I always answer like this without thinking: "Have a heart that loves students!" ?

When I first started working, I often hung out with students. Students like me and often share their snacks with me. I also cook some delicious meals for them. After a long time, we became close friends.

I took care of this class of students for five years, and they accompanied me through the first Children's Day after graduating from primary school. In spring, we braved the drizzle to go for a spring outing; In summer, I chat with my students on campus. In autumn, we go to the wild to pick up leaves and make specimens; In winter, we make snowmen and have snowball fights together on snowy mornings. ...

In the fifth year of work, I became a fifth-grade Chinese teacher. One afternoon, after cleaning, Wang Xiaoxiao came to the office and reported, "Zhao killed a bird." I patted the table and said angrily, "Call me Zhao. What happened to a bird? " After investigation, the cause and effect of the incident is like this. A bird fell from the tree and hit Zhao on the head. At that time, the bird was dying. He felt funny, grabbed the bird by the neck and held it in the water until it drowned. How can a child of 1 1 be so cruel? I severely criticized him. Every time I see this child in the future, I will have a lingering fear and think of it unconsciously. I feel that a primary school student should be caring and won't do anything to kill creatures.

Later, when I was correcting my homework, I noticed him again. There is a topic: Imagine the future life of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl. Zhao wrote: Cowherd meets mistress, and they are together. San Xiao is so hateful. The Weaver Girl was very angry and killed her mistress. I looked at these lines, puzzled, surprised and surprised. Zhao came to my office after school. I asked him why he wrote this, but he didn't talk and kept crying. At this moment, I realized that he must be hiding something. Regarding the last incident, I decided to visit his home. After the home visit, I realized that he lived in a discordant family. His father cheated, and his mother cheated later. His parents have bad feelings and often fight in front of their children.

I'm worried about Zhao's growing environment, and I'm also anxious to take the most effective way to get my children back to a healthy track as soon as possible. One thing is certain: Zhao has serious psychological problems, and the family environment has affected the healthy growth of children. If you don't get the correct guidance, the consequences will be unimaginable. I have to save this child. I want to see the lovely boy in the sun. So, I read many books and consulted many similar cases, such as Tao Xinhua's Application of Positive Psychology in Education, Li Zhenxi's Love and Education, Being the Best Class Teacher and so on. Talking once a week has become our time together. He is my child, and I will overcome the difficulties with him. He didn't want to talk at first, so I said a lot. At the beginning, it was mainly guided by ideas and followed suit. I often tell him: "Don't be afraid of problems during the voyage. We are friends, and I have been silently supporting you by your side. " When you need me, please believe that I will always be by your side! "After a long time, he slowly opened up to me and said more.

The days passed quietly for several months, and suddenly one day, he ran to the office and cried, like a flood that burst its banks, out of breath. I asked him, but he said nothing. Later, the life teacher told me that his parents were divorced. At that moment, I panicked and was at a loss. I thought I could change him slowly by talking to him more. But now everything is back to the starting point, and the situation is even worse. Sure enough, he became more withdrawn, didn't communicate with anyone, and often stayed in his seat alone, staring blankly ahead. Even when we had a heart-to-heart conversation, he sat there silently without saying a word. Looking at this child who is about to collapse, my heart aches. If the child has been withdrawn and indifferent and has not been treated in time, what is the worst situation? Dare not think deeply. I only have one thought: I can't let the children go on like this, no matter how difficult it is, I will work hard. I care about him as much as possible, encourage him more, pay more attention to him in class, and let other students communicate with him and play with him more. Every time I mention a sensitive topic in class, I will speak carefully and protect my broken heart with my weak strength. However, everything still doesn't seem to get better, and his condition hasn't improved much. In desperation, I turned to Dr. Tao Xinhua, director of psychological counseling at Suzhou University. Teacher Tao said earnestly, "The children in this family are very fragile and think they are abandoned children. First of all, you should tell this child that even if their parents are divorced, they still love you! Parents may have bad feelings and can't live together. However, their love for you has not changed, because you are related by blood, which will never change. Secondly, as a class teacher, we should always contact and communicate with parents so that parents can care more about their children. Nowadays, video chat is very convenient to let children feel love and know that their parents still love them. In addition, as a class teacher, we should pay more attention to the children of this special family, care more about them, be careful what we say and protect the children's self-esteem. "

Teacher Tao's words gave me professional guidance. I insist on chatting with my children once a week without interruption. No matter how busy I am at work, I will make time. Contact his mother often and ask her to see more children. We agree that she should visit the children at school every Wednesday. Once, Zhao didn't go to see his mother as agreed. He sat dejectedly on the steps at the school gate and looked straight at the gate. Mother didn't appear until dark, but he was still waiting. I think his mother may have been delayed! I dialed his mother's phone with my mobile phone and told him kindly, "Come here quickly! Your mother hasn't forgotten to come to see you and give you a video call. " He came skipping happily. In this way, a semester passed, and the distance between me and him gradually narrowed. He also slowly walked out of the shadow of his parents' divorce and became cheerful and laughing again. Looking at his healthy growth, I feel sincerely gratified and proud of my career! What a noble cause it is to save a child's soul! Since then, I have also strengthened my educational ideal and become a caring teacher.

In September 2020, I left the place where I devoted my six years of youth. I often keep in touch with those children. When it is cold, I will remind them to wear more clothes and pay attention to cold and warmth. They miss me, too. They always ask me, "Teacher, when will you come back to see us?" During the Chinese New Year, they sent me greetings: "Happy New Year, teacher." As a teacher, I am very pleased. I am glad that I am in contact with a group of immature children, and I don't have to work hard to cheat with them every day. This is the greatest talent and gift of being a teacher. I like my job, I like dealing with children, I have sincere communication with them, and I have always been sincere. ? After I came to Gaocheng Town Central Primary School, I took three English classes, and the course tasks were heavy, so I didn't serve as the head teacher again. In order to get familiar with the new environment quickly and not delay my children's study, I race against time every day. I have two children of my own, a primary school and a kindergarten. Get up early in the morning, cook, dress the second child and take care of his dinner. Pack and take her to school. These things seem simple, but they consume a lot of energy. In order not to let this group of children in school fall behind, I asked myself to get to school before seven o'clock and organize students to read early. Come early, not many students arrive at school. There are a few. I'll just sort out a few. One more, and I'll organize another. Slowly, the children all got into the habit. Sweeping the floor, reading books, everything is in good order. At the end of the day, the children who come early read half an hour more than the other children. The early bird catches the worm. I believe that as long as I work harder than others, the result will not be too bad. Seeing that they are making progress day by day and conquering what they want to learn bit by bit, my heart is relieved. When I leave the campus after school every day, I am relaxed, happy and full.

For me, who has been teaching for six years, all my previous achievements have passed. I once again stand at a new starting point, start a new journey and accept new challenges. In my new job, I have experienced not only geographical changes, but also different versions of teaching materials, not only differences in education and teaching management, but also the particularity of school learning. I still have a lot to learn, so charge first! Feel while charging! In order to improve the level of education and teaching, I carefully study the curriculum standards, closely follow the teaching materials, sum up the key knowledge of the unit, grasp the direction of the proposition, study the conventional questions, be precise and concise, effectively improve the classroom efficiency, adhere to one lesson and one lesson, do one pair at a time, do everything right, and never think about it in advance. Since teaching, I have always treated every student fairly, without discriminating against or neglecting the underachievers, seeking quick success and instant benefit. I am a catcher in the rye, and I always believe that every child will grow into a big tree. As a teacher, I not only play the role of spreading words, but also be good at inspiring students. I use my wisdom and educational wit to create a platform for students to show their own style and tap their potential, and help them become creative talents to realize their own values and serve the society. This has always been my educational philosophy and my educational standard.

Mao is an underachiever in Class 32, and his academic performance has always been downstream. In order to help him improve his grades, I will ask him questions in every class. His answers are always unsatisfactory, either without a word, or with poor pronunciation and stuttering. There have been several fights between the upper lip and the lower lip, but I just can't say it. I decided to change this situation, let him stay after school, and we can sit down and talk.

I made an analysis of Mao's classmates, and his most prominent problem is his lack of confidence in learning and poor self-awareness in learning. Therefore, I want to start with improving his confidence in learning. After school, the first thing I asked him was, "Did you find English difficult all morning?" At that time, his eyes told me that he dared not say it. He didn't speak, just stood there. Many times later, I will inadvertently think of that helpless look. I want to reach out and hug this child, give him confidence, strength and courage, and let him face the world with confidence, sunshine and smile. In order to reassure him, I said, "Please treat me as a friend! Tell me about your confusion, your distress, your troubles! I can help you find the root of the problem. " At this time, I paid special attention to his expression, from frowning to relaxing, from cloudy to clear sky in Wan Li. He finally spoke: "English is not difficult! Teacher, you often say that English is a language, and speaking more is very important. " Speak very simply and neatly. After listening to this sentence, I smiled and said, "Thank you for remembering what I said. Do you want to learn English well? " Here, I purposefully infiltrated my educational content. Nowadays, many children are spoiled, willful and ungrateful to their parents and teachers. Therefore, teachers should be good at seizing the opportunity of education and say more words of thanks. At this time, he said categorically, "Teacher, I want to study hard." There is no pause, no thinking. I am thinking: how precious it is for children to have an enterprising heart! Even if I can't learn well, this heart still deserves my careful care. I added, "As long as you have confidence, you will learn well. It depends on human effort, and I will help you. Please believe that we can work together! " He has a confident smile on his face.

Sometimes, the teacher's love for students is simple. A greeting, a concern, a look and an encouragement can make the injured child heal the wound and calm the grumpy child down. In the days that followed, whenever he was free, Mao always consciously appeared in the office to study. One day, two days, ... for many days, he never stopped. In order to find out his problems more accurately, I decided to give him ideological education. He is introverted and does not like to talk. When he meets a problem that he can't solve, he won't ask other students for advice. I told him that there must be a teacher for the three of Confucius, and even a great sage like Confucius humbly asked for advice, let alone us. On the other hand, I talked with him about ideals and idols. I consciously guided him to set up lofty ideals and inspired him to learn and yearn for idols. Slowly, he also began to ask other students for advice. He will mark the words he doesn't understand one by one. Using the time after class, he will clean up everything he doesn't understand. In this way, I study every day, and I am clear every day. I actually got over 80 points in the final exam. Looking at his report card, I am sincerely pleased with his progress and gratified that I have kept a helpless soul.

I still remember when I first came, the children didn't know me. In order to make the children accept me, I enter the classroom a few minutes early for every class. Many times, I wait at the door of the classroom before the teacher finishes the last class. After class, I will stay a little longer. Children will surround me and ask questions. I like these children in Class Three One. Although the boys are a little noisy, their enthusiasm infected me. They are a special group. They go home once a week. They usually spend more time at school than at home, and they spend more time with their teachers than with their parents. After getting along for a long time, they trust me. Once, Wang Wenke accidentally called me "Mom", and all the other children laughed, so did I. Liu Tong was the kind of child who didn't dare to boast. Because of praise, I read louder, and my voice is hoarse when I often read. In order to protect his health, I have to praise him less or not. Although Zhang Wenhao looks a little dull, she is very cute. Every time I have an English class, he will nag me: "Teacher, I have finished this homework." Sometimes, I think he is like Tang Priest, pedantic and cute. Liu Yihang is timid and a bit lazy. I will seize his weakness and educate him. Last semester, I got over 90 points in the mid-term exam, which surprised everyone. His grandmother joked, "My grandson can be an interpreter when he grows up!" " "Wang Hongye and works I put them in the same category. They are quiet and clever. But I have always felt that the two of them should not be underestimated, and there must be big dreams hidden in their small bodies. Yang, Li and Hao Yiwei are all my right-hand men. With them, I don't have to worry about the mess in the classroom when I am away; With them, my teaching work has become more comfortable. There is a saying that "there are three buckets of grain at home, so it is not proper to king of the children". I, the king of children, have a sense of accomplishment. In my mind, Class Three One is a big family, and Teacher Zhang, the head teacher, is a parent. Under his leadership, we are getting better and better! Children are polite, have rules, know honor and disgrace, and distinguish right from wrong. If someone asks me: Who is the cutest person? I want to say, it must not be the cutest of these stooges in Class Three One! I like these children and teach them well. I've been trying.

Teachers' sincere love for students is the emotional charm that infects students. Without emotion, all education is impossible. In the days to come, I will record every love story with my notes, be a caring, patient and responsible teacher, do warm education, create a warm classroom, and make students feel happy because of my existence!