What is the hardest thing in life? Poor? No; Frustrated? No; Old? Dead? Neither. I said that the hardest thing in life is not to take on a future responsibility. If people can be satisfied, they are poor and not bitter; If you can be quiet (don't make extra hopes), although frustrated, it is not bitter; Birth, illness, death and illness are inevitable things in life. For a philosophical person, suffering is nothing at all. It's just that everyone born in the world will do something one day. What should be done is not finished, just like a few thousand kilograms of burden on your shoulders, and there is no more pain. Why? Because of conscience, there is nowhere to escape.

Promise people not to do one thing, owe people money, accept people's kindness, and offend people without making amends, which makes even this person almost afraid to see him himself; Even though I can't see his face, it seems that his shadow haunts me in my sleep. Why? Because I feel sorry for him, because my responsibility to him has not been lifted. Not only for one person, but also for my family, society, country and even myself. I am responsible for anyone who benefits from him. I have the responsibility to do whatever I should do and what I can do with my strength. No matter what I want to do, I will make a contract between myself now and myself in the future, that is, add a layer of responsibility to myself. With this responsibility, conscience will always be behind, and there is no end to one day's due responsibility. The evening is a painful day. If you don't fulfill your responsibilities in life, you will die painfully and go to the grave. But this kind of pain can't be compared with ordinary poverty, illness and old age, and it can be solved by philosophy. So I said, there is no pain in life; If there is pain, of course, there is nothing heavier than this.

Looking at it, what is the happiest thing? The end of natural responsibility is the first pleasure of life. As the old saying goes, "liberation"; As the saying goes, "a stone fell to the ground." Words cannot describe how relaxed and happy people are at this time. The greater the responsibility, the longer the days of responsibility. After the responsibility is over, you will have a wide vision and feel at ease, and that kind of happiness will multiply. Generally speaking, what happens in the world and the happiness gained from suffering are the real happiness. Only by knowing the bitterness of responsibility can we know the joy of doing our duty. This cycle of bitterness and joy is an interest in this dynamic world. But I didn't do my duty. I was condemned by my conscience. These difficulties are all my own. Once you turn it over and do your duty everywhere, you will be happy everywhere; Always do your duty and you will be happy forever. The right to happiness is in your own hands. This is why Confucius said, "There is no progress without complacency".

But why did Mencius say that "a gentleman has lifelong worries"? Because the more heroes there are, the greater the responsibility he bears; Moreover, he often has to bear various responsibilities, and the burden on his shoulders has never been put down. Ceng Zi also said: "There is still a long way to go ... not far from death?" Benevolent people have lofty ideals, care about the country and the people, and the Buddha has compassion for people, even though he has suffered all his life. But he did his duty there day after day and suffered there day after day. He was really happy. So he is still happy and not bitter.

Some people say, "since this suffering is born of responsibility, if I shirk my responsibility, won't there be suffering forever?" That was not the case. There is no responsibility for lifting it, and there is no responsibility for not lifting it. If life can always be like a child of two or three years old, there will be no pain without responsibility. When you grow up, the responsibility will naturally fall on you. How can you hide? But there is a difference in size. You will be happy if you do a great responsibility; Do a little responsibility, and you will get a little happiness. If you want to hide, you throw yourself into the ocean of pain and you will never get rid of it. Hope to adopt. . .