If you value yourself and have confidence in your ability and character, you don't have to worry about the amount of money. His family is poor, it is not easy for his parents to start from scratch, and it is not easy to raise a son. It is understandable that a foreign daughter-in-law spends money. Just like you invest in a project, you can't bet heavily as soon as you come, can you? I don't think this is a matter of principle, but a matter of attitude and habit to life. If they are stingy in life, but they are particularly concerned about you, it is unreasonable. Just put yourself in your shoes. But marriage is not just about two people. You should consider comprehensively whether you can accept his family if you get married.