First of all, it is impossible to realize a set of thinking modes and methods formed in the work in secondary vocational schools. My wife always criticizes me for not understanding women and says some phenomena. I always said that the lesbians in our department and the people I contacted were careless, and there was no such person as you said, but later in practice, I really didn't understand women, and some younger brothers and sisters gave me a vivid lesson. I am criticizing myself. Before and after. May I confess? Think so well of each other, okay? For example, 9. 1 1 That night, I came back from Beijing by K27 train and just entered the door at 8 o'clock. She asked me to go to Dongpo Restaurant on business. I thought I was going to move drinks for the next day's party, so I immediately took the 35 bus. But before she came, when she came, she showed me the menu, thinking that this was my strength in Cory, the combination of meat and vegetables, and even numbers of hot and cold. But when the waiter came, she lit up as if I were not here. I'm annoyed with such disrespectful people. It's almost 9: 30, and it's raining hard before I go home by bus. Another example is, "I feel that our mass WeChat has a high degree of attention ..." I chose three and four in the group. Another example is the party where 65438+ was invited to solve "my problems" on February 25, 2007 ... I won't list them one by one. In short, the lesson is profound and the understanding is profound. Some schoolmates can't keep up with the times, and their mouths are still stuck in the consciousness of the sixties and seventies. Can we cooperate? How? !
Secondly, when I first established the alumni group, I called Bai Min III, Song Huayang, and the alumni in the upper group and the lower group many times, hoping that they would join the big family of WeChat, urging them to join WeChat, and listed a lot of benefits, all of which were accepted. But I just can't. It is true that thrush sparrows have different voices, and golden roosters and crows have different nests. Different circles don't need to be strong.
I have been trying to be a sensitive, warm and insightful person. Now I understand, don't be greedy for cheap, don't pay for free, and don't cater to others with wishful thinking. It's really different. There is no common goal. You can't make friends with different aspirations. This is the norm. Birds of a feather flock together!
Only spend time and energy on people with the same aspirations and the same way, and spend it on valuable things. At the same time, I will study hard, fully absorb knowledge and nutrients like a sponge, enrich myself and broaden my life pattern. Only in this way can others respect you and look at you with new eyes. Close to you.
Fortunately, in the five years of re-communication, I have learned the true colors of some people through practice. At the same time, I also look at those who are filial to their elderly parents and selflessly and sincerely help their younger brothers and sisters (Yuling's granddaughter will send me a WeChat immediately to ask if she needs the support of life insurance), actively study hard and attach importance to friendship. Similarly, you can be a learned friend. Shenghua became friends in this way. This has added a lot of spiritual wealth to my old age in the sunset. So as to join hands in the brilliant life. Think of more than a dozen schoolmates who have passed away in General 108, and we are still talking! Stepped into ancient olefins. We are very happy! Treasure it! ! !
1 12020.03.05. In Beijing and Drew.