A parent with good personality charm, their words and deeds are silent education and encouragement to children, which plays a vital role in their growth. A parent with good personality charm, their children will be positive, hardworking, sincere, kind, caring and tolerant!
Although some qualities can be changed slowly, maybe they can be improved through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, some qualities are deep into the bone marrow and deeply dormant in the subconscious, which is almost irreversible.
My neighbor is such a good example, a wonderful family!
My parents are now in their sixties and are still in good health. The family also speaks very kindly. It is this big family that is too content with the status quo, does not strive for progress, and does not like work. It seems that they don't understand the bitterness of struggle and the joy of harvest. The family lives like a humble bird, muddling along!
There are three sisters, one elder sister and two younger brothers in the family. My sister has been married for many years, and my two younger brothers are in their forties. They have never been able to marry a wife, and the two brothers still live a single life with enough to eat and the whole family not hungry. Happy with their happiness, painful with their pain!
Life in their family is really different, but sometimes it's really moist! Very chic!
A big family, four strong laborers, usually guarding more than ten acres of fertile land, rarely going out to work, looking for a business to supplement the family. A family only knows how to eat, drink and be merry, but they can enjoy it vigorously. It's really boring to eat, stroll around, play small cards, drink a little wine, and chat with a group of neighbors and chew their tongues.
But a family of four is good at cooking, which is really exquisite. After steaming a steamed bun and fermenting the flour, there is no need to rush to calculate the time for steaming steamed buns. Come back from playing outside one by one, rub this, rub that, wake up, that pot of steamed bread will take a long time to steam, but don't say that steamed bread is quite delicious.
The family has a soft spot for food. When it comes to cooking, everyone is ready to try, and the whole family, old and young, will go into battle. After a while, a delicious handmade dumpling will be in their stomachs, which is called beauty! A cool one!
Whether it is windy, rainy or freezing, they can't stop their persistent pursuit and love for food. I want to eat spareribs in the evening, no matter how late it is, put on the stove, and the whole family will sit around and watch TV, smell the fragrance overflowing from the steaming pot and wait patiently. I want to eat fried peanuts. Although the north wind is howling and the snow is falling, I will cook their food on the open-air stove in the yard. "Other people's houses are built with stoves for cooking, and their people are lazy. They can't even build a decent stove shed. They can only cook their own food in the scorching sun and whistling snow." Put a large iron pot and a thin one.
In the gray sky, snowflakes are fluttering, and the flames in the stove are flashing red, just like their desire for food!
Although they are good at food, they are called a tireless and striving for perfection! I always eat in different ways. My cooking is not bad. But when a family comes to work, they look different, always listless and dragging their feet.
In the middle of winter, the plants and trees died and the weather was cold, but their peanut piles were still lying in the wheat field, and the peanuts had not been picked completely, so they could not be stored in time like other families.
Spring sowing, watching the irrigated fields, is blown by strong winds and gradually dries up day by day. In other people's fields, wheat seedlings are taking root and sprouting, and some have already shown their timid and yellow heads, but they are not in a hurry. Their fields are still empty, and their bare bellies are lazily basking in the warm sun.
As the old saying goes, "If you don't have enough to eat and wear, you will be poor if you can't catch it"! In fact, its profound meaning is that a family must be diligent and thrifty, and the days can flourish!
If a family doesn't work hard and struggle, no matter how it thinks and plans, it is casting pearls before swine, and it is meaningless. I believe that there will be no pie in the sky, and the strong wind will not blow down the RMB! Even a rich man, Gao Fushuai, will live in an empty pocket. Besides, there are really not so many wealthy businessmen and local tyrants in reality.
Their family's life is really unbearable, and they plan to raise some pigs, but before they can develop pigs, they have already fallen into a great famine, and the grain they have shot down and the pigs that have just left the circle have failed to plug the hole they owe!
There must be something hateful about the poor. People like this who can't even support themselves are not qualified to expect to get married, have children and start a family! Think about it; A woman with normal thinking logic, who dares to entrust her life to him?
A pair of hard-working and kind parents and a hard-working family, after years of hard work, will certainly gain a lot, even if they are poor, they will change with each passing day, and sesame blossoms will be higher and higher!
A distant relative of mine has three sons, all of whom are two or three years apart. I remember when I was very young, I often went to their house to play. Every time I eat, I will sit around the small table at home. There are three heads: small, high and low. They don't cry or make noise, but they eat the food in their small bowls.
Supposedly, such a family, with three children and three sons, must be tight and hard! However, people are abruptly mixed with Feng Shui, and life is thriving!
In this family, parents are hardworking and kind, and they are hardworking and upright people. In addition to planting more than ten acres of responsibility fields in my own home, I also contracted more than ten acres of land in my neighbor's house. Their mother is diligent and keeps the house, and is a good wife and mother who will live a good life. My father is ingenious, and he is good at repairing cars and welding.
In addition to doing farm work on weekdays, my father also helps others repair cars and weld sundries. Because my father is hardworking and kind, he doesn't accept other people's work very much, and he doesn't have to pay for small work. Adding up the cost of big jobs, he just needs to earn a little less manual fees. Moreover, sometimes he is in a hurry, and his father always leaves work without saying a word and goes all out to help others. So the villagers in Shili Bali are very willing to go to him for repairs, and sometimes people who are a little bit remote will come here, and business will naturally flourish.
Over the years, my father has developed from a small repair shop to a certain scale, and the first person has gone it alone with the master. He hired several apprentices and started a series of through-train services such as buying a car, repairing a car and washing a car. Business is booming now.
As long as I can remember, their home has been clean, clean and spotless. Their three children, all very independent, helped their parents clean up the housework and help them do some farm work as much as they could. They are all smart and sensible.
In this way, hardworking and kind parents not only supported their three sons to go to college, but also made them all become families. All three children are excellent and diligent. One graduated from junior college and two from universities. One of them is high flyers from a key university.
So; Judging a family's poverty and wealth, there is no definite conclusion, people-oriented Poverty and wealth are constantly changing; The poverty and prosperity of a family are fundamentally related to parents and every member of the family, except for force majeure and unpredictable factors such as natural and man-made disasters.
A family with a good family style of hard work, kindness, benevolence and fraternity will surely prosper and be happy and peaceful; Conversely; With parents as lazy as humble birds, their family style is not much better, and their children will naturally not be a gentleman who strives for progress and dares to take responsibility, so most of their lives will only be mediocre or even poor!
"Be a master without suffering"
"Plum blossoms are not weathered, how can they be fragrant?"
"The son is not filial to his father."
Therefore, the influence of parents' personality charm on their children is very important, which goes deep into the bone marrow and can even affect their lives!
I hope that each of our parents can follow their own rules, pay attention to their words and deeds, set a good example for their children as far as possible, guide and educate them correctly, and let their children take less unnecessary detours or go astray. Join hands with them in striding forward on the journey of life, working hard, down-to-earth, step by step, embracing hope and moving towards glory!