Laozi said: "There is a way in the world, and it is abolished." Laozi also said: "Sin is greater than desire, disaster is greater than dissatisfaction, and blame is greater than desire. So the contented are always happy. "
Nowadays, many teenagers turn a blind eye to the peaceful and prosperous times when countless martyrs gave their lives, and turn a blind eye to the achievements of reform and opening up after hardships. But their dissatisfaction with reality is growing, and they always feel that they are not pleasing to the eye. This is the rebellious psychology of dissatisfaction with reality.
Facing the profound background of international and domestic economic, political and cultural development in the 2 1 century, from an international perspective, the anti-socialist forces have never given up their attempts to divide and westernize the younger generation in China, and the sustained development of the country's comprehensive strength and the victory of the socialist cause are increasingly reflected in the overall quality of the younger generation; Domestically, with the deepening of reform and opening up and market economy, many new problems have emerged at all levels of society: the negative effects of market economy have brought negative effects to teenagers, money worship and extreme individualism, negative corruption in social and political life, counterfeiting in commodity economy, fraud in economic life, and rampant pornography and gambling in cultural life, which have seriously impacted their hearts. Young people's deep dissatisfaction with reality leads to rebellious psychology, which directly hinders their healthy growth.
As a psychological phenomenon, teenagers' rebellious psychology, like other psychological phenomena, is neither good nor bad, but as a social imagination and an objective psychological problem, it has a noticeable influence on social development and teenagers' own growth.
(A) the negative impact of adolescent rebellious psychology
1, when the objective things can't meet or break away from the needs of the subject, it will make the subject bored and resistant. Some teenagers blindly resist the ideological education carried out by schools, teachers and parents, thinking that these words are just big and empty, far from real life and have nothing to do with our needs.
2. They hold a negative attitude towards everything advocated by society, schools and parents, show a kind of thinking that they don't agree with and trust the direction, take an extreme view of the dark side of society, and unilaterally exaggerate some imperfect places under China's socialist system and some merits of the capitalist system, with obvious money worship tendency.
3. In their eyes, the heroes who are brave in fighting floods and fighting bravely are all "idiots" who love to show off their talents and take risks. Public servants who devote themselves to the interests of the people are regarded as buying people's hearts. Academically fruitful scholars will not enjoy the "learning machine" of life. For the students who are helpful and positive around them, they are deliberately sarcastically "cultivating relationships" with teachers and classmates. They doubt the motives of advanced figures for no reason and hold a negative attitude towards the advanced deeds and achievements of others.
4. Due to various reasons, although some teenagers dare not do some "excessive" behaviors, they also agree with those bad phenomena such as openly confronting teachers and forming gangs among classmates, but they are cynical about those students who are helpful and care for the collective, resulting in the situation that good people are not praised in the collective atmosphere, and evil does not oppress people, which has a very bad influence on classmates and undermines the unity of collective organizations.
(b) Positive impact
1, self-awareness has been developed, and the sense of independence has been enhanced. Teenagers at this time are no longer children who need the care of their parents and teachers everywhere. Not only can they clearly understand their inner feelings, but most of them can actively know and develop themselves according to social requirements, forming a self-evaluation system and an evaluation system for society and others. They no longer obey others' orders easily and change their ideas. They also show obvious independence in thinking and are expected to participate in study and life as independent individuals.
2. Be brave in innovation and break the spirit of traditional bondage. These teenagers are no longer satisfied with the explanation of things by teachers and textbooks. They are innovative, always want to pursue more accurate and novel things, like to ask questions and have different opinions. They don't know their creative purpose, but they oppose convention under the impetus of creative desire. Perhaps this is a harbinger of innovation! Sticking to the rules will stifle their exuberant creativity.
3. It embodies a strong sense of social responsibility and a sense of mission of caring for the country and the people. The primary factor of teenagers' personality is their great social enthusiasm. They are eager to participate in social life and express their responsibility to society from their own unique perspective. Their denial of positive propaganda, on the other hand, shows their concern for the fate of the country. In fact, they are full of enthusiasm and expectation for everything, so they will show strong dissatisfaction and anger at unfair social phenomena in society, and they will not be recognized and understood by teachers and parents. This is their sense of justice and responsibility.
4. It is helpful to reflect on education in schools, families and society. There are many reasons for teenagers' rebellious psychology. On the one hand, it is the subjective reasons of teenagers themselves, and more importantly, our school, society and family give children improper education, such as excessive pursuit of grades, neglect of students' mental health and inner feelings, lack of democratic and equal atmosphere in families, and negative effects of social unhealthy phenomena. All these make us reflect on how to educate teenagers and let them grow up healthily and happily.
To sum up, teenagers' rebellious psychology has both positive and negative aspects. On the one hand, it prevents teenagers from learning more scientific and cultural knowledge and establishing correct values. The national consciousness is also poisoned by the decadent western thoughts, which leads its behavior astray. On the other hand, it can be a positive force, inspiring young people to think and create, and developing their own personality consciousness, so as to better adapt to the development of society. Therefore, we should treat teenagers' rebellious psychology dialectically, comprehensively analyze its causes, and formulate scientific and reasonable debugging schemes to make teenagers develop physically and mentally healthily.