Master graffman felt this way because the spirit of being the first in China's mobile phone has changed. Striving for the first place requires us to work harder, acquire more knowledge and technology and enrich ourselves. At present, striving for the first place is completely pursuing a false reputation, and the efforts and progress of others are not recognized just because they are not the first; He covered up many valuable people and things just because he was not the first. Pursuing the first is undeniable, which is the spirit of struggle we must have and the driving force for our progress and development. However, the pursuit of the first can not ignore others. On the contrary, if we talk about heroes completely, we will fall behind as a whole. After all, society is developed by the joint efforts of all, and it is not the first one to achieve it. We should pursue the first, but pay more attention to the overall achievements and progress.
Graffman also mentioned that China people will unconsciously emphasize this concept in their daily life. This shows that striving for the first place has become a tradition, which is deeply rooted in people's hearts and is not formed overnight. Excessive pursuit of the first place will make you have a great burden in life and spirit.
A deep-seated reason for the pursuit of the first is the psychology of comparison, which makes us unconsciously emphasize this concept. Just because of comparison, people like Master graffman don't recognize the pursuit of first place. Comparison psychology is a kind of morbid values in politics, which makes people compete with others regardless of themselves, thus obtaining a little spiritual satisfaction. That is, as the old saying goes, "I want to face up to it, and I want to suffer." Although it is not the case that we strive for the first place, if we insist on comparing the first place all the time, it is not far from that situation.
We can't give up the pursuit of the first, but we can't talk about heroes with the first. Pursuit makes us struggle, and struggle makes us progress. Don't strive for the first place because of comparison, don't pay attention to the theory of egotism, and make progress in the pursuit of the first place. Even if you don't win the first place, your progress can be recognized. That's really happy for everyone.
That kind of ideal competition is not far off. In this year's Rio Olympic Games, the wild girl Fu used her innocence and true temperament to teach many people the truth of competition, shook the tradition of Chinese people's gold-only theory, and even infected many foreign friends, which were reported by major media. Although she failed to win the gold medal, the bronze medal she won made her personal best achievement and won wide recognition and support. This surprised many experts, and then relieved: the ideal competition is not confined by traditional concepts, and we will become stronger and stronger.
Forget about success or failure, forget about heroes. Progress in the pursuit of the first, gain recognition in progress, and benefit from the future in recognition.