Life is like a book. There are many problems in the book. Maybe we won't solve these problems, but we will solve them one by one in the end. There may be many conditions that confuse you in the process of doing the problem, which leads you to a dead end. There is light ahead, but you just can't find it. So you waste your good time and get nothing in the end.
But some people are not confused by these surfaces, but push aside the clouds, find the core of the problem, destroy it, destroy it and finally solve it.
Why is the gap so big?
Just because our thoughts are too rigid, we only know how to follow the clues given by others, and we don't know how to find a new breakthrough, which leads you to be lost in a temptation. Therefore, in the face of anything, we must think from many angles and aspects.
Anyone who has seen the Three Kingdoms should know that Bowangpo was burned. This is Zhuge Liang's first war. He saw the jungle and high slopes. So I thought of Cao Jun's way, and Liu Bei was there every day. Why didn't I think of that? I guess it's because Zhuge Liang is thinking about how to use this favorable terrain on a high slope, while Liu Bei is thinking about how to escape under the slope. Without Zhuge Liang's scheme, the result is still unknown. Therefore, different "angles" lead to different ideas.
There is a story: once upon a time, there was a mother who had two sons. The eldest son is a porcelain maker, and the youngest son is an umbrella maker. One day. The eldest son said to his mother, Mom, if you burn incense for the Buddha every day and keep the weather good, I can make more porcelain. Sure enough, the sun was red for the next two days. The youngest son also went home and said to his mother, Mom, you also bless the cloudy days, let me sell more umbrellas. Mom is worried now. What should I do? On cloudy days, my son's business will be bad, and on sunny days, my younger son's business will be bad. That is, her neighbor said, "Why don't you think so? Cloudy days mean that the younger son has a good business, and sunny days mean that the older son has a good business. " After listening to it, my mother felt quite right and her mind became cheerful. When the weather was fine, she asked her eldest son how business was. The eldest son said business was good. On a cloudy day, he asked his youngest son how business was. The youngest son said business was good. Since then, my mother has never made trouble again.
These two stories show that looking at things from another angle can not only solve problems, but also change your mood. So when we have any difficulties or are in a bad mood, we should think "we should look at it from another angle".
From another angle, there are different findings. From another angle, life will be better.