Zhang is a posthumous child, his mother pinned all her hopes on him, and his stepfather treated him like a parent. Grandparents are spoiled in every way, leading to

Zhang has been willful since he was a child, and everything follows his heart. Otherwise, he wouldn't eat in anger. One day, my sister came home from work and gave the four sweets she got at the tea party to her brother, but she didn't give them to him. He lost his temper, kicked his sister and went into the room alone. When her sister opened the door to see him, she saw a red scarf around Zhang's neck, and a life ended.

Xiaobo lives in a relatively wealthy family. Grandma is very generous, as long as her grades are good, she will give as much money as she wants and use as much money as she wants. A father used his business experience to enlighten his son. If he has no knowledge to do things outside, he will suffer. Mom told Xiaobo that as long as you study hard and do nothing, the author will die. Parents' wishes are good, but in terms of methods, they blindly obey and invest heavily in their studies, but they don't care about their children's non-intellectual factors. As a result, wavelet has a special sense of superiority. Like a little emperor at home, his pocket is full of pocket money, and he has learned to smoke, gamble and fight. I didn't study hard, I failed in the exam, and no one has accepted the repetition. He simply didn't go to school, played with a group of boys, and finally became a thief, and his family's hopes were dashed.

A middle-aged couple got married in their thirties. Middle-aged children are extremely happy. They regard their children as their darling and everything depends on them. Children are particularly naughty, willful and greedy. When I was in primary school, my parents didn't give me enough pocket money, so I started stealing and fighting. When I was in junior high school, I actually developed into masked theft.

Jin Jingjing was born in a wealthy peasant family envied by her peers. My parents opened a gold mine a few years ago and accumulated a lot of wealth, becoming the richest man in the village. My father drives Audi A6, and my mother drives Jetta King. Every time I go out to play mahjong in the village, I have to drive. The affluence of the family has made Jin Jingjing pampered since childhood, and she has developed a non-intellectual factor of indolence and willfulness. She learned to smoke and drink and spent a lot of money. In the countryside, her monthly expenditure is 2000 yuan, which lags far behind other children. If you have no money, ask your parents for it, ranging from two thousand to tens of thousands. On one occasion, she lied about buying things and asked her father for 10 thousand yuan. His father gave him a stack of 100 yuan bills, which amounted to 22,000 yuan and was spent in less than two months. Her mother scolded her many times, and Jin Jingjing held a grudge. Later, I couldn't get the money, and even cruelly killed my mother with a hammer with my boyfriend.

A 6-year-old delinquent boy, an only child, whose parents are workers and have no education, has a relatively rich family life. He has given everything he wants to say since he was a child. Father loves to drink almost every day, while son often eats vegetables at the same table, and sometimes tries to make up two cups. Instead of interfering, the father praised his son as "really good". Slowly, he learned to drink and spend money when he was seven or eight years old, and his father was sometimes generous enough to let him pay for it himself. So, at a very young age, I learned to go to restaurants and shops. Parents not only did not stop it, but also said, "The author has money at home, so who can spend it if he doesn't let it?" . Because of his generosity, those students who don't behave well are all around him. He learned to smoke and gamble again. After his poor performance in school, his academic performance declined. At first, because of the teacher's urging, parents criticized a few words, and when they saw that they could not manage their children, they simply left them alone. Instead, he said, "I will be a worker and drive a machine in the future, and I have no education." As a result, his son often played truant and ate "zero eggs" in exams, which later developed into theft and robbery. And ended up in prison.

One day, a cocoon cracked a small mouth, and a small butterfly was struggling to get its weak body out of that small mouth bit by bit. A man happened to see this scene, and he looked at it curiously. Several hours passed, but Little Butterfly still didn't succeed ... Next, Little Butterfly didn't seem to make any progress. It seems that I have tried my best and it is difficult to go any further. The man was really distressed and decided to help the little butterfly: he took a pair of scissors and carefully broke the cocoon, and the little butterfly came out easily. But its body is shrinking, its wings are tightly attached to its body, crawling and moving. He held his breath and expected the little butterfly to spread its wings and fly, just like those beautiful butterflies in his good memory ... however, this moment never appeared. Finally, the poor little butterfly just crawled on the ground with its shriveled body and shriveled wings for a while, and then left the world and the person who kindly helped it forever before taking a look. What this kind-hearted man doesn't know is that it is nature for butterflies to struggle out of small openings in cocoons. Through this struggle, the butterfly will squeeze the body fluids into its wings, so that it can spread its wings and fly after cocoon emergence. In fact, people are the same. In the process of growing up, sometimes you need your own struggle, even struggle. Excessive care will only shrink life and even kill it.

These are all materials about doting, and I think the last material is the best. Sometimes people feel that happiness is not necessarily true happiness for the undertaker, but it will hurt him.

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Throughout the ages, many people with lofty ideals and effective celebrities have received good family education in their childhood, which is an important reason for their success in the future. For example, Goethe, a great German poet and playwright, succeeded because of his early family education. When Goethe was 2-3 years old, his father took him to the countryside for an outing to observe nature and cultivate Goethe's observation ability. At the age of 3-4, his father taught him to sing, recite ballads and tell fairy tales, and specially asked him to give a speech in front of everyone to cultivate his oral English. These conscious education made Goethe optimistic, willing to think and good at learning. Goethe was able to read various books in French, German, English, Italian, Latin and Greek at the age of 8, wrote plays at the age of 65,438+04, and wrote the famous poem "The Trouble of Young Werther" within a month at the age of 25. Another example is the growth process of the famous ancient "father and son calligraphers" Wang Xizhi and Wang Xianzhi, the great inventor Edison with more than 1350 inventions, the literary superstar Guo Moruo, Mao Dun and other celebrities, which shows the importance of family education to early intellectual development. On the contrary, in many cases, the normal development of intelligence is affected by people's lack of good family education in childhood.