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We bid farewell to the comfortable and happy winter vacation life and started a temporary new campus life. New starting point, new hope? . On the first day of school, as usual, we watched the first lesson.
This course is based on. Inheriting family style and family training and practicing core values? Taking this as the theme, by introducing the patriotic feelings contained in Zhao Yiman's family letters, Yang's dedicated family style inspires his family, the honest family style that the family adheres to, and the friendly family training practiced by Luo Biyan's family, let us deeply understand what family style family training is. How to pass on fine traditions from generation to generation?
As the old saying goes:? Zhu Dexiao comes first. ? It is said that filial piety to parents is the most important and primary virtue among all kinds of beautiful virtues of human beings, and it is also the family style that every family should inherit first. Luo Biyan adheres to the family style and family motto of filial piety, loving relatives and doing more good deeds. He tried to take care of his relatives, stepfather and adoptive parents, and educated his children with great filial piety. Families with four generations living under one roof attach great importance to morality and filial piety, and they live in harmony with each other. I was deeply shocked by his behavior. When I was a child, I often spoiled in the arms of my parents, always promising that I would let you live a happy life when I grew up. But on weekdays, as long as I have eaten, I often turn to watch TV or go out to play, while my parents are busy tidying up. There is delicious food at home. They always let me taste it first, but I am used to picking it up and eating it. Once I was sick, my parents were very busy and took good care of them, but they were unwell, so I could only say hello and do nothing for them.
? Family style? As the name implies, it is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. Good family discipline, family rules and family style not only bear the hope and spur of generations to future generations, but also reflect the excellent national style of the Chinese nation. Watching the first lesson of school makes us imperceptible? Honesty, filial piety, diligence and sincerity? For example, excellent family style edification. In the future, I will use a good family style to shape my behavior, thus achieving my life.
Excellent family style experience II
Recently, I was watching a TV series called Tiger Mom and Cat Dad, which was about family disputes caused by educating children. Treat children, tiger mother? Take high-handed measures. Cat dad? Obedience in every way. This difference exists not only between young parents, but also between the older generation, who have their own views and actions. Grandparents are extremely fond of them, but they do not hesitate to use violent means to discipline them.
The educational values of this family are so chaotic that the family is not on the same channel at all. As a result, families can't live in harmony, make a scene, and even create family tragedies. This phenomenon is not an isolated case now. Many families educate their children in the same way as grandparents. Parents use new tricks, some use indigenous methods, and some use foreign models. Family values are different, and family style is vague and chaotic. Bad family style not only affects children's future, but also makes adults happy.
In a big way, the family is the cell of society. If the family style is not good, how can the social fashion be pure and mellow? Many family conflicts are naturally not conducive to social harmony and stability. Some people say that children are the greatest common denominator in China. In educating children, if a family wants to form a good family style, it must find the common denominator of the value of the times.
From ancient times to the present, family style and national luck are also closely linked. The ancients said that family style is an important content of self-cultivation and self-cultivation. Mencius also said that the foundation of the world is in the country, and the foundation of the country is at home. ? Now, the whole world is also advocating it? The most beautiful family style? , looking for what? The most beautiful family? It is because the family is closely related to the fate of the country, and the family style is related to social customs and affects national governance.
In ancient times, many classics related to family education, such as Disciple's Rules, Book of Rites, Zhu Zi's Family Instructions, Yan Family Instructions, etc., recorded many details of family education, and there were many family instructions and aphorisms, which can still be used as principles in life. Last year, Yang Xingming's family in Wulong of our city was awarded by the All-China Women's Federation? The most beautiful family in the country? Honorary title, the propaganda department of the Communist Party of China, and the All-China Women's Federation also named the old man Yang Xingming? Advanced model of national education? It is because this family has passed on the family instructions of the Huang family for more than 100 years, educated generations of descendants of the Huang family, and formed a good family style, which is worth learning from more families.
Family style is a kind of traditional culture, which involves many moral ethics and etiquette norms and needs to be passed down to today. To treat traditional culture, there is a common sense judgment, that is, don't copy it blindly, but take its essence and discard its dross. This requires that around the family style, we should not only inherit the traditional excellent cultural ethics, but also actively implant the advanced value elements of the times, provide educational values that every family can follow, and form a new family style.
This educational value should be condensed, which is the greatest common denominator of the value of the times. For example, we should not only have the basic qualities such as etiquette, kindness, diligence and simplicity advocated by the traditional family style, but also the socialist core values such as civilization, harmony, freedom, equality and the rule of law advocated by the state now. Only by effectively integrating excellent traditional culture with advanced modern civilization, forming the value of the times and forming a new family style, will family education not have that kind of value confusion.
Book of rites? The study book says:? Rejuvenate the country and the people, teaching first. ? At present, we should use a more open, inclusive and eclectic spirit to condense the greatest common denominator of the value of the times and form a modern social civilization? The most beautiful family style? Let every family form a rational understanding in educating their children, so as to continuously promote the development of modern society? The most beautiful family? Let the family be more harmonious and the society more harmonious.
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Many famous families in ancient China wrote family rules and family instructions. Later generations, whether ordinary people or dignitaries, will be relatively law-abiding, and the influence of family style should not be underestimated. Because these people have been exposed since childhood, good family style has a subtle educational effect on them, and at the same time, family rules and family instructions with clear written records have a strong moral binding force on them. Today, under the new situation of strictly administering the Party in an all-round way, it is undoubtedly worth learning from these traditional resources to strengthen the construction of cadres' family style in party member.
In this ancient land, the time of life is fleeting. However, there are always some people and things like gilded stone carvings. Although they have been washed away by the rivers of time for thousands of years, they have not passed away, but have become more and more precious. Among them, there are family stories full of warmth and wisdom, and the traditions and virtues contained in them are integrated into language and blood, which has become an important core of the Chinese national spirit. Today, it seems that these excellent traditional family styles can still provide inexhaustible spiritual motivation for party building and national development.
From generation to generation, the spirit follows. Parents are the best role models for their children. I'm afraid it's my close relatives who will benefit the most from setting a moral example and developing a good family style. Fan Zhongyan, a famous minister in the Song Dynasty, was praised by Ji Xiaolan as "worrying about the world first, and enjoying the world later". Seek to be worthy of the sages, and learn to be an official? At the same time, my education for children is very strict. Under the influence of good family style, their children can also inherit the spirit of their parents and be praised by future generations.
Peng Yulin's life was full of legends, and he made great contributions to the rejuvenation of the Qing Dynasty. However, he resigned six times in his life: he neglected civil affairs because he was used to military camps, so he resigned as the governor of Anhui; Please resign as the governor of eight provinces for lack of knowledge, patience and ignorance. The first fat job in the world? ; He resigned from the Ministry of War for four consecutive times in four years. At the critical moment, Peng Yulin was always fearless in times of crisis, and then retired, never greedy for credit.
Peng Yulin is honest and clean in performing his official duties. Although you are in a high position, you always insist? No money? The law of life. He paid over 2 1500 Liang Lian yin in seven years, without taking a penny, and turned it all over to the state treasury for military pay. In the late Qing Dynasty, powerful people were in power, and Peng Yulin became a rare honest and clean official.
Peng Yulin is strict not only with himself, but also with his children. From his letters, we can see his good housekeeping style. When he learned that his son had spent a lot of money to repair the old house, Peng Yulin? Yukiko? The book says:? Buying a house and land is regarded as a bad habit of being an official. I swear not to do it, but you are extravagant. Today, Wang Lu's house was burned down, those people didn't have enough shelter from the wind and rain, many officials were poor, and the soldiers lacked salaries. Boys are arrogant and ashamed! ? He also advised his son? Xi sheng? :? In the future, we should learn from a painful experience and be determined to study, and be careful not to aim too high. Thinking that they are well-fed and carefree, they learn from their own princes and grandchildren, cover up their depraved shortcomings and degenerate their family style. ?
Not only for children, but also for relatives, Peng Yulin wrote to his younger brother, warning him not to be crony and cronyism. If it is used, it will attract private people and form cronies, which will not help national affairs. If you are afraid that it will break the law, you will have an affair and you will not be able to enforce the law. ?
If you want to establish a good family style for future generations, you must first be yourself and stick to principles. Set an example by yourself, no matter how bad the political environment is, always keep clean and honest, and you can be an example for future generations. At present, party member cadres should also do their best first, so as to be honest with others. At the same time, family style also needs to be cultivated consciously, and the improper behavior of children's relatives should be constantly mentioned in order to correct it in time and build a strong ideological defense line.
The power of family style can always travel through time and space, exerting amazing moral guidance and binding force. Family style and family rules, whether engraved on stone tablets, inscribed on plaques and couplets, or sung in poems, have long gone beyond the tangible, guiding future generations to be on par with outstanding ancestors in an invisible and silent place. Some family traditions have been passed down for hundreds of years. For example, why did Taipusi Qing of the Ming Dynasty still observe He Jiaxun from generation to generation, without interruption for 500 years, and his education had already surpassed his own people, which also had a nourishing effect on the local customs and habits as a whole.
Why has he served as the great director of the Ming Dynasty and the great director of Nanjing Dali Temple? And the official to Taibu Temple. He was honest and honest all his life, loyal to officials, and dared to fight against the behavior of Yan Song, a powerful minister at that time. Shang's integrity is closely related to his family precepts.
As early as the early Ming Dynasty, the Ho family formulated twelve family instructions, which taught their children and grandchildren loyalty, filial piety, sincerity, faith, courtesy, righteousness, honesty, shame, respect for their ancestors, kindness and perseverance in 12. Why is Shang's father famous for his filial piety and strict education for his children? Why should he hang himself in the yard? Do not do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, do whatever you want. But for the son of heaven, not for private officials, for Shu Ren, not for future generations. ?
Why do villagers hold a grand celebration ceremony at Jingshan Pavilion in the village? When celebrating, why do you suggest making some village rules and regulations, changing the village style and promoting healthy atmosphere? So, under the auspices of his father, he drafted Ten Articles of Rural Contract and hung it in the pavilion, renamed it? Xiangting? . After more than 460 years, Xiangting? It has been preserved intact to this day. Why did Shang stick to his family style all his life, and when he retired, why did the court seal him up? Family integrity, bathing poetry; At the end of the macro test, the final support will be withdrawn; Teach your son filial piety and loyalty. ?
? The children in the village should receive ethics education, and then the literati will rise, and talents will emerge in large numbers, which will become the glory of the first division after the beauty. Children in the village should learn and accumulate good deeds, cultivate themselves with integrity, carry forward articles to serve the country, and inherit family traditions with loyalty and filial piety. Advocate frugality to keep clean and accumulate wealth to cultivate talents? This 10 rural rules and regulations, together with He Jiaxun, have become the spiritual bond to inherit He Jiafeng. From then on, scholars in the township ranked first in Xingye County, with Jiajing to Qin Long and Wanli 12 people. Throughout the dynasties, people of all ethnic groups, regardless of martial arts level, always abide by the law and discipline, rarely commit crimes for the people, and be honest and fair to officials.