I can feel my parents' expectations from the beginning. They hope I can study hard and get into a good university in the future. Young I still don't understand what a university is and what a good university is. But I understand that going to college is something that parents can be proud of, so I began to study.
From learning simple numbers "1, 2, 3" to being exposed to addition, subtraction, multiplication and division between numbers, I used to be very tired and didn't want to learn because I thought learning was boring. However, slowly, I found that math, which disgusted me, could actually help me solve so many problems, such as "how to distribute toys to me and my friends equally", and I gradually changed from disgust to interest in math.
From a certain moment on, in addition to my parents' expectations, interest has also become one of my motivation to learn. I once naively thought that a good university was Tsinghua Peking University. Indeed, Tsinghua Peking University is a good university. But in the process of growing up, I gradually found that with my ability, I might be willing to go to Tsinghua Peking University, but I don't have the ability.
But I'm not discouraged. When I grew up, I began to understand that there are many really good universities. I don't know when the name of South China University of Technology was engraved in my heart and became one of my goals. There are tears and laughter in senior three. All the people, for the sake of their ideal university and the future, cheered and scolded Fang Qiu from their seats.
At that time, while I was struggling, I also looked forward to my future college life from time to time. University, really not far away. Finally, I broke through the wooden bridge of the college entrance examination, knocked on the door of South China University of Technology as I wished, and became a freshman in the Department of Civil Engineering. Becoming a South China University of Technology finally meets the expectations of parents and their own efforts.
My college life began. In high school, we yearn for college life, often because there are many rules and regulations that limit our "freedom". We can't do many things we want to do, we need to obey the arrangement, and we have endless study and review every day. It can be said that we yearn for freedom, eager to give full play to our own specialties and publicize our own personality, so we launched the pursuit of universities.
When I really came to the university, I showed my curiosity for the first time. Everything in the university is worth our curiosity. For me, when I stepped into the gate of South China University of Technology, everything around me attracted me deeply. Tall teaching buildings, vast sports venues and beautiful dormitory groups, I secretly said, "So this is the university."
As I officially entered South China University of Technology, I gradually found that universities are not just what I said above. I have known many brothers and sisters since the school newspaper arrived. Some of them are active in the front line of the club, while others work in the student union. So I gradually contacted various school organizations, such as the Student Union, the Youth League Committee, various societies and countless organizations, leaving an olive branch for us freshmen.
Think this is all college life? You are wrong, this is just the beginning of the university, just the opening ceremony of our youth. Some people may think that going to college is liberation, and they can do whatever they want without control. Admittedly, compared with middle school, we can have more freedom in college, but this does not mean that we can spend our time at will.
If you just want to muddle along aimlessly in college, aren't you sorry for your struggling youth in the past 12 years? We came to the university to learn more things, improve our diplomas and knowledge, increase our self-cultivation and moral sentiment, and enrich our social experience. For me, I want to master a real professional skill, so I chose civil engineering.
In fact, four years in college is neither too short nor too short. In these four years, some people make good use of every day in college and finally get out of society like a duck to water; On the contrary, some people just want to muddle along. They have been doing nothing all day for four years. They just stay in the dormitory and give directions on the computer. In the end, they couldn't even get their diplomas. The college students who made their parents proud a few years ago have fallen.
The latter's life is always full of complaints, saying that he can't get a chance to succeed, but he doesn't know that he has never fought for it. He thinks that he doesn't need to continue to struggle when he goes to college, and he can't see how the successful "schoolmasters" around him pursue progress. He only complains, pathetic!
I was full of ideals, went to college and came to South China University of Technology. I cherish the more freedom I gained in college, but freedom is relative. This freedom is a tool for us to give full play to our abilities. I know I must make a plan for my four-year college life, so that I won't have regrets about my college life and I can become a successful person.
Planning is like a compass on our way to college. Without a plan, we will lose the direction of success. Throughout the ages, how many people have achieved their success without a plan? This sentence is as correct as it was in college.
Back in those days, Qian Zhongshu had just entered the Tsinghua campus, and he threatened to sweep the Tsinghua Library. As a result, he really did it, and with his extensive knowledge in the library, he became a generation of literary masters.
Isn't this Mr. Qian's plan for his college life? Let's take a look at Li Yang, who has been controversial recently. Let's put aside his mistakes for a while and look back on his college life. At first, his academic performance in all aspects was poor. But he went through an ideological struggle and chose to persist.
Determined to take English as a breakthrough, I made a plan for myself: 1, running to the open space on campus every day and shouting English loudly; 2. There are two ways to urge yourself to stick to it: one is to tell many students to keep learning English and shout English every day; In addition, invite the most serious student in the class to shout English with him.
He insisted on carrying out his plan. Finally, he found that he could recite more than 10 original English books and a lot of CET-4 questions, and his listening and speaking ability was completely transformed! It is because of his success in English study that he has established confidence in life. Until later, it created the success of Crazy English!
These two examples have given me great enlightenment. I believe I also need a college life plan that suits me best, so that I can spend these four years in college purposefully. For me, I think I should not only make full use of all kinds of resources and freedoms given to us by the university, but also maintain the sense of self-discipline in senior three.
How to study in universities? College is very different from high school. I think the learning direction of the university is not how much professional knowledge we have learned, but the cultivation of self-study ability. There is an old saying: "the master leads the door, and the practice is in the individual." In college, even if teachers' education and guidance are needed, the ability of self-study is more important to students themselves.
After leaving school, we will begin to face all kinds of pressures and problems from all sides, and our ability to solve problems is undoubtedly indispensable to us, which has become a symbol of our social maturity.
So how should we cultivate this ability? There are not only intense courses and studies in universities, but also colorful after-school life, such as student union, various departments and societies. If your life overlaps with these organizations, you can feel the diversity of universities.
But there is not only pure fun and play here, but also exercise and tempering brought by departmental work. We should seize these opportunities at the beginning of our freshman year and let us grow up in interesting and busy departments. In addition, I think I need to cultivate the ability to analyze and solve problems.
You will encounter many problems in real life, which requires you to have the ability to analyze and solve problems. In the face of problems, we should seriously think and analyze, find the breakthrough point and find the solution to the problem. At the same time, pay attention to practice, achieve the unity of knowledge and practice, get nutrition from the process of solving problems, and thus improve yourself.
It is also necessary for me to cultivate some good qualities. Honesty, responsibility, team consciousness and other qualities can be said to be the stepping stone for us to knock on the door of our career. Although it is not a personal ability, it can reflect from the side whether we can contribute to the cause and make a difference.
It can be said that this is the basic quality that our times require us to possess. From a small point of view, we should get rid of bad living habits and develop good living habits. Good living habits are beneficial to our study and life, and can make our study more effective.
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Matters needing attention in college life: First of all, we should quickly adapt to college life and fully integrate into the rhythm of college. A good beginning is half the battle. Develop good habits at the beginning of college life.
After all, you had a rest for three months from the end of the college entrance examination to reporting with the admission notice. This 100-day irregular comfortable life may make your nerves highly relaxed. If you are used to being lazy, you must adjust your body and mind quickly and get into the state as soon as possible.
At the beginning of your new life, develop scientific habits of work and rest, and reasonably arrange various activities such as study, sports and leisure within a limited time. When good habits are formed and then become a kind of nature, your university will be wonderful.