Just in the past 20 19, there were a lot of news about child safety accidents. For example, on the recent days of 20 19, 12 and 19, an escalator in a supermarket in Jinjiang, Fujian was involved in people's lives, which frightened many parents. A 3-year-old child was playing alone on the escalator, and his fingers were involved. After being discovered, the supermarket staff immediately closed the elevator, and then the firefighters found the gap in the escalator and pried it open before successfully taking out the child's finger and rushing to the hospital.
I just want to say that raising children is scary. There may be security risks at any time. It's really too dangerous!
A few months ago, on July 1 day, Wang Moujun, the principal of Suikou Primary School in Suizhong County, Liaoning Province, was exposed to sexual assault on primary school students, of whom 1 person was raped and 4 people were molested; On July 3rd, Wang Zhenhua, former chairman of Xincheng Holdings, was suspected of molesting girls. On July 5, some media reported that a 14-year-old girl in Zhenxiong, Yunnan Province died after being sexually assaulted.
Every time I see such a thing, many parents are worried about what we should do to protect our children.
Privately, in addition to parents' own vigilance, it is also important to cultivate children's safety awareness as soon as possible. Perhaps some parents think that children are too young to be sensible, but it is not a bad thing for safety education to penetrate into children's lives early.
Next, I recommend seven picture books full of stories and hard-core dry goods, which can be read to children to establish safety awareness and self-protection awareness as soon as possible.
Lulu followed her mother to the market, and she lost her in the crowd. There is a lost boy beside her. Lulu taught the boy the rules after he got lost, "Stand still and shout loudly", "If I don't find you right away, call" ... and finally found my parents.
The advantage of this picture book is that it has both stories and dry goods. It guides children "if they get lost" and also gives parents advice on safety education, such as making an appointment with their children in a conspicuous place. "The mobile phone number can be put in the child's pocket"; "Point out to your children where you can ask for help whenever there is an opportunity." ...
I am the same author as I won't get lost. These two picture books are for children as the first and second episodes.
After school, all the students were taken away except Lulu, who was waiting outside the classroom. Aunt in the same community, uncle who helped build a bicycle shed at home, uncle who knew mom's glasses, and aunt Momo next door passed by one by one. They gave various reasons and wanted to take Lulu home, but Lulu refused. Finally, she finally waited for her brother and went home with him with peace of mind.
The story conveys many details of safety education, such as "the list of people who can follow their parents without their consent". When strangers say "I know you", Lulu will seriously think about each other's names, hobbies, habits and so on. To judge whether the other person is a stranger. Even though she is familiar with her neighbors but not on the list of people who can follow at will, Lulu still has to wait for her family's insistence.
I think this is a good way for children to better understand the concept of strangers.
Before Jimmy went to bed, his mother played a joke on him and told him a story about "moving" In the story, the little girl was taken away by her neighbor's uncle in the name of watching cats, and her mother used it to guide her children. What should she do in similar situations?
Regarding safety, it is not enough for us to just tell our children "Don't walk with strangers". We need to tell our children that it is not enough to just tell them "don't walk with strangers" if they encounter "sexual assault" like in picture books. We need to tell our children that if they are sexually assaulted,
This picture book has more words, less story and interest, and more knowledge points. It is not suitable for children under 3 years old to read, but this does not prevent parents from reading it first and then infiltrating it into their children in a concise way in their daily lives.
The protagonist is two young children-"we" got separated from our mother at the station, and the police uncle took "we" to find her. This one is not, and neither is that one. Neither of them has her mother's beautiful features. Later, "we" remembered her mother's instructions to "stay at the station and wait for her" and finally found her mother.
This is a picture book about mothers, and it is also a picture book for children's safety education. Although there are not many dry goods about safety, the story is concise and interesting, avoiding crude preaching and deliberately creating a tense and depressing atmosphere. The child sounds unburdened, but he can absorb the essence of the story. After I read it to Jojo several times, he would rush to answer himself: If you get lost, you must stay where you are and wait for your mother.
The author and painter of these two books are the same person, and the two picture books are also a series, which can be read together.
The story written in Don't Walk with Strangers is that Liu Bing saw a stranger staring at her all the time on her way to school. She told this to her friends. After school, when they saw that the stranger was still there, they discussed what their parents told them to do. Finally, their mother came and cleared up their misunderstanding of strangers.
This picture book has a strong story and can attract children to read more. At the same time, it is suitable for guiding children to deal with strangers' stalking, and it is also suitable for us to discuss more details of safety issues with children.
Don't kiss me casually tells that Lena's guests always kiss her when they visit, but she doesn't like it. These terrible kisses even gave her nightmares. On Saturday, dad's birthday, there were many guests at home. Lena turned into an elephant to stop everyone from kissing her and told the guests that she didn't like being kissed. Since then, she has become a child who can bravely say "no".
This story is full of imagination. From the perspective of children, the embarrassment of not liking being kissed and the discomfort of rejecting others are described. It is also telling the child that if something is not said, the other party will not know what she thinks. Only when she speaks out bravely will everyone know how to truly respect him.
Alfred's mother is a cleaner in the castle. When her mother cleans the castle, Lord Henry Waterner, the owner of the castle, will take care of Alfred and play with him. One day, Lord Henry scratched him in an uncomfortable way, touched his private parts and warned him that if he told others, his mother could not work in the castle. He was in pain and fear, and suffered all kinds of hardships in his heart. Finally, with his mother's encouragement, he told everything.
It is usually difficult for children to express their feelings clearly, and the details of this picture book describe the delicate thoughts and feelings of the protagonist and can be used to guide children. For example, when they feel uneasy or unsafe, they may feel upset in the stomach, want to cry, and have a confused brain. And the attitude of the protagonist's mother, Mrs. Susan, is also a good reference for us as parents. She told the children affectionately that "some secrets are absolute, and the attitude of the protagonist's mother, Mrs. Susan, is also a good reference for our parents." She told the children affectionately that "some secrets are absolute, and there are wolves in the world of flowers." I hope the children don't meet them.
In kindergarten, big Leo and annoying Luca always bully Jim, and Jim is afraid when he sees them. On this day, the kindergarten teacher took out the box and asked the children to draw or write their own advantages in the box. Luca and Leo stepped on Jim's box when the teacher wasn't looking. Jim was afraid and angry. Finally, she summoned up her courage and questioned Luca and Leo loudly, feeling happy for her strength and courage.
It is not easy to summon up courage to deal with that bully, especially for children. This picture book is also full of tips to teach children to become stronger and braver, such as calling "stop" to those who offend you, uniting with others and leaving quickly.
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Finally, may all children grow up healthily and safely, and may all tragedies be written only in stories, not in reality.
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