Living in this world, everyone will meet an opponent, and the opponent is often comparable to you. Often they neglect, and they will surpass you. At this time, they will inevitably feel lost and more motivated.
Some people regard their opponents as enemies, or hate them, or feel uneasy. In fact, every opponent is worth cherishing.
People say that it is a great blessing to have a confidant in life. It is rare to have a confidant in life, but it is also precious to have an opponent in life. Whether living or studying. You will always have opponents, and these opponents will often create pressure and motivation for you, won't they? When you see your opponent overtake you, you will be unwilling, and this kind of unwillingness can often burst into superhuman strength, allowing you to speed up your pace and narrow the distance with your opponent. When you surpass your opponent, you will have strong self-confidence, which is a kind of motivation. But it is worth noting that it is not difficult to turn self-confidence into arrogance, but when you are arrogant, this time is very dangerous. The correct way is to shift the target to another powerful opponent. So, when you do this, you will run farther and farther on the road of life and surpass your opponent. They just leave a landscape in your life. Therefore, our opponents are everywhere, but the real lifelong opponents are very precious.
A lifelong opponent, he will be like the wind before and after you. Sometimes you run out of a distance, turn around and smile at him and slow down, but when you come to your senses, you find that he is waving to you in front ... lifelong opponents are worth cherishing, and they will constantly create pressure for you, so that you can't just put down and relax.
Just like Robin Li, the head of Baidu, won the king of Chinese search after defeating one opponent after another in groundbreaking work. Baidu can gain a firm foothold on the Internet, and its rival Google also contributed. As the world's largest search engine, Google also wants a share in China's search engine. As one of the best search engines in China at that time, Baidu certainly became the target of Google. Li Yanhong later said that he would like to thank Google for giving him a lot of pressure, making him afraid to relax and face one opponent after another cautiously in order to survive in the cruel Internet. It can be seen that a lifelong opponent will not only have a negative impact on you, but also bring you more positive effects.
At the same time, the opponent is not necessarily the enemy, and the opponent is sometimes equal to the confidant. If you are a confidant who talks about everything in life, you may be a tit-for-tat opponent in your study. With a lifelong opponent, there will be a lifelong confidant. This is probably the highest level.
Please cherish every opponent!
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