Growth and people's quality
In Saint Amethyst, at the beginning of life, there is a proverb that human nature is good, which means that when all people are born, all people have the same personality and kindness. So why are there good people and bad people in society now?
Indeed, when all people were born, our qualities and personalities were not different at all, and they were all naive and kind, because at that time we knew nothing but love, but as we grew older, we understood everything and had everything.
Among all people, some people have desires, hatred, jealousy, evil and others have love, kindness, humility and justice, so there are two kinds of people, not women and men. Gender classification is essential, and the classification of bad guys and good guys is based on psychological quality.
However, how do all people become good people and bad people? It has been influenced in different ways during its growth. The first is the education of parents. Parents are children's first teachers, and their education is related to their children's whole life. Secondly, the education of teachers is related to children's knowledge, people's quality and their own quality. In addition, the influence of society is also very important. If this society is corrupt, then there may be fewer good people than bad people in this society, and vice versa. Finally, it is self-control. If one's parents can't educate or teachers can't educate or society has bad habits, one must have self-control. Self-control means the ability to control yourself from doing bad things.
One of these four influences can be missing, and it doesn't necessarily have much influence, because there are other good influences to help him. But without two or more good influences, it is difficult for a person to become a good person, so a person becomes a bad person due to many factors.
Why there are more and more bad guys can be explained in this way. At present, most parents' education is very wrong, putting interest and life first. There is a saying in Mencius' Fish of My Desire: Life is also my desire; Righteousness is also what I want. You can't have both, and you have to sacrifice your life for righteousness. Improper teacher education is also one of the factors, but this situation is rare. Another is poor self-control. As for the influence of society, I think you can only bear its good or bad influence because you can't change it.
This is the difference and formation between good people and bad people, but what should we do in the process of growing up? I think it can be summed up in one sentence: don't do it with small goodness, don't do it with small evils. Students, it's easy to learn badly. Let's remember this when we grow up!
grow up
It snowed heavily that winter. The night before New Year's Eve, I lay by the window watching the snow. The light is full of flying snowflakes, as if unable to restrain joy. When the Spring Festival comes, the continuous firecrackers are full of warm atmosphere. Everything seems to be reflected in the background of orange light, including a few silver hairs faintly visible in parents' hair, shining in the painting on this winter night.
I will never forget how my parents raised me. They watered me with simplicity and kindness, let wisdom and enthusiasm permeate me, and let my little flowers thrive happily. I can't remember how many times I fell. My parents cheered me up with encouraging eyes and kind smiles and made me stand up again. I can't forget how many nights, I reviewed my lessons under the lamp, and my parents sat under the lamp, silently accompanying me late at night. I can't remember how many little things are full of parents' love and how many parents care as much as the sun.
I remember playing carefree all day when I was a child and always being so close to my parents. At that time, I liked to play hide-and-seek with my father, go to the market to buy snacks with my mother, and be lazy in my father's arms. I used to learn to walk behind my father secretly, and I used to watch her wash after my mother. At that time, I always felt that the place where my parents were was my happy paradise! Time always flies so fast! In a blink of an eye, I am no longer a child.
I no longer like my mother to arrange my life, and I no longer like my father's urging; I no longer like my mother's advice and rely on my father's arms. I began to hate my father's rough hands and my mother's endless nagging. I would rather tell my good friends what I think than my parents. But mom and dad don't think so. They don't seem to see my indifference and rebellion, and they still pay for me silently. That morning, the sun was still so bright and free, and my parents were still busy, so I slammed the door and walked with my head held high.
But at noon, when I trudged into the gate, my mother immediately opened the door to meet me and pulled me into the house. As soon as I entered the door, I was shocked by what I saw! Delicious cakes, flickering candlelight, emotional songs, displayed delicacies, harmonious atmosphere, bright smiling faces, kind father and loving mother. This day is so different from the past, and now I suddenly realize that today is my birthday! My parents put me in their hearts every day, stubborn and rebellious. At this time, all the pictures of the past suddenly emerged.
grow up
The river of years flows slowly, and the footprints of growth are deeply left behind. Looking back suddenly, I left a string of deep or shallow footprints on the road of growth, recording happiness and sadness and accompanying me along the way.
When I was a child, I always loved to play in the bunker downstairs with my friends. It was so happy and comfortable to step on the soft sand. Accidentally, I fell and tried to get up. A string of footprints appeared behind us, and the sun shone on our smiling faces, making them more brilliant. That string of footprints records joy and my growth. When I was a child, I was happy and carefree. I hope I will always be a child.
I went to kindergarten, and I loved reading at that time. Every evening, I always pester my mother to take me to the bookstore to read books, cross the bustling pedestrian street and come to the bookstore door. When I was a child, I always liked to step on those big footprints printed outside the door. How interesting. Today, although I am not as happy as a child, I have another more substantial happiness, that is, reading. Books take me to the ocean of knowledge, and the big footprints outside the bookstore are the testimony of my happy growth.
Now I am an eighth-grade student, and I am out of breath, accompanied by repeated failures.
Today, I failed the exam again. I was holding a math paper with less than 80 points in my hand, and my tears were spinning in my eyes. It was so boring. Walking listlessly on the way home, I inadvertently stepped into the sandpit where I played. A series of footprints were printed, and a gust of wind blew away the test paper in my hand and blew it into the bunker. I'll get it quickly. Suddenly I saw footprints, which reminded me of the happy footprints left by running here when I was a child, and also reminded me of the huge footprints that the kindergarten stepped on in front of the bookstore. Thought of here, I smiled, a heartfelt smile. Ah, I see, in fact, happiness is with me, with my growth.
Isn't failure and frustration a happy reminder? How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Only by standing the test can we be happy, the most fulfilling happiness. Only by laughing can you feel happy. Yes, I nodded firmly. I must study hard and get good grades in the exam! I picked up the test paper and strode home. There are a series of footprints behind me. Under the sunlight, it turned golden yellow. This is the footprint leading to success and happiness.
Question 1:( 1) Good at, good at? Stay, pass
Question 2:B
Question 3:( 1) Be studious; (2) Be brave in introspection.
Question 4