First of all, she must be a kind and generous person. Because of kindness, her eyes will shine gently and clearly. Her expression will be soft, because generous, will not produce bitter expression lines because of haggling, there will be compassion between heaven and earth. She must be well-read to have a good conversation, and because of the increase of wisdom, she will be less dull and boring, and she will not feel boring when interacting with her, which is what the ancients said.
She should have taste, know how to dress up, know how to match colors, and know the harmony between mind and body. Knowing what kind of clothes to wear at what age and what kind of clothes to wear on what occasions is called courtesy. Taste also lies in the choice of friends and the embodiment of exquisite life details. I remember a friend once told me a line from an old movie, "How can life make do?"
She should also have a gentle, quiet and understanding personality. Although "Taishan collapses in front and its color remains the same" is exaggerated, she should also have her own opinions and ideas. Most things in the world have ups and downs, just as the old man said, "People have three ups and downs." When there are various changes at home, she should be able to face them independently and calmly. Instead of crying whenever something happens, it's useless, like a dissatisfied wife. What's more, it is "flying separately in the face of disaster."
She must be a diligent housekeeper, too. Home economics is very important. She should be considerate of her family. Only when her family is happy will she be truly happy. She should have time to dress herself, be considerate of herself, make up carefully, maintain her clothes in the morning and evening, and match them. The older she gets, the more time she spends. "There are no ugly women, only lazy women; There are no ugly women, only women who don't dress up. "
She must also have her own specialties and hobbies to accompany herself in her long life. People are lonely in the end, so that she won't be lonely and won't fade away because of loneliness.
An elegant woman should also be a beautiful woman. But beauty does not mean beauty. Beauty is a kind of natural beauty, which belongs to innate characteristics, so it has timeliness: beauty belongs to young people, not beautiful old people! However, there is no age limit for beauty, and beauty lies in the cultivation of the day after tomorrow: children have the beauty of children, and the elderly also have the elegance of the elderly. The connotation of beauty is: pure mind, good health, elegant temperament and proper speech.
Therefore, elegance implies a kind of struggle against the secular, fighting not to be a vulgar person. To have this resistance, women must constantly strive to improve themselves: show their gentleness and charm in life and show their most elegant side in work.
At the same time, elegance must be based on health. A fragile woman cannot be elegant, and Lin Daiyu's beauty can only be appreciated from a distance. A strong body is not only a man's capital, but also an elegant capital of an elegant woman.
To be an elegant woman, you should not only have a healthy body, but also a healthy mind. Maintaining a tolerant and peaceful attitude is the foundation of elegance for elegant women.
An elegant woman should also be like a well, unfathomable, which is not obvious to a man at a glance. She will leave him endless imagination. Are shallow people elegant? Even if he is beautifully dressed, gentle and lovely, and can see through it at a glance, there is nothing elegant about it. Therefore, women should learn to hide so that others can only see the tip of the iceberg! A grandiose woman is not elegant.
An elegant woman should also have enough affinity. If a woman is strong at work, but always looks like a strong woman, it is by no means elegant. An elegant woman is the kind of person who can communicate closely with everyone and always smile. Smile is a person's eternal charm, it is an elegant external performance!