Family education experience, about 500 words. Primary school (1) children are the future of the motherland, and it is every parent's wish to have a long-term success. In the process of educating children, I believe that every parent has accumulated some experience, and educating children well is our common goal. Here, I want to share with you some thoughts and experiences in the process of educating children, so that we can discuss ways to educate children together.
Every child has his strong points. My child xx has achieved excellent academic performance and made great progress in all aspects during his nearly two years' education at school. Thanks to the hard work of the teachers and the help and good influence of the students. In children's family education, we think it is very important to encourage children, guide their interests and cultivate their persistent good study habits.
1, encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My child's intelligence is very average, and sometimes he will listen to some negative language, such as: it's so difficult, I can't learn, I won't participate, I can't do well, and others will laugh at me. We told him many stories about the growth of celebrities and asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up. He said: When an archaeologist or explorer wants to see the pyramids and go to Disneyland, we tell him that archaeologists and explorers need a lot of knowledge. Chinese and mathematics are the foundation. What if you can't speak a foreign language? So he felt that he had to study to realize his wish. At the same time, in the process of learning, we try to apply the content of learning to life and games, which makes him feel a lot of fun. Every time he makes progress, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make him happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage him to say: I believe I will do better next time.
Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.
2. Actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education. It is very reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. This is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of school arrangements, learning contents, learning progress, children's performance in school, what they have done well and what they have not done well. Therefore, in addition to busy work and occasional business trips, we will strictly urge and assist our children to complete their homework, carefully check their completion, help him check for leaks, explain what he doesn't understand, and let him strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell him to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell him why it is not good and what to do in the future.
Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, finishing homework seriously, thinking independently, asking questions diligently and mastering what they have learned firmly.
3. Insist on after-school study and constantly expand knowledge.
In addition to school homework, we have also made plans for children's study and exercise, such as reciting poems, drawing red, reading, Olympic math, English, ringing the bell, swimming and running, which are carried out alternately on semesters and weekends. Children have a strong memory and an advantage in reciting poems. In the process of reciting, I explained the meaning to him. If you recite it, you will forget it and need to review it constantly. Now my child can recite more than 200 ancient poems, and he occasionally quotes them, and they are very appropriate. We are also very pleased. Olympiad is not only to train children's computing ability, but also to think logically. Some questions took him a long time to understand, and he found it difficult. It was his father who put pressure on him in reciting poems and doing Olympic math. Sometimes he will inevitably eat a whip. Of course, I don't advocate hitting children.
Children like listening to stories. We let him read by himself. I lent him some books in the library. Some of them were read in one day. If they are interesting, tell us stories. We showed great interest and told him to read others' books before telling us. He didn't finish a page of some books, and I didn't force him. Starting with what children are interested in can improve their reading interest. I sometimes take him to the library during holidays and find that he likes it very much. It's good to read this book and that one. Taking children to the library can increase a lot of knowledge.
Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. As the ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you won't reach a thousand miles, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
4. Create a good learning atmosphere in the family.
We also need to keep learning at work. We all like studying at home and can persist for a long time. Regardless of book knowledge or network knowledge, we consciously create a strong learning atmosphere at home, so that children fall in love with learning in a subtle way. The process of educating children is actually a process of parents' self-improvement, and adults also have many shortcomings. In order to educate future generations, we strive to correct our behavior and constantly improve ourselves. Adults' words and deeds will inadvertently attract the attention of children, and then imitate and try. Therefore, parents should set an example and start from themselves. At ordinary times, we should set an example for our children and let them develop morally and intellectually healthily.
5. A thorny issue.
Educating children is not only about studying and taking exams, but more importantly, how to make children move towards the future healthily. At present, the only child problem, the safety of children watching TV, playing games and surfing the Internet, the willfulness, selfishness and sex education of children all need teachers and parents to solve.
Family education experience is about 500 words in primary school (2) Hello everyone, I am xx's mother. First of all, I want to say "thank you, teacher, you have worked hard!" "
I'm going to talk about some experiences in children's education today.
First, create a good family atmosphere.
Parents need to create a strong learning atmosphere for their children. Let me give an example of reading a book. For a long time before, when xx was reading a book, we stayed with him the most and paid attention to the progress of his reading. I found him a fast reader, but once I asked him to briefly describe a plot in the book. His stuttering and intermittent statement was incoherent and he said wherever he thought. I found that children's reading is not the quantity of reading, but the quality of reading. Recently, I also changed my method, that is, reading the same book with him. Recently, he is reading Greek mythology. After reading a big chapter, I discussed with him from the aspects of time, people, events and results, and guided him to express his views and opinions on different heroes. He is more interested in reading now.
Some of the children's personality characteristics are not so much inherited as learned from their parents. Children's innocent eyes have been observing their parents' words and deeds and imitating their parents. In life, our parents should lead by example, accompany and influence them with practical actions and create a good family atmosphere.
Second, cultivate children's self-care and self-control ability.
Our family xx is the first baby, and the whole family loves to spoil it. Since childhood, grandma has been feeding him until he was 5 years old. Time flies and he grows up slowly. One thing he has carefully maintained since he was a child is his lazy personality, and the other is his poor hands-on ability. We asked him to train his independence and self-care ability by arranging his schoolbag and desk, arranging his study time reasonably and doing some housework within his power, and at the same time, he was slowly exercising his self-control ability. We try our best to meet the reasonable requirements of watching newly released movies and buying new books, but for Lego, which xx is obsessed with, we have changed from the original exam reward form to the temporary ban on buying now. In order to cultivate his self-control, he is now allowed to make his own plans while playing, and he can't play whenever he has time.
Third, face up to children's shortcomings and mistakes.
After all, children are children. Every child has shortcomings of one kind or another, and will make some mistakes more or less. Parents should first recognize and admit their children's shortcomings and mistakes, and at the same time educate their children to forgive other children's shortcomings and mistakes. I often tell xx that everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and we should learn to discover our own shortcomings and the advantages of others.
In short, whether a child can grow up healthily and intelligently. Three points come from school education and seven points come from family and social education. Let's work together!
Family education experience, about 500 words. (3) Children's menopause, called "children's menopause", is at the stage of X years old. In essence, this is also called the rebellious period of children. As parents, encouragement, companionship and persuasion are the best words and deeds.
First, it is the key to cultivate good autonomous learning habits and improve learning efficiency.
1, improve reading ability, reading is the best habit;
2. Improve learning efficiency and arrange time reasonably. Exercise is essential. The secretion of dopamine in exercise promotes the improvement of memory.
Second, be good at discovering children's bright spots and hobbies, and help children establish a correct outlook on growth.
1, firm.
Only by completing Imust every day can you realize your own Iwant and improve your subjective initiative, not comparing with others, but only with yourself.
2. firmly believe.
My child is no worse than other children. He may be a little weak in learning, slow in reflecting, slow in memorizing texts, and even stubborn, but maybe he is kind, enthusiastic, patient and good at observing what he is interested in. That's his bright spot.
3. insist.
If the child has special skills, tell him from the beginning that the process of persistence is also a life exercise.
4. companionship.
The company of parents is very important. Read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road, and spare time to travel with children (briefly describe the significance of travel). During the trip, you can build a good trust relationship with your children and increase a lot of knowledge that you can't learn in textbooks.
Every child is trying to grow up, and I believe that time will treat them gently.
About 500 words of family education experience in primary schools (4) In modern families, many children have gradually lost their ability to take care of themselves under the care and doting of the elderly and their parents. What should mothers do as their first teachers?
First, cultivate children's awareness of self-management from an early age.
In real life, some students in the second and third grades of primary school can't tidy their schoolbags, tidy their desks after eating and finish their homework. As a mother, I have been a good example for my children since I was a child. I took my children to pack their schoolbags, tidy up their desks and tidy up the house. Over time, children have developed the habit of sorting out homework, schoolbags, desks and dishes after meals. Let children cultivate self-management consciousness from an early age.
Second, let the children make their own life and study plans for one day.
Children look at their plates before going to bed every day. Have you finished it all? How much is unfinished? This can restrain his self-management and form good behavior habits.
Third, let children set their own learning goals.
Children set the overall goal of the semester and the phased self-development goal according to their own actual situation. The stage goal should be small and practical, which is conducive to realization, and the achievable time should be set by yourself. For example, when a child is in the first grade of primary school, let the child set the goal as follows: learn to organize things by himself in the first month and bring everything. If there is no problem this month, it means that the goal has been achieved, and then you can reward your child with several stars (how many stars can be collected for your child to choose prizes), and then you can continue to set the next stage of goals.
Fourth, create a democratic and scientific management atmosphere for children at home.
In daily life management, such as buying daily necessities, let children participate together and fully respect and adopt children's opinions. At home, I basically don't judge any behavior of children. Even if my children don't want to do their homework or drag their feet when they do it, I will calmly say to them, "Are you tired? Do you need a mother massage? " At this time, the child will happily say: "Good! I am really a little tired. " After massaging the child for a few minutes, the child will happily continue to write homework or read extracurricular books ... It can be seen that it is really hard for the child to go to school. We should understand and respect children, let them learn to manage their own time, don't give him too many demands, don't label him at will, and only allow themselves to give him enough love and companionship.
Tao Xingzhi said that "teaching is to not teach", and Wei Shusheng thought that "management is to ignore", which is actually to give full play to children's main role in learning and life management. Guiding children's self-management is fundamentally to cultivate their self-management ability.
I think that when children realize the role change from "managed" to "manager" and let themselves manage themselves directly, every child can realize himself, and feel happiness and joy without procrastination in study and life.
Family education experience is about 500 words. When primary school (5) is young, the child is like a piece of mud that has not been drawn. Parents have to carve a piece of mud into a work of art, among which education needs to be infused. With the growth of children, this piece of mud gradually takes shape and becomes more and more solid and difficult to carve. Even if it doesn't work, you can't get what you want no matter how hard you pinch it. If at this time, it is too late to carry out the education that should have been carried out long ago, which is simply out of date. Of course, those bad habits formed from childhood are difficult to correct. Even some bad habits formed x years ago have gone deep into the bone marrow, and it is really difficult to correct them for a while. This is naturally an example of failure. Educating children is not only important in childhood, but also more important in transition. In particular, children's transition to adolescence is not only a physical change, but also a spiritual change. During this period, children have formed their own outlook on life and world, and have their own personal opinions. Because the life experiences and backgrounds of the two generations are completely different, the generation gap is naturally inevitable. Education is necessary in order to eliminate all unnecessary disasters.
Everything is difficult at the beginning, and education itself is a norm of moral behavior. Education, first of all, should lead by example, make yourself a role model for children and believe in the authenticity of education. Only when we do it ourselves will the children follow suit. If we just talk about education and preach the truth, but we can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and failed education will not work at all. For example, parents teach their children to tell the truth and not to lie, while parents often lie themselves, even in front of their children. If one day, the child knows, it will be very sad and will learn to lie. From then on, he will distrust his parents and have a confused attitude towards them. How can this kind of education succeed? Education should also be close to reality and proceed from reality to educate children, not vague fantasies. As long as education is effective, there is no need for exaggeration at all, as long as it is dull. Moreover, education close to reality is more acceptable and easier for children to accept. But if education is too vague and gorgeous, children may not be able to accept it at once, or even fail to do it every time. It is likely that he will be sad. Who wants it? Not a day goes by when a good parent fails to educate his children. What he may have to say is very short, maybe only one or two sentences. Although children may be irritable, wordy and tired of listening, it doesn't matter if parents inculcate them for a month. Children need education all the time. Parents should imprint what they want to say every day on their children's minds. Even if children don't accept it, they should not consciously print every sentence into their minds and always remind their parents of their advice and tireless education. Sometimes, the truth spoken by the mouth alone can no longer contain the stubborn heart of the child. At this time, appropriate punishment is also necessary. Of course, at the same time of punishment, children should also admit their mistakes and be convinced. After admitting mistakes, of course, you can't go too far. You should talk to children and communicate with each other like friends. Parents should find their own shortcomings at this time and correct them later. This is a good time to educate children!
Family education experience is about 500 words. Primary school (6) As parents, it can be said that everyone in inherit the wind is eager for their children to become talents. Especially in contemporary times, with the rapid development of science and technology, the expansion of knowledge economy and the increasingly fierce social competition, people have higher expectations for their children. However, there are indeed many problems in the present family education. Let me describe some of my practices and feelings in family education after my children entered junior high school.
The child learns easily in kindergarten and primary school, and the family tries to create a good living environment for him. Given the correct guidance, there is no problem in ideology and morality, and I have not felt the urgency and importance of family education. In junior high school, children's learning environment and learning tasks have undergone fundamental changes, parents' mentality has also changed completely, and their expectations for children are getting closer and closer. The changes of parents and children make family education not as simple as imagined, nor as easy to control as the book says.
First, sex and equal communication
Family education must be sexual, but it is not absolute, otherwise it will be counterproductive, and equal exchanges and friendship with sons will also get good results. This is my first feeling.
All children are naturally fond of playing, especially boys. Moreover, my children like online games in primary school. Because they didn't participate in the training of the school track and field team many times, they once went to the Internet cafe to play games. They were finally expelled from the school track and field team, and I found them once for going to an Internet cafe. At that time, in the absence of communication, the father's gender must be reflected. At that time, sons were more likely to receive sex education. Of course, only one of the couples needs to have a higher gender. After entering junior high school, my son is still very playful. Although he is nervous about his studies, he still has a soft spot for online games. Compulsory sex education is definitely not feasible. It is unrealistic not to play games at all. Communication is the only way. Of course, the word communication needs to be paid and unremitting efforts are needed, including correctly understanding children's mistakes and rationally educating them. When I was in the first grade, my son and I signed an agreement on an equal footing, not going to Internet cafes, and surfing the Internet for three hours at home every Friday. In fact, there is an essential difference between surfing the Internet at home and going to Internet cafes. First, the online content is controllable, and second, it is not exposed to bad environment. With the growth of children's age and unremitting guidance, the agreement was re-signed in the second day of junior high school, and they went online once every two weeks. Encourage him to go out and do some useful sports in his spare time, such as playing basketball and table tennis. In the past two years' study, children in junior high schools have always had good grades and healthy thoughts, although sometimes their grades fluctuate. What I feel deeply in these two years is guidance. Caring for children and communicating with them are the basis of guiding children to be positive. I think this is also an important part of family education for the only child to grow up in a good living environment.
Second, example is more important than words.
Children's growing environment is worthy of great attention in family education, and all aspects of family life will have a subtle influence on children, so family members always pay attention to their words and deeds. We never play online games at home, and even when our children are doing their homework, we seldom watch TV to avoid psychological imbalance. This is a lesson. When the children are doing their homework in the room, we watch TV in the living room, which seems to have no effect. In fact, he is a child after all, even an adult may not be so. He is always disturbed. He will come out to watch TV with us when he has the chance. At this time, he will not listen to what others say easily, and he will strongly refute you if he says it seriously, so example is more important than words.
Third, treat achievements and mistakes correctly.
Every child will have various problems at different stages of growth. The key is to find problems in time and treat them correctly. This is inseparable from frequent communication with children. Without communication, children's problems can't be found. Caring for children, in addition to physical care, should pay more attention to children's feelings. When I am close to my son's equal friends, my son can clearly grasp the dynamics, including the situation of his classmates. Because he is very willing and eager to talk to his parents at this time, he should let his children have channels to talk and opportunities to communicate. If something goes wrong, such as poor exam results, you can't just blame and nag, otherwise you will have conflicts with your children, get the root of the problem, and lose equal friendship. This is also a lesson. Don't try to get any information from him at this time. When you get home, you will ignore it. If you ask too many questions, he will be angry with you (this may be a common problem of only children), and the problem will naturally not be solved. Once you find a problem with your child, you must point it out and guide it in time, encourage your son's achievements and give him some financial rewards. However, this economic reward is only a little pocket money to buy snacks and drink water every day, and the effect is also very good.
In short, parents should not be too happy when children have some achievements; Don't get angry easily when you make a mistake. On the one hand, you should leave room for your children. On the other hand, you should seize the opportunity to educate him rationally when he knows his mistake. How to treat it correctly depends on the situation at that time. Parents' expectations of children are not equal to children's goals, and correct guidance and children's interest are very important.