Dad can let children learn to be strong, learn to be masculine, and even let girls learn how to be women. Without fatherly love, children tend to show anxiety, inferiority, lack of enthusiasm, weak self-control and dependence. Children who lack the ability of fatherly love and lover are vulnerable to setbacks in their future relationships.

In the process of educating children, parents must pay attention to this kind of behavior, intervene and stop it in time, and carry out necessary life education for children. It is necessary to let children know the existence of life, understand the value of life, recognize the value of life, stimulate children's love for life, and produce reverence for life.

In the process of family education, the lack of father will easily lead to children's insecurity, and in the process of interpersonal communication in the future, they will be bullied by others because of their introverted, timid and few words, and they will easily become victims of campus violence; Negative emotions such as inferiority make him very sensitive, and it is difficult to make friends or maintain relatively healthy interpersonal relationships in interpersonal communication; Very emotional leads to loneliness, difficulty in getting close to or making new friends, or indulging in the internet and games, leaving the real interpersonal circle.

Children grow up in families where their fathers are absent. Boys generally lack the masculinity of men, while girls lack the sense of security. When they grow up, it is easy to find an uncle as a partner. Moreover, children who grow up in this environment don't know much about getting along with the other half after marriage, which lays a hidden danger for the marriage relationship.

Mom is generally more emotional when dealing with problems, and it is easy to get confused when encountering things. At present, the image of a father in a crisis will become an example for children to learn, so that children can know how to stabilize their emotions and handle things calmly.

Fathers should pay special attention to standardizing their children's words and deeds, so that children can be polite, civilized and hygienic, learn to share, know how to sympathize and pity, play games with children more, talk to children more, listen to their voices, admit their hobbies and feelings, and share their interests and happiness, even hobbies.

If the father himself represents a tall, straight, strong, upright and decisive image, then once the father is absent from family education, the psychological impact on the child is inferiority and conceit; Cowardice and violence; Extreme psychology such as timidity and rebellion, these unhealthy psychology have a great and lasting negative impact on personal life, family life and social life.