Happiness is a state of mind and a state of being, if your heart is full of dissatisfaction with the world! Then even if you have the whole world, you will feel sad. Optimists are mostly born in a lower class full of hardships.
Happiness cannot be captured. Some people have been pursuing happiness all their lives, but they have not been happy. Instead, they have been suffering. Happiness is a butterfly flying among flowers, and it is difficult for those who try their best to chase it to catch it. Hill has a famous saying: "money is always just money, not happiness, not happiness!" " "
Happiness is actually hidden in people's hearts. If you think you are the happiest person, you are. How much encouragement this sentence has given us on many occasions! I am not the richest or the most successful, but I am the happiest.
Xiangzi, the protagonist in Camel Xiangzi, is a typical example of the exploited lower working people in the old society. He is penniless. In order to survive, he desperately pulled rickshaws under the scorching sun and heavy rain. Being poor, he had to live a life of hunger and cold. It seems that no money is not enough. Money is a good thing. It restores self-confidence and makes people forget their troubles. It can be seen that having no money will make people live very hard.
Spillouin in Dead Soul is a rich landlord, who owns a wool mill, a weaving mill and a spinning mill, and has a huge amount of money. But he is greedy, stingy and eccentric. All he knows is to guard the piles of rotten property at home and live in suspicion and poverty all day long. Nobody cares about him at home. He became a ghost completely-a dead soul, not a person. It seems that money alone is not happy.
In Timon of Athens, Satubia said: Gold! Yellow, shiny, precious gold! ..... This thing, with a little bit, can turn black into white, ugly into beauty, wrong into right, humble into noble, old people into teenagers, cowards into warriors. It seems that money is sometimes the chief culprit in reversing Gan Kun. But it really depends on how the owner who owns the money uses it. Money can buy medicine, but not health; Money can buy a bed, but not sleep. There are many things that money can't buy.
Many scholars have come to this conclusion after conducting extensive and large-scale sampling surveys. The conclusion shows that the relationship between money and happiness is not directly proportional to what people think. The richer people are, the happier they are, and the less money they have, the less happy they are. The relationship between them is very small, and in the jargon of scholars, the relationship between them is only "slightly positive correlation".
Mr. Liang, who is now the boss of a big company, said: "I worked very hard and tired in the past few years, and I suffered many setbacks and blows. I survived." I was badly hit, and I feel that nothing can beat me in the future. But now, my career is bigger, but I am particularly painful. Even when I entered the company, I shivered and dared not face the employees. "
Zhang Ya is an engineer in a large IT group in China. When he was a child, he was so poor that he didn't even have shoes. On one occasion, he went to school to get his report card in the heavy snow in winter. He was afraid of getting his only pair of cloth shoes wet, so he walked barefoot for a long time. Two brothers and two sisters also dropped out of school early because of poverty. Only he managed to finish reading with the help of relatives and friends. Later, Zhang Ya graduated with a master's degree and went to Beijing to live a white-collar life, but he didn't feel happy. He said: "Poverty used to be a misfortune, but now it is found that having money is not necessarily happiness. Although I was poor when I was a child, my family was very happy together. Although the income is higher now, the cost of living is higher and the work pressure is greater. Therefore, I was the happiest when I was a child. "
Surrounded by several bodyguards, a well-dressed middle-aged man with sunglasses walked into the psychological consultation room of the hospital. When he saw the counselor, he suddenly put down all his disguise and cried like a child: "I have everything now, why do I still feel particularly painful?" This is quite similar to the scene in the movie Infernal Affairs, which once happened in front of Qu Ying, the director of huilongguan hospital's clinical psychology department and a famous psychological counselor. Qu Ying said: "In recent years, more and more rich people have come to psychological counseling. Really, as people say, the richer you are, the less happy you are. "
I also know some people who hold important positions or have rich families. But they are either busy dealing with the intrigue in officialdom all day, or they are rushing about for life and shopping malls. In their spare time, they either rub hemp or spend time in colorful places. Can you say that such people live a happy life?
I also know a young couple who repair shoes for a living. No matter spring, summer, autumn and winter, hot summer and cold, they sit on the roadside all day and wait on pairs of various shoes with their hands. However, at any time, their faces are filled with smiles and are in high spirits. Can you say that such people are unhappy?
Why did the rich in China die? This is a special group of people-dead billionaires. They didn't really die. By sorting out 72 death cases of billionaires found in public reports since 2003, the data obtained show that 15 people died of homicide, 17 people died of suicide, 7 people died of accidents, 14 people were executed, and 19 rich people died of illness, which is enough to make people think deeply.
Of the 72 people, 17 people left this world voluntarily. Although in different ways, they are equally determined.
Seven people, including Shao Hexie, Chairman of Jingdezhen Xinyi Real Estate Development Group, chose to hang themselves; Zhao Qingbin, general manager of Chenneng Harbin Institute of Technology High-tech Venture Capital Co., Ltd. and other five people chose to jump off the building; Lu and others, the chairman of Zhuguang Group Zhejiang Steel Structure Co., Ltd., chose to splash water; Hou and others, chairman of Fu Sen Miao Group, chose to take poison.
Jin Libin, the 44-year-old chairman of Baotou Huilong Trading Co., Ltd., took the most drastic way to set himself on fire. According to media reports, on April 13 this year, Jin Libin was found in a burnt-out car, and his body was severely carbonized. After police investigation, the possibility of homicide and accident was ruled out.
Among 17 rich people who committed suicide, Xu Kai, vice president of Shaanxi Jinhua Group and vice chairman of *ST Jinhua, and Ma Hao, general manager of Guangzhou Hua Gang Real Estate Development Company, were among the few people suffering from depression. According to media reports, Jin Libin and Wei Dong, the actual controllers of Jin Yong Department, will be exposed because of possible "criminal facts".
More rich people are crushed by major problems in their operations, leading to the break of the capital chain. Zhao Enlong, chairman of Shanxi Xinlong Rare Earth Magnetic Industry (Group) Co., Ltd., and Pang Guixiong, chairman of Zhonggu Sugar Group, all jumped from buildings in despair because of blind expansion.
Zhang Shuhong, vice chairman of Foshan Lida Toys Co., Ltd., and Qiu Zuyi, general manager of Anhui Huayuan Biopharmaceutical Co., Ltd., the former was "ruined" because of the Mattel toy recall that caused a sensation in the world; The latter was under great pressure because of the death of Clindamycin Phosphate Glucose Injection which shocked the whole country.
"In fact, adversity quotient (the ability to resist setbacks and pressures) of some rich people is often beyond ordinary people. However, their inner world is very lonely, which leads them not to seek psychological help like ordinary people, but to bear it alone. Once the limit is exceeded, they will go to extremes. " Zhang Zhenhuan, director of Changchun Intelligent Psychological Counseling Center and a senior psychological counseling expert, said that this is the so-called higher you stand, the harder you fall.
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