will feel that I only know theory, practice too little and my ability is really limited. I have no confidence in how to gain a foothold in this prickly society. In order to adapt to it, I must first integrate into this special society and truly belong to this society, not a dull student in an ivory tower. The road is your own, and you have to face painful, dangerous and unknown things on this road. I can only evaluate the pain, danger and unknown things with beautiful eyes, which inspires the vitality of my life. Because of my own efforts, I respect life. Here, I think my life is a play, and I will devote myself to making this play magnificent, noble and heroic. So as to laugh at all difficulties and setbacks, stand on this stage and create my joys and sorrows for the rest of my life. I often ask myself some questions. Do I adapt to this society? Ask yourself, can you change this society? Then see if I can answer perfectly. I find that there is no perfect answer in front of this big society. You can only change your point of view because of society, because the system is different and your life is different. You are eager for other systems, foreign systems, which are beyond your power. You can adjust your mind in hesitation and frustration and find your long-term spiritual foundation. Six elements of my life: self-awareness. At any time, you should be self-conscious on the road of life, master your own path and save your soul. Surrender to a society with high consumption, high housing prices and dissatisfaction. When this social system cannot be changed, I want to purify my mind and thoughts, dare to accept this challenge, do my best, have a clear conscience, adapt to the society according to my own principles, and recognize myself. Emotional enjoyment. No matter what kind of social system, I still have my own family, friendship and love. This is my greatest wealth and a harbor for my soul. Having my happiness makes me do something, love and hope. Cherish the people who love me and the people I love, let love fill my world, feel the beauty of life, the beauty of life, and give my heart the last fragrance. Interpersonal relationship. This is the system of human society, relations, the competition of rights, and interpersonal relationship is not only a friendly exchange of families, but also a means of mutual benefit between people. It is also the cornerstone to adapt to this society and the necessary means for economic growth and superstructure. China is a characteristic socialism, which is different from other countries. Interpersonal relationship runs through your life and the level of your society. Under this system, national identity is reflected. The foundation of democracy embodies the recognition of system and society, so we must have good interpersonal communication to achieve good interpersonal relationship and develop ourselves to adapt to society. Follow-up of thinking. The world is changing too fast. We are bound by the history of China and blocked by society. We should open the skylight, don't let the inertia of thinking continue to affect our lives, don't let our lives fall into rigidity and decay, look at the new world, absorb different cultures and systems in the world, and cultivate our own dialectical thinking. Self-ability. In the course of our life, when we are faced with difficulties and adversity, we should strengthen our ability to survive, strengthen our ability to adapt to this society, cast enough intensity of life, and cultivate our ability to withstand social pressure, both technically and ideologically. This is the foundation of our existence, and we must have the will and spirit of never giving up. Life planning. Although we can't clearly see our own development in the future world, we can wholeheartedly predict our own path, plan and build our own world and life, show our own blueprint, find life, experience life and enrich life according to our own rules according to our own planned life trajectory, and don't rely on anyone to change your destiny. Only you can grasp it, and I firmly believe that I can. This is an indispensable factor in my life, and it is also my sail, floating in the water, drifting in an orderly way, braving the wind and waves, and experiencing the changes of the journey. Although I am tired of the hidden dangerous waves, I must face them bravely, add fuel to the fire, stir up ripples, weave the theme of my life, take my own route and take my own life path. China, I still love you in the future.