We tend to overestimate our popularity in the blind date market, because we can learn from our circle of friends, but this is not the case.
Fortunately, my parents arranged several blind dates. At first, I was rejected. Then I thought about it and I could meet them. On the one hand, it satisfies the parents' desire of "arranged marriage", on the other hand, it also wants to know its own value.
Our group drove to the girl's house, because it was not far from our home, so the time in the car was not long. We just got to know each other through the matchmaker. There are many brothers and sisters at home, just like me, who have just built a house and worked in the southern city. So if it's successful, I'll contact you later, and we'll get to our destination after this.
The new house was built far away from the original village, and it can be seen that it is just a place where a forest was cut down. The two-story building has just been built, and it looks a bit empty without decoration. It happened that all three daughters were there, and I didn't get off the bus, so the matchmaker pointed out the future object to me, and I saw her in the direction pointed by the matchmaker.
I am not tall, because I am not tall. I'm wearing an apricot sweater and denim jacket, denim shorts and stockings. I didn't comb my hair because of work, and I looked listless, and I was embarrassed to lean behind my sister.
When I got off the bus and saw her face to face, I realized that in the eyes of the matchmaker, this is the most suitable girl for me. I don't know what to say to describe her. I'll ask my mother to evaluate whether she likes it if she marries back. My mother smiled awkwardly and said, not bad! As soon as this sentence came out, I knew I couldn't do it. If it is a very high-quality girl, she will say yes. And this good girl in her mouth was introduced to my brother, yes, a master of law graduate and a future lawyer.
The overall situation of this girl is quite different from what I expected. Of course, others may not like me. There is still self-knowledge. Maybe it's a comfort to yourself! Later, my father arranged a few more games to make me more alert. I said, you go to the front station, and when you feel satisfied, call me over and have a look. Sure enough, it's much quieter, but I still can't help but lose a lot. Quiet, of course, because I don't have the trouble of blind date, lost because I suddenly understand that I thought I was excellent, but I couldn't find anyone who matched me. I sell slowly in the blind date market.
If your family's standards can't make you understand your own value, what your friend introduced may be the best yardstick.
That day, my friend asked me on WeChat: Do you have a girlfriend? I replied: Not yet. The friend said: OK, I think you are excellent. Let me introduce you to one. I said, OK, and then the other party sent me the basic information about the girls, including their native place, age, height and occupation. Probably because my own hardware was not outstanding, I agreed that it was OK, and the key came ...
Have you got any pictures?
Although today's mito technology has penetrated into mass mobile phones, photos can't represent reality, but it's better than nothing. At least I have a judgment standard in the early stage. After a while, the photos came.
She is smiling. I can see that she is having a good time and her hair is not too long. She is wearing a coat similar to a school uniform and a T-shirt. It was a selfie, because her face accounted for most of the photo, her eyes were big, bright as pearls, and her eyebrows were not drawn. Obviously, she has great confidence in herself.
I read it for a long time and didn't reply to my friends. She has been urging me to write back. I replied:
She can find something better.
It can't be said that we are all appearance associations, but at least we all yearn for it. Girls' dreams had better be from Song Joong Ki, while boys want Gao Yuanyuan or Ruby Lin. Good things are still quite attractive. Seeing me say this, my friend asked me, what do you like?
If I write what I told her at that time, the theme of this article will become a love novel, not an argumentative paper. As for what I said, I think every boy who has been arranged by a girl has an answer in his heart.
Back to the topic, your value depends not on your own perception, but on your blind date. When my sister was not married, no one dared to arrange a blind date for her because she felt that the boys she knew around her were not good enough for her. ...
Every man and woman hanging on a tree is presented with all kinds of hard indicators and education in People's Park, such as Tsinghua male, height, such as 180, and good conditions, such as having a car and a house, and stable job, such as a regular employee of a state-owned enterprise, who is just 85 years old, plus a photo of 10 years ago (why is it 65438? This is quite similar to when I went to the computer city to match computers. The computers waiting to be selected are all with good backgrounds, such as foreign brand Dell, which is of high value, such as ultra-thin and ultra-narrow bezel, fast speed, Intel V, large capacity, T and most importantly, cheap.
Blind date has lost the beauty when men and women meet, the initial ambiguity and obscurity of love, and the desire to constantly explore a person. No privacy. Matchmakers usually tell some small problems of boys as children to make people laugh, such as wetting the bed, while girls are stripped of their beauty, such as showing the matchmaker graduation photo as a child.
In fact, when you really try to be inward, you don't need other people's evaluation to know how good you are. When you look to the future, love will come as scheduled.
I bloom, the swallow comes back ... if I meet the right one, I will be desperate, if not, I will love myself. May everyone find true love and not have to be chosen from the trees in the park.