Once upon a time, there was a very lonely child. He is introverted, shy and silent. He does not like making friends. To be precise, he can't make friends, so he doesn't even have a friend to talk to. Classmates, teachers and even his parents think he is a monster. That day, he went home alone as usual. Walking with his head down, he accidentally bumped into a soft thing. He looked up and it turned out to be a girl. He was about to go on when the girl said something that made him unbelievable. Let's be friends, that's what she said, smiling and happy. He didn't nod, didn't speak, and went straight away. He lowered his head even lower to hide his surprise. He never thought that there would be such a day. Every afternoon after school, he can see the girl with a warm face and hear her sincere words: "Let's be friends." Afterwards, they became friends. It is a crucial step for the lonely boy to take that step.

Everyone has a small but precious self-world. Some people are like girls with gentle faces; Some people are like withdrawn and introverted boys. And everyone is growing up and trying to get out of their own small world. This is a process, but only the length of the process. Grow up, not only us, but also society, country and even the world. Our growth and progress, out of self, will also lead the country and the world to grow and progress and surpass ourselves. We are not the only ones who need to get out of ourselves.

In today's China society, the economy is developing rapidly, the level of culture and education is constantly improving, the politics is stable, and the people are United. But under this well-dressed coat, there is too much backwardness, failure and darkness. Social contradictions and social problems have become increasingly prominent, and it has become one of the countries in the world with relatively large income gap, serious urban-rural gap, and prominent problems in employment, public medical care, and compulsory education. This reality has brought many negative factors to the reform, development and construction of a harmonious society. As a developing country, we have great room for learning, breakthrough and development. When we were researching and developing, we did incorporate many new elements, but at the same time we lost many of our own good elements. In my opinion, while absorbing other good things, we should also consolidate the RMB, which is transcendence and real self-transcendence.