Laozi: "The strong die, the weak live", and the gentleness of jellyfish is the tolerance of "the prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach". Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang is so arrogant, it's outrageous!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. Only water can be used as a universal container. Praise Jiangwan, like water, "the prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach", which can hold the world.
Good deeds make Jiang Wan really able to punt in his stomach and make him immortal.
"Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak." Everyone knows this sentence, but how many people really understand it and put it into action? ! Good words say that three winters are warm, water is as inclusive, and it is the warm sun in the snow-like winter; Bad words in June hurt people. Without gentleness and tolerance, even in the hot June, it will make people feel chilling. Learning the water-like character starts from a very small place, which is the beginning of all morality.
Tolerance is like water, gentleness like water is a virtue. Only by sparing no effort can Mount Tai become taller. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Water-like tolerance Mount Tai is a towering mountain, and it is a river and lake that accommodates all rivers and lakes.
When dealing with friends, be as tolerant and gentle as water. She is the "high mountain and flowing water" of Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya. Forgive each other's shortcomings and their own shortcomings, so that friendship can last forever, and the world can be as clean, inclusive and clean as lotus flowers.
Kindness is like water, tolerance is like water, tenderness is like water, and beauty is like water. Tolerance and gentleness are mutual. If you tolerate others, others will understand and tolerate you, and your gentleness to others will make your heart calm, so that society will become more harmonious!
Friends, let's start from small things, learn to be kind like water, learn to be tolerant like water, and have a heart as wide as the sea!