In fact, there is no justification for being sweet in love and miserable after being lovelorn. For better or worse, all feelings are an illusion.
Sweet happiness is beneficial, but it is also easy to blind your eyes. What can pain bring? Better income than the former? Like growing up? Forget it, there are not a few people who make mistakes repeatedly. If you don't eat, drink or sleep, or fall asleep after overeating, it is nothing more than self-abuse.
As the saying goes, "the only constant in this world is change." Because of this, eternity is what human beings pursue. This is really an optimistic species full of hope. The hardness of diamond symbolizes the firmness of love, the purity of diamond symbolizes the purity of love, the brilliance of diamond symbolizes the enthusiasm of love, and the uniqueness of diamond symbolizes the singleness of love. Symbols, symbols, symbols and physical features are endowed with perceptual and beautiful meanings. I think the physical characteristics are really beautiful, really simple, clean and not cold. And the beauty of love is limited to imagination, or just the privilege of a few people. As a non-minority, the ideal love is not only a luxury, but also a waste of time and energy.
Many things, such as work, hard work, drug abuse, love and so on. If you haven't experienced it, it will always be overestimated or underestimated. When the real experience is different from the expected one, it will inevitably lead to cognitive impairment, which will lead to emotional reaction, surprise or loss. Many things, if experienced, are not treated rationally, and few people can be calm and calm when they lose/give up, thus producing emotional reactions, or sadness, or joy. To be exact, emotions do exist, which is objective, and the facts that cause emotions do exist, which is objective, and the connection between them, the so-called "emotions due to facts", is an illusion. Think about it carefully, what is the truth of this "because"? In my opinion, there are two causal relationships: the first, 1+ 1=2, why? Because this is a law, it is this law that constitutes the human thinking mode of 1+ 1=2, or the human thinking mode constitutes the law of 1+ 1=2, so 1+ 1=2. Second, throw an apple horizontally and it will move along a parabola. Why? Because this is classical mechanics and it exists objectively. Of the above two causal relationships, the former is abstract and the latter is concrete. So, what kind of "emotion caused by facts" belongs to? Obviously, neither. Therefore, the generation of emotions is really unnecessary and absurd.
Ideally, whether before, during or after the experience, we should try our best to be rational and not get involved in the seemingly reasonable but inexplicable absurd connection of "because so". Absolute rationality requires an accurate analysis of the past, a correct grasp of the existing objective situation, a comprehensive prediction of possible future events, and a comprehensive understanding of the three. Man is not a god. We are too humble before reason and can only do our best. The advantage of this is that we will not rejoice in things, grieve for ourselves, be bound by emotions, and do not need to waste time and energy to over-heal/celebrate. Worship of reason is the first step towards freedom.
However, it's so sad, so sad! The characteristic of human beings is sensibility. Our sensibility has made pain and happiness. We can't say that pain and happiness are useless, but compared with a relatively long-term stable state of mind, emotions beyond the fluctuation range of the latter are sad. Men often ridicule the "divine logic" of women in love. Although men are much better, they are only pot calling the kettle black.
I'm so sad, so sad! I worship reason because I am too emotional. What is even more frightening is that when a little reason has the upper hand of sensibility, I find that everything around me that makes me extremely painful or extremely happy is an illusion. At this time, my heart, my whole person, although suddenly, felt extremely ashamed, as if swallowed up by a huge black hole in the deep darkness, as if I were a living dead.
Man is neither a god nor a robot, but in order to realize some value as a human being, I think it is wiser to make myself as rational as possible than the sensibility that belongs to women in particular.