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Life is like a trip. Forty years of hard work and hard work have made me realize the difficulty of struggle and forge ahead, and at the same time, I have also appreciated the beauty of infinite scenery in the dangerous peaks. Looking back on my growth process, I find that growth is a kind of transformation, a butterfly. In the predicament of life, as long as you are not afraid of pain and suffering, you will be able to overcome many difficulties and realize your dreams.
First, self-growth analysis
Happy childhood.
I was born in a beautiful small village. Although I suffered from hunger and cold in my childhood, my unrestrained life made me optimistic and cheerful. I can't forget the scene of playing hide-and-seek with my children on the neighbor's big locust tree, and I can't forget the scene of jumping into the ice hole with my children ... The vast nature, rich activities and pure friendship have diluted the shadow of hunger and cold and become a treasure in my memory.
A little older, like other children of the same age, I took up my schoolbag and started my school life. Every morning when I come home from school, I will cook a pot of porridge as a family breakfast. After school in the afternoon, I will finish my homework quickly and then go to the field to mow the grass and feed the rice, and help my parents do what they can. Fortunately, my father was an accountant in the production team at that time. Although he is very busy, his income is relatively acceptable. As the eldest daughter of my family, I naturally get more love from my parents. Every weekend, I can get a few cents from my father to buy comic books at Xinhua Bookstore in town. Five years in primary school, I saved two boxes full of comic books by myself. It was from then on that I formed the habit of studying hard and loving books. Unconsciously, my academic performance was getting better and better every day.
(B) Experience in middle school.
After graduating from primary school, I was selected to study in a key middle school in the town with excellent results. At that time, every Saturday, I would walk home eight miles away with several other students and go back to school with a stack of pancakes on Sunday afternoon to start my study life for a week. During this period, my father lost money in business and got into the habit of drinking. My mother became irritable and nagging because of family changes. The whole family often falls into arguments for these reasons. It should be said that I was in adolescence, and I was immersed in a gray mood for a long time: depression, irritability, being at a loss, and my study was also affected to some extent. When I graduated from junior high school, I was among the best in my class and didn't even get into secondary school. It should be said that the past was unbearable, and the twists and turns made me realize the vicissitudes and helplessness of life. Fortunately, at that time, my diary became my best friend and faithful listener, helping me vent my "sentimentality" and help me heal my inner wounds every day. Anyway, I should thank my parents. They may not be perfect people, but my father's simplicity and generosity, my mother's optimism and enthusiasm have exerted a subtle influence on me. Although this period of time was a low point in my life, it was in this environment that I learned to understand and endure in my parents' stumbling.
When I was in high school, I had a clear goal, that is, "go to college and continue my studies." Although I was busy studying at that time, in order to exercise myself, I still insisted on helping the teacher to do a good job in class management and broadcast on the school radio station. At that time, I realized that I had become a mature person, able to handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships and help my parents shoulder the burden of the family. Enlightened parents didn't ask me to undertake anything for my family, but created a more relaxed atmosphere for me to develop freely. Now that I think about it, it is really difficult for me to bear the burden of my family independently in high school. At that time, the so-called "maturity" was only the sense of adulthood in adolescence.
(3) Mature youth
A few months after I entered the university, I was once trapped. Although I have been studying abroad and living an independent life since middle school, this is the first time I have left home for thousands of miles. The prosperity of the city drowned my joy of entering school, the strong local accent swallowed up my self-confidence, and the traffic on the asphalt road made me dizzy ... Fortunately, the cordial greetings from the teacher and the warm friendship from my classmates made me quickly come out of my inferiority complex; Get up in the morning and go to the botanical garden opposite the school to run a few laps to experience the joy of sports; In class, immerse yourself in the mysterious hall of psychological knowledge and enjoy the pleasure of seeking knowledge; In my spare time, the library with rich books provides me with a broad reading space ... During my four years in college, I also tried to participate in some student club activities, such as the Speech Association and ballroom dancing training classes. Although I didn't persist in the end, this experience laid a solid foundation for me to go to the forum and engage in education in the future.
After taking part in the work, I became a junior high school teacher. As a new teacher, I love my job: I often stay up late to correct my homework; Tossing and turning for teaching problems; Share knowledge with students in class and get success; Have a heart-to-heart talk with my classmates in my spare time and grow up together. On holidays, seeing the greeting cards sent by children and hearing their blessings, I deeply feel the happiness as a teacher. In retrospect, it should be said that my success in entering students' hearts is largely related to my lively and cheerful personality.
After my son was born, I became a happy and anxious mother: children cry and I cry, children laugh and I laugh; I am nervous when my child is sick, and I am relaxed when my child is healthy; Sing and tell stories with children, take care of him to eat and sleep, and don't let anyone interfere. Now that I think about it, maybe I was too concerned about my children and lost myself. As the children grew up day by day, I realized my own problems and began to consciously let my husband take care of the children and try to be separated from them. Besides going to work, I also have two library cards in the county library, and I insist on reading books and doing morning exercises every day. A few days ago, when Professor Lu was explaining the knowledge of psychometrics to us, he guided us to do some related tests. When I finished the EPQ test, I was surprised to find that my temperament type has developed from a mixture of choleric and sanguine temperament in college to an atypical temperament type. That is to say, on the basis of frankness, courage and flexibility, my personality has avoided the original impatience and sentimentality and added some mature and steady temperament.
Looking back on my growth process, I gradually formed my relatively stable personality traits: music group, tolerance, kindness, integrity and self-confidence. For my family, I have a strong sense of responsibility, I am good at caring and accommodating my family, and I am proactive and willing to contribute to my work. I trust my friends and treat them sincerely. I know that "there is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect", and there are still some aspects that I need to improve urgently. For example, I am still sensitive, and emotional contagion, who is easily influenced by others, easily produces some emotions during the consultation process, which affects the progress of the consultation; In the future, on the one hand, I will strengthen my exercise and cultivate my willpower, on the other hand, I will further analyze and adjust myself, improve my psychological quality and realize my ideal in life.
Second, the analysis of professional behavior
My first contact with psychology was in college. At that time, I couldn't clearly predict my future. What is the relationship between professional associations and psychology? I am deeply attracted by the infinite charm of psychology, and I am proud that I have the honor to learn psychological knowledge. With the accumulation of psychological knowledge, the mysterious veil of psychology has been unveiled layer by layer: Ebbinghaus's forgetting curve, Freud's psychoanalysis, Piaget's cognitive development, Vygotsky's recent development zone, Pavlov's conditioned reflex ... When the great theory of psychologists is as magical as magic before my eyes, my cognition of psychology is becoming clearer and clearer. For me, psychology is not only the need to complete my studies, but also a mentor to help and guide my growth. From then on, I began to consciously try to apply psychological knowledge to my study and life, so as to maximize my study and life quality.
When I became a class teacher, I got along with my students day and night. I witnessed the growth of every student in my class. The spiritual world of students is like an all-encompassing nature: sometimes the sky is clear in Wan Li; Sometimes the clouds are overcast and the wind is raging. In the face of children's psychological problems and diseases, I not only realized the happiness of growing up with them and realizing myself, but also realized the frustration and powerlessness at a loss. In 2006, there was a boy in the class. Because he was obsessed with the internet, he spent all day in the Internet bar. Because he wanted money, he often drew his sword against his parents. In 2007, a girl was diagnosed with schizophrenia and was forced to suspend her studies. In 2008, a boy beat his father, abused his mother, skipped classes many times and gathered people to fight ... Facing the painful reality, I felt more and more the importance of shouldering the burden. As an educator, how to nip in the bud, guide students to maintain mental health and help students to enhance their tolerance for psychological conflicts has become another understanding and pursuit of teaching and educating people.
In 2008, I signed up for the national psychological counselor training. Although it's a year of no doubt, I'm tired of working and studying at the same time, but I've been gritting my teeth and persisting. I know this kind of study is too important for me. Through the training and study of psychological counselors, on the one hand, they make up for their lack of professional skills and improve their ability to help students and others solve problems, on the other hand, they also help themselves to carry out more suitable family education for their sons, reduce the harm caused by their ignorance and improve the happiness index of their families and themselves.
In the past two years, with the help and guidance of a number of senior psychological counselors, I have more comprehensively understood and understood myself, further improved and perfected myself, and basically possessed the qualities that a qualified psychological counselor should possess: the ability of self-adjustment has been further enhanced; Reserved a relatively rich knowledge of psychology; I have mastered certain information technology ... Although the counselor failed in the thesis exam, it was through these two face-to-face exchanges with the psychologist that I realized that I still have a long way to go. To be an excellent psychological counselor, it is not enough to study and participate in training. I need to create more opportunities, accept the supervision of psychologists and learn from other better psychological counselors.
In the process of psychological counseling, I fully realize that establishing a good counseling relationship with consultants is more important than counseling theory and skills. Facing the help seekers with different values, we should first respect their values, understand and accept them unconditionally, and then apply the consulting techniques and skills to individual consultations. I believe that everyone has the inner strength of self-growth and self-improvement. A good psychological counselor should be able to find these resources, guide the seekers to tap their self-help potential, and solve their own problems with the help of psychological counselors.
Psychological counseling is a sacred profession, and psychological counselors are engineers of human souls. As a teacher, I am willing to study the psychological development of teenagers with all educators and cultivate qualified talents for the physical and mental health of the country; As a mother, I want to discuss parenting education with parents all over the world, so as to support a blue sky for the growth of our children. As a psychological counselor, I am willing to explore with all my colleagues and sweep away the dust of the soul for everyone around me.
I am eager to understand, to be recognized by others, and to share my feelings with people with lofty ideals. At the same time, I will always remind myself not to lose myself in other people's voices. Educator Suhomlinski said: "People who have never overcome difficulties and have never been burdened cannot become real people." The growth of psychological counselors requires us to be brave in taking responsibility and challenging difficulties. It's like a butterfly pupating. This process is very complicated. It is painful to get rid of the shackles, but the result is beautiful. I am looking forward to my beauty and flying. I am willing to follow my dream to the end.
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