1, speak naturally, chat with girls with things around you, try to strike up a conversation naturally, for example, see humorous jokes, forward them to girls, and then match them with a paragraph "I just brushed them, laugh at me"; Or share food and send her a photo of the food people want to eat after seeing it, which can be hot pot, snacks, fried chicken with milk tea and so on. And then said, "Today, this restaurant tastes great and the food is super satisfying." The temptation of food is irresistible to a girl, so she will definitely ask you where you ate, and your topic will be opened. 2. Don't chat too seriously. The purpose of chatting is actually to relax, so when chatting with girls, remember not to be too serious, otherwise the conversation between you will become as boring as a thesis defense. The reason why girls don't like you chatting with you is that your topic is too boring. If you want to chat with girls with high emotional intelligence, then we can use more novel words, even a sand sculpture expression pack, and occasionally blacken ourselves to make the atmosphere stronger. 3. Don't forget the compliment. If you want to make girls feel that you are a boy with high emotional intelligence when chatting, it is always right to start with praise. No girl will refuse others' praise, even if there is no surprise expression on her face, but if she agrees with you very much in her heart, she will definitely have such a good eye for you, so she will indirectly have a good impression on you, such as "your makeup is very delicate today". "Today's dress is very suitable for you, and the gas field is full." Praise girls for their skills. Don't just say that girls look good, but carefully discover the differences between girls. Everyone is eager for the little details he has carefully dressed to be discovered by a willing heart, so it is easy to leave a good impression on girls by praising others for not praising her. In fact, in the final analysis, chatting with people with high emotional intelligence is nothing more than being more careful than honest people and making girls happy. However, if you want to make girls like you more when chatting, you can't chat with the boys you just met because of the essential mutual attraction. You deserve it. Chatting with girls with high emotional intelligence 2 First, men with high emotional intelligence will joke. You know, especially when men just meet women, once they have a boring and blunt question-and-answer dialogue, it is easy for women to lose patience and interest. When we meet for the first time, men must leave a deep impression on women and leave your shadow in their minds. Therefore, men who can make women happy will fascinate women. So some people will joke, not say some low-level jokes or some explicit words, but really joke. They will express a sentence in another form, perhaps in a different word or in a different tone, but the final effect is absolutely beyond doubt. Second, men with high emotional intelligence can play routines. As we all know, since ancient times, the true feelings can't be kept, and routines can often win people's hearts. Sometimes, people must not be too rigid. They must learn to keep women's appetite, arouse women's curiosity, attract women to approach you actively, and have the desire to chat with you actively, instead of always boring questions and answers, chatting and falling asleep. Men with real high EQ know how to use women's curiosity, grasp women's different emotions and sell the right things at the right time. For example, when you are going to say something to a woman, you can throw a fresh part first, and then prepare some small routines, bets, relationships and so on when you arouse women's curiosity! Finally, even if women are not interested in this matter, more topics are touched because of this topic. Third, men with high emotional intelligence will be very interested. Many men know that the pursuit of a woman is by stalking and beating. But you know what? This kind of behavior, in the eyes of women, is the most fall in price. When a woman doesn't care about you, the more you pester her, the worse her impression of you will be, even disgust, boredom and extreme disgust, and it is more likely to directly blacken you. Therefore, men should know that it is right to pester and beat, but they should also know how to seize opportunities and learn to be interesting. What is the inside story? When a woman doesn't want to talk to you or has something important to do, you should learn to shut up and give her some time and space. Especially when chatting, two people obviously have no topic, so don't try to find a topic. You know, once the topic is not found correctly, it will not only fail to achieve the original effect, but will only make the relationship between you very bad. Fourth, men with high emotional intelligence will be very wise. There is a saying in China, that is, to see the needle, know yourself and know yourself, and fight every battle. If a man wants to pursue a woman, he must first understand what kind of man this woman likes. She likes to be mature, so you should try to be mature. She likes gentleness, and you should be as gentle as possible. She likes to be direct, so don't be a bitch. In the early days of understanding, it is quite difficult to maintain the relationship between two people. Maybe it's just a bad word, and the other party will directly hack you. For example, a woman is very simple, and she asks you to go out. Then some men directly treat her as a child and tell her about the weather, temperature and all kinds of chatter. So in the end, not only will it not have the initial effect, but it will only make women feel that you are really a mother-in-law, unlike men. The best reply and a simple and sincere greeting are enough to chat with girls with high emotional intelligence. 1. You should know women's weaknesses and find out the weak links of women's emotional defense. For example, some women like sweet talk and some women are easily moved by small favors,,,, until you know it. Pursuing women's improvisation is equivalent to the impermanence of water. Grasping a woman's heart is not about boasting, but about taking out real talents and learning. You must find out all the details of a woman, and when you are fully prepared and do everything in detail, you will be surprised. Different single women have different weaknesses, but whenever you see or find a woman's weaknesses, you are close to catching up with her. Second, you should wait for an opportunity to make friends with women's girlfriends, treat women's girlfriends as your confidantes or confidantes, and treat women's relatives as your own. When most of her relatives and friends support you, it is the day when you bend her heart. As for catching a woman's heart, it will be easy to get it. Some single men will favor one over the other in the process of pursuing women, and usually exclude women's relatives and friends. They won't do what they like on holidays, and they won't let women's relatives and friends take men's hands short and eat men's mouths soft. All these have led to discord between male and female relatives and friends. If her relatives and friends are picky, they will not help men secretly, but will do bad things in a way that hinders them. Third, which single woman do you want to pursue, you need to be prepared to be which woman. Before you have the external appearance of husband and wife, you need to start building and build the internal appearance of husband and wife. The so-called internal husband and wife appearance is the same hobby, plus other aspects, as far as possible without compromise, but concession. Men who have been in love or have been close to each other know that whether a woman can communicate with a man or how long it takes depends on whether a woman can talk to a man. If she can't get along with him, she can't even talk about love, let alone marriage. Some men will cater to women in every way. On the basis of adhering to principles and the bottom line, men will not hesitate to become unrecognizable.