Therefore, etiquette is paid more and more attention, and forming good moral cultivation and etiquette in school is a necessary paving stone for our success.
Let's talk about personal etiquette on campus first. First of all, as a college student, learning is the primary task. The so-called "teacher, so preach and teach to solve doubts" requires contact with teachers in learning. So what is the correct and educated way of "waiting for teachers"-respecting teachers' work?
To respect teachers, the first thing is to respect their work. Modern teaching methods are accomplished through classroom teaching. In order to teach every class well, teachers have to spend a lot of effort. Therefore, students should be full of emotions, concentrate, think positively and listen carefully in every class, which is the greatest respect for the teacher's hard work.
The homework assigned by the teacher is the continuation of classroom teaching, and it also injects the teacher's hard work. Students should finish all kinds of homework on time, seriously and independently, and seriously understand the teacher's careful correction in the homework, which is also a kind of respect for the teacher.
Secondly, students should accept teachers' criticism and education with an open mind. The fundamental purpose of socialist education is to cultivate students into "four haves" with ideals, morality, education and discipline. In other words, teachers should not only teach, but also educate people. At this point, most teachers observe, analyze and study the ideological quality and personality characteristics of every student he teaches with the greatest enthusiasm and the most prudent eyes. Teachers should also study the learning situation, social environment and family environment of each student in order to cultivate and bring up each student in an all-round way. Because of this, the teacher's encouragement or criticism to every student is to help students grow up as soon as possible. Therefore, students listen to the teacher's criticism and help with an open mind, and seriously correct their own shortcomings and mistakes, which is also a respect and love for teachers.
If the teacher's criticism is different from the facts, students should explain it calmly after the teacher has finished, or look for appropriate occasions and opportunities to explain it afterwards. In case of conflict with the teacher, students should not contradict the teacher, let alone spread their dissatisfaction with the teacher after class and vent their unreasonable troubles. The specific etiquette contents that should be paid attention to when asking questions to teachers are as follows: 1. Think the questions carefully in advance so as to ask the teacher's questions clearly. 2. The attitude of consultation should be modest, and don't interrupt the teacher's story at will. If you encounter different opinions, you can express your ideas euphemistically in the tone of consultation and discuss with the teacher modestly. Don't ask and question the teacher. Similarly, college roommates, classmates, junior and junior have the most contact. How to deal with their relationship? How to distinguish between friends who are brothers and classmates who are nodding acquaintances? When you are polite to your classmates, you must say "please", "thank you" and "trouble you". When borrowing school supplies, you should get permission before using them and return them in time after using them. Third, live in harmony and live in harmony in the following aspects: 1. In the student dormitory, students should consciously observe the schedule, get up on time, turn off the lights on time, get up and sleep lightly, talk quietly, and try to avoid disturbing others. 2. Consciously keep the dormitory clean, not only do personal hygiene well, but also do indoor hygiene enthusiastically and actively. Don't just sit on someone else's bed. Don't use his tea set, chopsticks, towels and other utensils without the owner's permission. Don't read other people's letters, diaries, etc. 4. Bring friends to the dormitory to play. Don't fight and make noise in the dormitory, so as not to affect the rest and study of other students. Be polite and friendly to visiting classmates. Be polite and considerate to the parents of classmates. 6. Take care of the public finances and various supplies in the dormitory, turn on the water actively, do a good job in the unity of the dormitory students, help each other, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. 7. To participate in all kinds of collective activities in the school, we should abide by all relevant rules, and students should be polite and take care of each other. Personal etiquette reveals a person's self-cultivation, and decent clothing can add points to personal image everywhere. I want to ask: who is above associating with a polite person? The answer is yes.
Smiling expression
Learn to smile. Smiling is very important. Who likes to face a person who laughs coldly every day Just like the staff of savings offices and banks, when you go to withdraw money, are they cold and have no smile at all? It's like someone owes them something. It doesn't feel good. In fact, this is their occupational disease, and they are used to it. Smile is the beginning of communication.
Avoid body language.
When talking with people, don't cross your hands, shake your body, lean to the left for a while, lean to the right for a while, or touch your hair, ears and nose, which gives people the feeling of impatience. I was playing with a pen while I was talking. Some people especially like to spin pens, as if to show off. Look how cool I am! Don't press the pen back and forth. Although it is ok to talk with peers, it is impolite to do so when talking with elders. Etiquette and manners
(1) To create a good communication image, you must pay attention to manners, so you must pay attention to your behavior. Manners and manners are the expression of self-sincerity, and a person's external manners and actions can directly show his attitude.
Be polite to others, be natural and graceful, observe the general etiquette of advancing and retreating, and try to avoid all kinds of impolite and uncivilized habits.
When visiting the teacher's office or the dormitory next door, ring the doorbell or gently knock at the door before entering, and then stand at the door and wait. Don't ring the doorbell or knock on the door for too long. Don't enter the room without the permission of the owner or the owner. It is not easy to sit down before others (hosts) sit down. Sit up straight, lean forward slightly and don't cross your legs.
Etiquette is a science, and there is too much knowledge in it. I think the above three aspects of etiquette are the most basic etiquette in life, and they are also the basic qualities we must have. As a country of etiquette, China people, I think this is especially true. As a college student, I really hope that the school will carry out systematic etiquette education so that our generation and even every generation can inherit the fine traditions of the Chinese nation. This is also urgently needed, because social etiquette education is conducive to college students to establish good interpersonal relationships with others, form a harmonious psychological atmosphere, and promote college students' physical and mental health; It is conducive to promoting the socialization of college students and improving their social and psychological endurance; It is beneficial to carry out ideological and moral education for college students and improve their ideological and moral quality; It is beneficial to educate college students on humanistic knowledge and improve their humanistic quality; It is conducive to strengthening the civilized behavior of college students, improving the quality of civilization and promoting the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.