If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it If you want to be a man standing, you want to reach out and be a man. Bow from thick and thin to blame others, which is to stay away from resentment. How about seeing Si Qi? See Si Qi for introspection. In a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. Respect life, respect deacons and be loyal to others. A gentleman treats others with courtesy, and all men are brothers within the four seas. He keeps his word and does things respectfully. Although he is quite a country, he can do it. Is it true that you are disloyal and disrespectful, although you are in a state? Being ashamed of yourself, making it useful in all directions, and not humiliating life, is the scholar. Confucius said, "It is a benevolent person to be able to do five things for the world." Please ask questions. Say: "public, tolerant, trustworthy, people, and benefit. Respect is not insulting, forgiveness is popular, faith is responsible, sensitivity is meritorious, and profit can make people. " Gentleman's righteousness is quality, courtesy is action, sun is action, and faith is success. Gentleman! If you don't change, it's too much! If you pass, you will be anxious to change. Don't get angry, don't cross the line. The three armed forces can win the handsome, but ordinary people can't win the ambition. If a person doesn't think about distant things, he will find sadness close at hand. Make haste slowly. Haste makes waste; When you see a small profit, you can't make a big deal. If you don't stick to morality and don't believe in morality, how can you exist and die? Make friends and keep your word. Take literature as your friend and benevolence as your friend. There are three friends who benefit and three friends who suffer. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends make friends, friendly and soft, and friends will be destroyed and damaged. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. A gentleman should not worry about not having enough to eat, be prepared for danger in times of peace, be cautious in words and deeds, be honest and clean, and be thirsty for knowledge. Clever words make color. Clever words, fresh and kind. Rigid, resolute, dull, lazy and close to benevolence. Those who have virtue must speak, and those who have words don't have to cultivate themselves. Listen to what you say and see what you do. Don't attract people with words, don't waste words with people. The ancients couldn't say it and were ashamed to bow their heads. A gentleman's name must be said, and his words must be done. A gentleman's words are nothing but nothing. You can speak in words without talking to them, which is a loss; Don't talk to it in words, it's rude. Those who know, don't lose people, don't lose words. It's called impatience if you don't say it. If you say it or not, it's called hiding. If you don't see the color, it's called jealousy. Kindness is not easy to learn, and its cover is also stupid; If you know well and don't learn well, your cover will waver; Honesty is not easy to learn, and its cover is also a thief; Straight board is difficult to learn, and the cover is distorted; If you are brave and study hard, your cover will be messy; It is difficult to learn, but it is also crazy. Politeness and rudeness are tiring, caution and rudeness are embarrassing, courage and rudeness are chaotic, and integrity and rudeness are distorted. Be a gentleman, respect his business and eat. The use of ceremony is precious in harmony. Do it for the benefit, but complain more. You don't know what people are unless you know what others don't know. Three thousand disciples, seventy-two sages. Isn't it fun to study from time to time? Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? Isn't he a completely moral person? Although people may not pay attention to him, he won't feel uneasy. When you are cold, you know that pine and cypress will wither. The knower enjoys water, and the benevolent enjoys Leshan. Those who know move, those who are good are quiet. Wise people are happy, but benevolent people live long. Not bad. Why not? It is not enough to discuss those who are ambitious and ashamed of poor food and clothing. Anger and forgetting food, joy and forgetting worry, I don't know that old age is coming. Eat less, drink more water, bend your arms and enjoy it. Unjust wealth is like a cloud to me. Hyun-jae, come back! A spoonful of food, a spoonful of drink, in a mean alley, it is unbearable to see. Don't change your fun back. Hyun-jae, come back! Being rich and expensive is what people want; If you don't take this road, you will accomplish nothing. Poverty and meanness are disgusting to people; If you don't take the main road, you won't go. I have money to ask for. Although I am a whipper, I do the same. If you can't ask, just do as I say. Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? See profit and forget righteousness, and give up life for righteousness. Cultivate one's morality for respect, cultivate one's morality for security ... cultivate one's morality for people's security. You can entrust a six-foot orphan, you can send a hundred miles of life, and the big festival cannot be taken away. People with lofty ideals are benevolent, there is no harm in saving, and there is benevolence in death. Your name is obscure, because you are ill and there is no world. Ambitious people are straightforward and righteous. Watch what you say and what you do. Consider the following people. A gentleman is Thai but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not Thai. It is not right for a gentleman to say (yue) is easy, and it is wrong to say (yue) and not to say (yue). The official position of the gentleman also carried out his righteousness. Children refer to childbirth. There are four ways for a gentleman: respect for oneself, respect for things, support for the people with benefits and the people with righteousness. A gentleman is harmonious but different, and a villain is not harmonious. A gentleman is proud and does not fight, but a group is not a party. The week of gentlemen is incomparable, and the week of villains is incomparable. An upright man is open and poised, little people are always sad. The benevolent does not worry, the knower is not confused, and the brave is not afraid. Do it for the benefit, but complain more. What's wrong with seeking benevolence and benevolence? Quality is better than literature, and literature is better than quality. Gentle, then a gentleman. A gentleman seeks the Tao without seeking food, and a gentleman worries about the Tao without worrying about poverty. Is it impossible in France? Change it to Cheng Gui. Can you stop talking about the handle? Deduction is expensive. Say it without deduction, so as not to change, I am at the end of what has passed. Seeing good and seeing bad is like exploring soup. A gentleman respects the virtuous and tolerates the masses, and Jiashan regrets it. There is not enough room for scholars! A person's real knowledge lies in knowing what he knows and what he doesn't know. (1) said in the study: "Confucius said,' You don't have to worry about those who don't know, but those who don't know.' "It means don't worry that others don't know me, but I don't know people. The same is true of a gentleman seeking for himself and a villain seeking for others. (2) If you are cold, you will know that the pine and cypress will wither. It means that I didn't know that the pine and cypress were the last to wither until the coldest time of the year. Only by upholding justice can people stand the test. Real gold is not afraid of fire, and adversity sees true knowledge. (3) In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose the good and follow it, change the bad. When three people walk together, there must be a teacher worth learning. Choose their advantages and learn from them; We should correct their shortcomings according to our own situation. No matter who has a skill and knowledge, you should learn from him, learn from other people's shortcomings and mistakes, and don't repeat the same mistakes. People who are really eager to learn are not limited to their age and status, but can have a clear conscience everywhere. Han Yu's Shi Shuo expressed the same view. Confucius said something similar: "See the sage Si Qi's words, and reflect on the sage. "It means that people who see virtue want to be as virtuous as her, and those who see no virtue reflect on whether they have similar faults. (4) if you are not in place, you will not seek politics. "The Analects of Confucius Taber": "Confucius said,' If you are not in your place, you will not seek politics'. "Xian Wen also has this language. This is the consistent attitude of Confucianism. It can be said that it is this attitude that gave birth to China's 5,000-year golden mean. Even now, this sentence has very important practical significance. Two thousand five hundred years ago, the north wind from Mount Tai blew the skirt of an old man who was sitting and meditating, while Lu lord protector was still meticulous in the wind. This solemnity and the neighboring Mount Tai reflect each other in the windy sunset, and how many stars move to meet the sunrise one by one. He is Confucius, a famous thinker and educator. The birth of every great man is accompanied by tempering and baptism before heaven. Confucius was undoubtedly an ascetic monk all his life. He was born in a famous family, but he had to face the reality that his family had fallen. He created the idea of benevolence, but he had to deal with the world of intrigue. The poverty of youth did not destroy his lofty aspirations, the frustration of middle age did not shake his fighting spirit, and the funeral in his later years did not stop the sublimation of his thoughts! At the age of 30, he began to run education and private schools, allowing poor people to enter the knowledge hall. His teaching thought of "teaching without distinction" is that the knowledge dissemination of the Chinese nation has broken through the gap between birth and class, and his thought of "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" is that knowledge has taken off, making it enter the people and face the public. He made the Chinese nation a "well-known" nation. His feat more than 2,500 years ago was that the knowledge level of our nation far exceeded that of any nation at that time, and accumulated a strong knowledge force for the rapid development of the Chinese nation in various prosperous times a few years later. This kind old man not only told his students and thousands of Chinese sons and daughters in Qian Qian behind him the purpose of learning knowledge, but also gave the world a way to learn. The big aspect can rule the country and level the world, and the small aspect can cultivate self-cultivation. He enlightened the world with righteousness, expounded the idea of benevolence, and spread the idea of benevolence with wisdom and faith. Learning methods should be "reviewing the past and learning the new" and "drawing inferences from others", reflecting the immortal wisdom and brilliance of great men in details! Immortal thoughts always keep pace with the times. Confucius, an old man of Lu, a great philosopher who worked hard to promote education, spread righteousness and show the general plan of governing the country, still shines brilliantly today in the 2 1 century, and has been given new significance by the times. In today's world, "clash of civilizations" can be seen everywhere, and local wars are filled with smoke, chaos and turmoil, and suffering is deep. The problems brought by social transformation in China also need to be solved urgently. What is most needed in today's era? Need "harmony"! Isn't Confucius' ideal a harmonious society that cares about people's livelihood and does its duty? Confucius said, "Don't be poor and suffer from inequality, and don't be poor and worry." This is in line with China's current pursuit of narrowing the gap between the rich and the poor and taking the road of socialist prosperity! More than 2500 years have passed, but Confucius' thoughts have always stood in the East and gone to the world! This is Confucius in my mind, a great man who has made great contributions to the education of the Chinese nation!