Good children are boasted as dear parents and friends. In today's knowledge economy society with rapid development of science and technology and fierce competition, it is the wish of all parents to hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Children have racked their brains since childhood, breaking their hearts. Really for the children, everything is for the children. But you know what? An educator once said a very philosophical sentence: "Good children are boasted". When a child makes a little progress, you must not forget to praise him, which will enhance his self-confidence and give him a sense of accomplishment. In life, parents always compare their children with other children, not compared with others, not compared with others. They compare their children's shortcomings with the advantages of other children, which will only hurt their self-esteem, affect the formation of their good character, and even lead to self-abandonment, extremism, attack and other behaviors. Gardner, an American psychologist, puts forward the theory of multiple intelligences, which holds that every child has eight intelligences to varying degrees, and each child's dominant intelligence is different, that is to say, the difference of each child's learning style is determined by his dominant intelligence. For example, some children's language intelligence is outstanding, some children's spatial visual intelligence is outstanding, and some children's sports intelligence is outstanding. Therefore, we should be good at discovering children's advantages, overcome his shortcomings through encouragement, praise and guidance, and try our best to make up for his shortcomings. While guiding and encouraging children to praise, praise should be to the point, not in a big, chaotic way. Some parents boast about their children's ... how unrealistic it is to brag in a large group of children, which will make children feel that everyone is not as good as themselves. Over time, they will develop the bad habit of bragging and arrogance. Some parents brag in front of their children and others for their own face. Children will think that I am really what my parents say, and later children themselves don't know what is good and what is bad, so children will develop the psychology of lying and being superior. When children do something wrong or hurt others, which harms the public interest, some parents still protect their children, thinking that it doesn't matter if they are young, and they are still "elves". This kind of ignorance, incorrect guidance and boasting make children think that they have done something right, and then push their luck, and as a result, they are delayed. So how to praise children is to praise the point? When we discover the advantages of children, we should affirm them in time and ask them to carry them forward in the future. For example, when my class went to the forest park for an autumn outing, the children saw colorful chrysanthemums as soon as they entered the gate, which was breathtaking. At this time, an old man walking in front of us was holding a child. When children see chrysanthemums, a chrysanthemum is incomplete. Seeing this situation, how can we stop children around two years old from following the trend? I first praised the children in our class for being very good-looking and not picking flowers, and then told them to take care of public property and cherish the gardener's work. Well, flowers are for viewing, but others can't see them when they are picked. The park is not beautiful either. As a result, the little book lovers in our class played in public for a long time, and none of the children pulled out the flowers. They also picked up the fallen chrysanthemum petals and put them on the flowers, saying, "Let the petals return to the mother's arms." The concept of right and wrong is gradually formed in praise, which is the effect of praise. At the same time, praise children should also have a "degree". Frequent abuse of praise will make children disapprove of praise. Dear parents and friends, the saying that "good children are boasted" is very reasonable, depending on how you boast.