And men are even later. Is it wrong for a woman to ask her husband for a little mortgage to make a little bottom for future marital problems? That's right! This mortgage can be a house, a car or a big expense in the man's life, so if someone tells you: I love you, but I don't want to spend money for you. Then you really have to seriously consider whether the other party can get married.
There is a proper term in sociology called "maternal punishment". It summarizes the systematic dilemma that mothers encounter in society. Sociologists have found that after becoming mothers, women will encounter greater difficulties in job hunting, salary level and promotion. If women can have the same opportunities as men before pregnancy, then after having children, employers will acquiesce that women will spend their main energy on family affairs and cannot devote themselves to work.
But interestingly, fathers don't have to suffer such punishment. A sociological survey in Stanford found that employers think that women who have given birth are less capable than unmarried women, and men who confirm that they have children are more reliable and more capable than unmarried men. So the concept of "paternal reward" corresponding to the punishment of motherhood appeared.
Rewards for fathers are presented in many ways, including salary, job opportunities and promotion opportunities. The results show that the promotion chances of men with children have increased by 80%, which is 1.8 times that before giving birth; The promotion probability of pregnant women before pregnancy is only110.
But the thinking about women's economic independence has never stopped. Yuqi Zhang, who lived a chic life before, ignored a carat diamond, and Su Mingyu, who was able to get rid of her family background, all caused heated discussions. Alas! The general environment will not change for a while, and women's career paths are full of obstacles, let alone financial independence.