Self is the truest of us. The ego can only consider tiny individuals, our family and even our family, and maybe it is selfish to ourselves. The ego embodies the original authenticity of human beings, and the range of patterns we can see is limited.
I often think, one day, my dream can't support your ambition, what should I do? What to do when ambition can't support reality, compromise or continue to fight, fate, opportunities and challenges, how to resolve the dead end of life, how to break through, and yourself who can't break through in the bottleneck period. The most perfect way to deal with all this needs the pattern of life, with a long-term vision, a large enough pattern and a broad enough mind. It's easy to say, and it needs growing experience and enterprising yourself to do it.