Farewell to Yourself (Argument) Farewell to Yourself (Argument) In the days of life, we will inevitably encounter sunny and rainy days. In the journey of life, you may be flat and wide, or you may encounter a ferry without a boat. Although we can't change this fact, we can change our mood, fold into a flat boat and ride the wind and waves in the rough sea. Tao Yuanming, a poet in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, did just that. In the face of bureaucratic cronyism and mutual rivalry, I still chose the "Guiqu" ship to spend the dirty officialdom, sail to a clean and poetic forest, and live a plain life of "beans are planted in the south mountain and the grass is full of bean seedlings". Tao Yuanming lamented the darkness of officialdom, but he changed his mind and bravely crossed the ferry crossing "five buckets of rice without bending over", which was admirable. Shi Tiesheng did this. At the age of 20, he suddenly became paralyzed. In the "golden season" of realizing the value of life, fate gave him a blow. He once resented despair, but he built himself a ship named "Hope" and sailed for the paradise of literary creation. Therefore, he realized: "Death is something that is not in a hurry. Death is an inevitable festival. No matter how delayed, you won't miss it. " Facing the "rainy snow", Shi Tiesheng changed his mood and became a literary leader. Hawking is studying for a doctorate, but he can't speak or move because of motor neuron disease. He once dreamed of being executed. After waking up, he suddenly realized that if he was pardoned, he could do many valuable things, so he folded a "thought" ship and sailed to the mysterious universe to explore galaxies, black holes, quarks and "flavored" particles. Perhaps our life will not encounter such a disaster, but have we ever got rid of the entanglement of "rainy and snowy days" and despair? The dilemma that afflicts life often comes to you suddenly, and you can't find the bridge of the past, and you can't find the boat to cross it in pain. Who hasn't met this hopeless situation? Some people have changed their mood, folded their instinct for survival into a boat and ferried themselves out of the abyss of despair. Some people changed their mood, folded their new desires into a boat, and survived the pain and depression after setbacks. No matter how gloomy fate is, no matter how bumpy life is, there will always be a ferry boat in your hands-changing your mood. Tolerance needs a broad mind (argumentative essay) There is a story that a mother who lost her child almost collapsed, and at the same time, as a doctor, she could not let go of her patients. Just when she got up the courage to return to her post, she received an unusual patient-a mental patient, who was the murderer of her own child. After a burst of ideological madness, she decided to treat him, and she did the same, taking care of him as her own child until she was discharged from the hospital. As Ji Bolun said, a great man has two hearts, one bleeding and the other forgiving. Whether it's anger or hatred, whether it's selfishness or evil thoughts, these cancers of the mind should be eliminated with tolerance, and what the earth can't bear can only be accommodated by the mind! As Han Ying said, if people are good to me, I will be good to them. If people treat me badly, I will treat them well. Qi Huangong didn't care about Guan Zhong's revenge, so he became his overlord: Emperor Taizong didn't care about the past and valued Wei Zhi, so he could achieve "the rule of Zhenguan"; Teacher Lou put aside his grievances and elected De as the prime minister, which made Datang flourish again. Tolerance is a kind of tolerance and a virtue. It is not as luxurious as jewelry, but as noble as the sky. Only by tolerating other people's faults with a broad mind, eliminating grievances and restraining one's jealousy of talents can we get the support of all. If talent is compared to the left wing, then the mind is the right wing, which will help you ride the wind and fly easily. We may not be able to let go of the deep hatred easily, but there are not so many deep hatred in life waiting for us to resolve. More often, all we need is a smile and tolerance from Premier Zhou in the face of the barber's unintentional mistakes. I remember a story: Su Dongpo once played with a monk in Hui Chong. Su Dongpo said, "I think you look like cow dung." Hui Chong said, "I think you look like a Tathagata." Su Dongpo doesn't understand, how can this monk return good for evil? Su Xiaomei said: "You have cow dung in your heart, and people are like cow dung;" The heart is like a Buddha, and people are like a Buddha. " Although this is just a joke between friends, we can still see how broad-minded monk Hui Chong is. If he is narrow-minded, how can he be so kind and tolerant of returning good for evil? There is a saying that life is like a play. It is not easy to meet and get together. Why bother to think about a little thing? Anger is just punishing yourself with other people's mistakes. In the face of other people's different views or mistakes, it is better to smile indifferently than to haggle over every ounce and argue endlessly; In the face of other people's tit-for-tat, why not temporarily avoid sharp edges, so as not to intensify contradictions. In the crisis-ridden political arena, Lincoln faced his political enemies with a tolerant attitude and destroyed them by making friends. In ancient times when the ethical code was strict, Chu Zhuangwang could still forgive those who died in the temple. Why can't you brush away the shadows in your life with a tolerant heart? Of course, tolerance is not a unique virtue of sages, nor is it born so broad-minded. Just like everyone's heart, it takes exercise to become strong. The more things the mind carries, the broader the mind, and the more tolerant people naturally are. If the world changes, even if the sky is angry, even if the earth cracks, even if the ocean rolls, please don't forget that we still have a broad mind! I can't put it down. Please go up and find it yourself.