In the past two years, we have often brushed her in the official WeChat account or short video. In many lectures, she will also talk about family education and psychology.
Professor Li Meijin's real identity is a professor at People's Public Security University of China and a famous criminal psychologist in China, and he is known as "the first portrait of criminal psychology in China". She has long been engaged in the research of criminal psychology and adolescent psychological problems. Many cases are analyzed in detail and well received by everyone.
Fuzzy Humanity mainly records some chat records interviewed by Professor Li Meijin, including her academic works and papers.
This book contains some sensational cases such as Ma Moumou killing his roommate and Lin Moumou poisoning his roommate. It also includes Professor Li's in-depth analysis of some phenomena in our lives, such as violence hurting doctors, such as sexual assault. Many opinions may be subversive. For example, many sex offenders are gentle in appearance.
It is mentioned in many places in the book that what people need most in childhood is psychological support. As Mr. Li Meijin said, all social problems, in the eyes of psychologists like me, are human problems. My first sentence is that people's problems are social problems. The second sentence, the problem of people, is the problem of early years. Why are there so many perverts now? Why are there so many crimes? Make us feel incredible? One of the important problems is that many people's growing environment has been destroyed. When this growth environment is destroyed, people's hearts will be chaotic, and it is useless for you to go to education again.
In this book, she introduces the theory of criminal psychological portrait in popular language, and analyzes the psychological causes of criminals through vicious criminal cases in recent years. This paper expounds the importance of criminal psychology in preventing and punishing crimes, and calls on the whole society to care for teenagers, especially left-behind children, pay attention to their growing environment and strengthen their psychological education.
The following excerpts are some highlights from the book.
The earliest appearance of people's psychological development is emotion, which develops step by step. In early years, parents were followed by classmates, then teachers and students, and then same-sex and opposite-sex. Teaching children to be kind to others is sometimes a life-saving thing.
Healthy people need to keep in good health, but also need to nourish their hearts. The "psychological onset period" is mostly around 12 years old to 18 years old. Behavioral problems and related psychological problems in this age group all originated before 12 years old, and most of them originated from the way parents raised their children.
People's problems are social problems. People's problems are early problems. Before the age of six, parents seldom spend time with their children. When this growth environment is destroyed, human nature will be chaotic, and it is useless to go to education later.
In the personal upbringing of parents, your child is copying the concept and character of caregivers. Copying the behaviors and attitudes of the people closest to him, the most important imitators in his early years were his mother, and then his father.
There is a basic principle that when you have a conflict with the outside world, you must never go outside to find the reason. Be sure to find problems from yourself, as long as you are pure inside. A person's inner pain is very important because he can only know the outside world, but not himself. People who can know themselves are not painful.
Nowadays, people's psychological condition has become a prominent social problem. Everyone is a member of this society, so looking at others and society through subtle human nature is actually helping yourself.