In our life, dialectics is everywhere. Universality of contradiction, particularity of contradiction, main contradiction and main aspects of contradiction, and so on.

Everything should be treated in two ways and analyzed in two ways. Everything, everything has two contradictory aspects, a good side and a bad side. There is an old saying in China that misfortune is a blessing, and disaster is imminent. Nothing is static, motion is absolute, and stillness is relative.

The famous story "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" is a vivid embodiment of dialectics in life. Explain that good things and bad things are not absolute, bad things can have good results, and good things are not necessarily real good things.

A clean and comfortable home is what everyone likes. In order to compete with dust and dirt, many people are busy all day, cleaning and washing, and can't be idle. Sometimes, people can't help asking: Is it artificial floor service or artificial service? The cleaned screen window is as white as new, but the eyes of the screen window are completely open and the dust keeps getting in. This is like a doctor warning people not to remove earwax often, because those seemingly dirty earwax also protects the eardrum and prevents germs from invading.

Sometimes I have a slight illness, so I don't need to see a doctor. When the human immune system works, my state will get better and my body will get better. If you take drugs all your life, your body will gradually become dependent on drugs and your immune system will weaken. In the future, you will take drugs with stronger efficacy and higher side effects. Because drugs with little efficacy and side effects can no longer satisfy your damaged physical condition, you will further destroy your immune system and so on.

These are dialectical relations.

In fact, life is full of dialectics, and each of us cannot avoid it. We live in a contradictory world. Unity of opposites, contradictions everywhere, always in this world.

The person who loves me the most hurts me the most. What parents in the world don't love their children? To this end, we give our children the best food, the most beautiful clothes and the most precious things. In order not to lose at the starting line, let children enter various classes and receive various trainings. We find all kinds of relationships, entrust all kinds of acquaintances, and let our children enter key primary schools, key middle schools and key high schools, for fear that their children will not be admitted to ideal universities and realize their long-cherished wishes.

However, many of them have become bookworms who only know how to read. They have no thoughts, ideals, beliefs and passions. There are only numb learning, instinctive learning and helpless life.

There are also many students who jump off buildings and commit suicide by lying on the track because of excessive pressure, and even take up arms to kill their parents, good classmates and good friends ... all kinds of tragedies are distressing and thought-provoking. Originally, they loved their children the most, but in the end they hurt them. This is because they have gone too far, loved deeply, longed much and managed strictly. This seemingly contradictory thing was unified.

This is the dialectics in life. Anyone who does anything must grasp the two aspects of contradiction, and can't go too far, otherwise he can only take the consequences.

The same thing, thinking is heaven, not thinking is hell.

Pressure can be power or resistance. Too much pressure, if not properly released and discharged, is enough to crush people, and a good stress mentality may help you.

Dialectics is not a simple life skill, but a realm.

While promoting the great development and prosperity of socialist culture, promoting Chinese culture, and vigorously promoting cultural innovation and cultural system reform, we should treat traditional culture and foreign culture dialectically.

Traditional culture has duality, which must be treated correctly and inherited critically. Therefore, the correct attitude towards traditional culture is to take its essence, discard its dross, make the past serve the present, bring forth the new, and it is wrong to fully affirm and completely deny it. Under the guidance of Marxism, we should vigorously carry forward all outstanding achievements in China's traditional culture and make it better serve the cause of socialist modernization.

For foreign cultures, we should persist in dialectical negation, learn from and absorb them analytically, selectively and critically, take their essence and discard their dross.

Dialectics is everywhere in life. Learn to use dialectics to realize the unity of opposites and solve contradictions. Only by experiencing and discovering with your heart can you realize the beauty of life. Living in the philosophical kingdom of dialectics, each of us should feel that we should use it, grasp it and let it serve our lives.