Life perception (1):
Meet a better self
I don't know when it started, and it's easy for me to fall into memories. A small object that I haven't picked up for a long time, or a deja vu scene, dragged me to the past and met my past self. In fact, I like silence in my bones, but I am afraid of death. I always want to choose a quiet corner in the bustling city, unload all anxiety and anxiety, bid farewell to all unhappy people in the past, then think about all the people I miss, make a phone call, send a message, and then say to myself, "In fact, nothing is impossible." Qian Fan turned over the sunken ship, and Wan Muchun turned over in front of the sick tree!
Life is generally prosperous, sometimes simple, and has gone through spring, summer, autumn and winter, and has passed the best age. I don't want to live a vigorous life, work, family and feelings. I expect to live quietly like a mountain. But no matter how happy life is, there are times of disappointment. Things in the world always have advantages and disadvantages. Where the attention is, the heart is there. When the perfection in memory and the creation of reality are helpless, people's hearts will only leave an unsettled desolation. As the saying goes, "I don't know the heart of the mountain and the moon, and each has a thousand concerns." Who can understand! "
Every time I think of Li Zelin's words: "If time goes on and on, if every node of life will exist in another time and space at the same time, and your ten, fifteen and twenty years old are still dancing in another world, will you still expect them to live better than you, and will you still expect them not to repeat your regrets?" I often wonder how many regrets I have in my life and should tell myself in another time and space. But in this world, there are no ifs except results and consequences. That's what I said, "but don't ask questions, the white clouds pass there without end."
Time will come, flowers will bloom and fall, only to gradually discover that many things are beyond our control. Time is really a terrible killer, gently crossing our lives and harvesting our youth. The older you get, the more you can feel that things are different. More and more people know, fewer and fewer people can contact, and even fewer people know. Sometimes standing on the side of the road watching people come and go, I suddenly feel that the city is more desolate than the desert. Everyone is so close, but they don't understand each other's thoughts at all. So many people are talking, but no one is listening carefully.
Every time, every corner has a story. Every day, when I deal with heavy pressure, I always sigh, if time can go back, how I wish to engrave myself in that carefree and crazy time forever. Think about what happened to all the people I met along the way over the years. In fact, people's feelings are sometimes like knitting a sweater. When knitting, one stitch at a time, and when disassembling, it may be just a casual sentence or thing, and all the feelings will never be seen again. So I learned not to expect anything from anyone, not to be indifferent, to expect more from myself and surprise myself. What should come will always come.
I often think how sweaty life would be if I met my best self at the best age! But many things in life are out of control, and the older you get, the more you understand the limitations of life. Limited life makes limited efforts, and it should be the happiest thing in the world to evolve bit by bit. Thank you for reading has always been integrated into my life. In the year of no doubt, I inadvertently picked up my hobby of smearing words, and found myself inadvertently re-recognizing myself and meeting a better self with a sincere heart.
It is often said that what we appreciate others is often the advantages we don't have. Time flies, people come and go unexpectedly and meet perfection, and meet people who understand us. But fate is always hard to meet, so there are always some people who can only live in your heart and say goodbye to our lives. Life is half a memory and half a continuation. Time is changing and people are changing. Life is an out-of-print movie that cannot be replayed. No matter how hard you try, you can't go back. Even if you do go back, you will find that it may be unrecognizable. The only thing that can go back is the memory in my heart.
But no matter how the world treats us, we should always be kind to ourselves, let our hearts calm down and get to know ourselves slowly, get out of the past, find a simple self and meet a better self, and happiness will come unexpectedly! Don't worry about the past, don't be afraid of the future, so safe!
Life perception (2):
Learn to be tolerant
Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny.
Tolerance is forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open it at will, it will produce new ones, and old scars and new injuries will be difficult to heal. Tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed; Tolerance is a beautiful emotion, a good state of mind and a lofty realm. People who can tolerate others are as broad and transparent as the sky and as broad and deep as the sea. Be tolerant of those who have hurt themselves deeply. Good for evil is the highest state of tolerance and the most beautiful flower in human nature.
With a tolerant heart to tolerate and embrace everything. Harmony is an eternal theme, and I believe that love can conquer everything. Tolerance is the noblest virtue in human life. Because tolerance contains the human mind, because tolerance can transcend everything, because tolerance needs a broad heart, because tolerance is the most important emotion of human beings, because tolerance can melt the frost in my heart.
The greatness of tolerance lies in being sincere and natural. A person's self-love has reached an honest, cheerful and enterprising level, and that tolerance is the love and care after well-meaning understanding and understanding.
Tolerance is a wise way to deal with the world. Failure is a kind of happiness. Don't worry about misunderstanding, abuse and ingratitude. This loss is actually a kind of tolerant wisdom. Forgiving others with a broad mind and sincere attitude is equivalent to giving yourself a magical gift.
Tolerance is a broad and profound realm, and it is the cultivation of people. It is the experience of life, the art of treating others, and the mind of being a man; It can tolerate the joys and sorrows of the world and make life leap to a new level: being kind to others means being kind to yourself, and demanding others means demanding yourself. Only by looking at life with a tolerant heart and understanding others can we get a relaxed and comfortable life and live in joy and friendship.
When I fail, I will be more tolerant and stop complaining to myself, so that my heart will be less sorry and frustrated, and I can help a strong one. Forgiving others is also forgiving yourself, protecting yourself, leaving some space for others and giving you a blue sky. A tolerant person can take advantage of opportunities, face life harmoniously and completely, and smile.
Tolerance is the most beautiful emotion, tolerance is a good state of mind, and tolerance is also a lofty realm. People who can tolerate others are as broad and transparent as the sky and as broad and deep as the sea, and it is easy to tolerate their family, friends and acquaintances, because they are the people we love. But forgiving those who have deeply hurt themselves or their enemies before is the most difficult and the highest level of tolerance, that is, "repaying evil with good", which is the most beautiful flower in human nature.
In life, each of us will inevitably have friction, misunderstanding and even hatred with others; Don't forget to fill your heart with tolerance at this time. Tolerance is warm and bright sunshine, which can melt the freezing point in people's hearts and make the world full of warmth.
Tolerance is a sweet and soft spring rain, which can nourish people's inner desires and bring vitality to the world. Tolerance is the most beautiful flower in human nature. It can soothe people's inner injustice, bring happiness and expectation to the world, forget hatred, stay away from hatred, tolerate everything, and embrace everything with a tolerant heart. To forgive others is to forgive yourself.
Tolerance is that the sky welcomes sunshine and heavy rain; Tolerance is a field that accommodates big trees and grass; Tolerance is a starry night sky; Tolerance is the brightest red light at sunset; Tolerance is a bright rainbow that brings rain.
Tolerance is a regulator of self-cultivation, a good attitude and good feelings, an extraordinary bearing and broad mind, a noble quality and lofty realm, a light of love and a supreme blessing, and an art of survival.
Tolerance is warm and bright sunshine, which can melt the freezing point in people's hearts and make the world full of warmth.
Tolerance is a sweet and soft spring rain, which can nourish people's inner desires and bring vitality to the world.
Tolerance is a flower with beautiful humanity, which can soothe people's inner injustice and bring happiness to the world.
Understanding of life (3);
Learn to be generous and read people.
The human heart is like a book, and life is like a scene. We often sigh that the most difficult thing to understand in the world is people, and the most difficult thing to guess is people's hearts. A person, whether humble or noble, is a heavy book. It is more difficult to read people than to concentrate on reading a book. Some people have never even read it in their whole lives.
Yes, getting to know someone is as simple as washing your face, eating a piece of candy and smoking a cigarette, but getting to know someone is very difficult, sometimes as difficult as walking into a gossip circle. Because human nature determines that people are fickle. A person's heart will be fickle because of love, because of love, because of selfish desires and because of profit. It is difficult to understand a person, and it is also difficult for people to understand.
Some people, even people with relatives and friends, are close to you when you are not sick or in trouble, but when you are really in trouble, they hide from you like a plague and leave quietly.
You shouldn't blame such a person. Because people don't want to share the trouble with you anymore, and don't want to give themselves any more trouble. Perhaps, he really encountered difficulties at this time. So you should continue to forgive him with a normal heart and cherish the care he gave you before.
Some people, when you are the leader, curry favor with you everywhere, please you and do this and that for him. However, when you abdicated at home and needed his comfort, he left far away. You even asked him to go home for tea or go out for a walk, but he always said he was too busy to answer the phone.
You must forgive such people. Because he used to look at your strength, your strength. Because you have the potential to help him solve problems and eliminate difficulties. Since you are an ordinary person and have no power, there is no need to please you. At the same time, you should meditate and warn others not to be superior to others when you are strong. You should try your best to do more good for people, not to those who flatter you.
Some people, like putting honey on their mouths in front of you, say that you speak in fog, but speak ill of you in private, with a dirty undercurrent hidden in their hearts.
Never hate such people. Because his code of conduct has deviated, don't be as knowledgeable as him. People who are so secretive are either jealous of you or look down on you. In fact, his lifestyle is also very tired. You should understand his lifestyle and wait for his humanity to return and introspect! At the same time, we should also reflect on our words and deeds, correct them if there is something, encourage them if there is nothing, and be honest with each other. I have experienced such a thing personally. A friend who thinks he is as good as his sister gave me the lowest score. When the colleague sitting next to her told me, she was very angry, but when she thought about it, she was jealous that her work and life were better than him. So, I enlightened myself to open up, first open up and then open up, and influenced her with my heart. Today, she doesn't understand this, and we are still the same.
Some people, thinking that their husbands have the right to be rich, put all their energy into painting and dressing. Their faces are white and red, and they wear gorgeous clothes to attract their husbands or parade in the city, but their hearts are full of emptiness, ignorance and vulgarity. Besides talking about eating, drinking and having fun, a mouth with no culture, no background and no connotation is exposed, but I don't know that my stomach is full of books.
You must never despise such a person. Because her dress is only a hypocritical appearance, and her inner knowledge, morality and temperament can never be decorated with money. At the same time, we should also look back at our own behavior, encourage ourselves to enrich our hearts by reading, and regulate our words and deeds by self-cultivation.
Some people, when you sweat and work, stand by and even laugh. And when you pick fruit, he still has the cheek to ask for your fruit. Just like when writing a paper or setting a topic, you are thinking hard and can't finish it. If you want to publish it, he wants you to name it. For example, industrious people are planing, planting and watering in the wind and rain on the roadside or idle land. Isn't it just a dish? He laughed at you for being stingy, but when you lost the vegetables, he stole them secretly, saying they were pollution-free vegetables.
You must not dislike such people. Because your blood and sweat have brought fruit and recognition from others, you should give it to him with a smile or even take the initiative to deliver it to your door. Because giving someone roses is more fragrant, over time, he will learn to respect himself and love himself, and stand on his own two feet.
Reading others is actually reading yourself. While reading truth, goodness and beauty, we are also reading hypocrisy behind hypocrisy, ugliness behind beauty, insidiousness behind smile and indifference behind enthusiasm. Reading people, the most important thing is to understand how to be a person. Reading people is to win over others, so as to be an upright and noble person. Therefore, when reading people, we should learn to be tolerant, rational, empathetic and generous. Only in this way can we collect rich honey and excellent honey, read things that are beneficial to us, and read feelings, happiness, taste and happiness like bees in full bloom.
People's eyes can see the world and read others, but they can only look at themselves in the mirror. When reading ourselves, we always wear a "magnifying glass" to infinitely enlarge our advantages. A person who doesn't want to analyze himself will never understand himself, let alone others.
If you want to understand a person, you should sincerely understand everyone around you, their thoughts, needs and love, their true inner thoughts, and be generous enough to tolerate his defects and deficiencies, so that your sincerity will also make the other person feel and understand! As long as you give your true feelings, you will get along well with others and understand each other easily.
To understand a person, you need to observe with your eyes, treat with your heart, pay with your feelings, water with your love and influence with your sincerity. Just like lovers and relatives, it is because they are connected with each other that they know each other, are intimate and are happy.
As long as people have a sincere heart and a true feeling, then our society will be more harmonious, stable and beautiful.
Life perception (4):
Seek peace
Every time in the dead of night, I always want to find a quiet, lonely space, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind and escape for a while in the silence of thinking. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a tired signal to the sky, which is too tired. This kind of fatigue is unimaginable to ordinary people. I want to find inner peace every day, however, it is really difficult.
From the day of birth, people are destined to be accompanied by feelings and disappointments in life. Destiny is predestined If you want to change your destiny, you have to fight all the misfortunes and setbacks and choose the appropriate escape, which is meaningless. Escape sometimes lasts only a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence. Maybe you suddenly realized something in silence. People can't live too tired. I often comfort myself like this.
Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. Maybe I'm just a mediocre person. Why do you seek peace? In fact, in this unusually difficult day this year, I hope for peace. I thought and thought. Most of the time, I don't know what I am doing. Species in life always affect people's minds on certain days. Speaking of finding peace, everyone is looking forward to this moment. For me, this feeling may be heavier when I am alone, but it is not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy environment, their hearts have already flown to an unknown realm. I often smile, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my heart.
People sometimes pretend to be masters in the world, but they are not. All this also happened because of countless explorations and then the end of reflection. Without the excitement of real interests, sincere reverence for life and nature, gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, transparent understanding, and a kind and susceptible mind, there will be no final awakening, and there will be no natural calm and detachment.
Many times, the motivation to seek peace is far greater than some force caused by all external things. Everyone may also be a remarkable process of pursuing peace. Why is this? I asked myself with a smile. For a person who is truly integrated into life, he will lament the magic of the world's creations. I will sincerely respect and care for life and nature, which is a sincere gratitude and admiration.
At such a moment, I imagine that people are calm, and nature and gods know each other. If I really want to find peace, it is quite difficult for me, and if I want to reach the highest level of life as clear as water, it is like a fairy in the sky.
As long as all of us, with kindness and essence, cherish the magic of all things, experience the magnificence of life and enjoy the warmth of the world, peace has quietly come to us. Everything goes with the flow, or a vacuum, which represents a great wisdom and great realm of life. I am not happy for what I have, nor disappointed for what I have lost. People in this state treat nature with awe, treat people related to themselves with equality, and be brave in suffering while recognizing their own limitations. Being content with nature means a kind of depth, a kind of enrichment, and a hint of the fluency of life. Moreover, let's look around, take a look at the people walking in the street in a hurry, take a look at the poor girl sitting behind the typewriter, and take a look at the housewives who are rushing to beat their chests. Are there endless lives in these places?
Those things that once warmed our skin, those that moistened our eyes, those feelings that made us struggle and stubbornly watch, those happy days that we miss, and those love that we want to forget, there will always be a little sadness. The four seasons are always in the cycle of life. Whether we hold it tightly or open it at will, it won't stop for anyone. We haven't finished the curtain call yet, and people are already waiting to go on stage. When the curtain rises, the play is still there, but the actors have changed. We perform, we are wonderful or poor, and the dust settles.
Get up in the morning, listen to a birdsong, and listen to the breeze of the mountain spring, so as to find a quiet, spiritual connection and spiritual cleanliness, and move towards a brand-new world in a clear realm. Even a drop of dew on the grass leaves, you can see a small full moon. Sincerity and solemnity are born in tranquility. There is a saying that thousands of rivers have water and thousands of rivers have moons.
Let's go with the fate, let our hearts be indifferent and treat life calmly. Inner peace is only temporary, people's hearts will never be satisfied, whether it is feelings or career, let the past become the past. Grasping every minute of this moment is what we need to do most. I think I'm lucky to be alive, aren't I? If you expect too much from life, you will be even more disappointed. Some things in life are necessary after all, and what is not in life is futile.
Life perception (5):
Life is measured, life is measured.
Life is measured, being reasonable, doing evil has consequences, there are gods to check, and people should be kind. No one in life prescribes what to do. No one in life can manipulate you and control your destiny, but you can control yourself. You don't want to live a wonderful life, but you want to live a life without regrets. Happiness is a realm, and happiness is a pursuit. Only the road you have traveled can you understand the short and the long, and only the things you have experienced can you understand.
Grasp the standard of being a good person, maintain good health care, and live moderately. Excessive life is a disaster. It doesn't have to be deliberate, it doesn't have to be perfect, it doesn't have to be profitable, it doesn't have to be plump, it can be lofty and tolerant, otherwise you will be aloof and kind, but you must be decisive, otherwise you will be weak, but you must be awed, otherwise. Otherwise it is pride, honor and humility, otherwise it is unruly. Everything is measured, words are inexhaustible, things cannot be done, and there is room in life.
There is no despair in life. Only when you can't figure it out, there is no end to life. Only when you can't see through it, life is not perfect, and regret is beautiful and elegant. It is the calmness of reading the world, the wisdom of vicissitudes, and the indifference of Qian Fan. Smart people should be speechless when they know what to say. Smart people should enter when they know what to say, and retreat when they should. Smart people. Don't be confused, don't be emotional, put it down after the pain, don't hate, don't be greedy, don't be persistent, don't abandon, don't insist, don't be contaminated with dust, don't be greedy, be moderate in everything and be content.
Living is a kind of practice. Seeing that every day is spring is full of vitality, and it is difficult for people to be open-minded. There are many things in life that we can't predict, and some don't know the background. So don't make an assertion easily, so there is no room for manoeuvre. Those who don't leave room for themselves don't know that they have given their short-sighted views to others after laughing enough, so we don't want them.
Life depends on yourself. Life is hard work. If you work hard, you will get something. If you work hard, you will have expectations. If you are confident, you will have a smile. Look at the world with pure eyes, and the world will be wonderful. If you live a cool life, life will be perfect. If you look at the gains and losses with a normal heart, life will be simple and the years will pass.
Happiness is inner pleasure, and happiness is inner satisfaction. We don't compare ourselves with others, and we don't care about ourselves. Perfection is a pursuit. While pursuing perfection, we should grasp the scale of being a man. Happiness is a necessity of life. While pursuing happiness, we must keep the bottom line of kindness. In a person's life, how many gaps should he cross alone, and how many regrets should he leave for the years, running all the way, being busy, gathering and parting, passing by and meeting each other. Gorgeous flowers, mature body and mind, from the tempering of years, make people relax, calm their hearts, make life simple and enrich their lives. In fact, living is not just a feeling, but a state of mind.
Relying on tomorrow, we will always have a dream and fly to the future. It is precisely because of these that we dominate our body and mind and manipulate our lives. We have tasted hardships, strengthened our confidence, cherished our experience, understood the benefits of chasing, and understood the true meaning of busyness. Many times, we only grow up through success or failure, and then learn to live. Life is a chess game, and we need to try our best to win it when you have the capital. Everything should be measured, people should be satisfied, it is good to pursue a perfect life, and it is good to yearn for a high-quality life, but don't forget to bring a contented heart along the way.
Life is very tired, life is difficult, and people are difficult. We are always unwilling, distressed by that kind of life, sad by the unsatisfactory life, and embarrassed by many things. Many people, knowing each other, find it difficult. Life always leaves us with many difficulties, which makes us embarrassed everywhere. In fact, there is a lot of sadness, half life, half self, and some fantasies.
Everything in life is an opportunity. There is a reason to leave, and there is also a reason to lose. All encounters and getting along are predestined fate. Leaving is the end of fate, and losing is the end of fate. Life is the end of fate, and feelings are light. Remember those perfections, those jokes, and do this moment well, which is the perfection of life. Life is a work of art, everyone.
Life perception (6):
Everyone will grow up
The old me:
I understand that you didn't anticipate the future, and you must do so. I will think of you and write to you after many years.
A person's future is unpredictable, but some of his memories are permanent and will not disappear at any time. I don't know why, I always feel that every day is happy and warm, and I always feel that you don't know how to cherish and let many precious things slip away quietly. At the moment, you and I belong to two completely different worlds, but I have a lot to say to you. Because I want to tell you: everyone will grow up.
When I grow up, I gradually forget many things before. I no longer read fairy tales and fantasize about whether there is a princess in the castle, sing with balloons and draw a world that belongs to me on paper with crayons.
Everyone has done such a thing, but everyone who grows up will never do it again. Because we understand that castles and princesses belong to fairy tales, and fairy tales are not reality; We understand that balloons flying in the sky will not bring dreams; We understand that the world does not belong to one person, and we all belong to one world.
When I grow up, I find that it is not easy to understand life and my dreams will not come true easily. The world is big, but I am small. There are too many things I don't understand, and there are too many choices I can't go back on. We must face the inevitable reality and understand the unchangeable changes. Fate always plays all kinds of games with us, and the rules of the game are becoming more and more complicated.
When you grow up, you will never find that innocence again. Sometimes I see your shadow in others and recall how happy I am and how much I look forward to growing up; Sometimes it's just quiet, trying to find the warmth blurred by time, the innocence washed pale and colorless by maturity, and the consistent perfect old traces in memory; Sometimes I wake up like a dream and time flies. I have given up so much.
Everyone will grow up and lose. What we really need is very simple, and the reason for happiness is also very simple, but the more we know, the less we are curious; The more you deal with, the less you expect.
The road of life is not smooth at first, so we must go on, but we can't turn back. I still believe that my long-cherished wish will be in front of expectation and despair, but when I am tired, I will think of you, because of you, my heart has a place to rest. Maturity is something to be proud of, and I often envy you, with simple happiness and simple fantasy.