Love is tolerance. 1 There is an old saying in China: "Blame others, blame yourself; Forgive yourself and forgive others. " Is to blame yourself with the heart of blaming others and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself. I think this sentence is very good. People tend to blame others for their mistakes, but they are always tolerant when they make mistakes. This not only hurts others, but also hurts yourself. When you blame others, that person's psychology will be very uncomfortable. He will feel that he has been wrong. Why should he blame me? He will resent you. He may make a similar mistake on purpose next time. When you forgive yourself, you will have this kind of psychology. It's nothing. Pay attention next time, it's just that you're not careful. You may make the same mistake here next time. So many times, in the words of ordinary people, you are "cheeky". If you don't take mistakes seriously at all, your self-motivation and self-esteem will disappear. On the contrary, if you tolerate other people's mistakes, that person will certainly regret his own mistakes and thank you for your tolerance, so that similar mistakes will not be made again in the future. If you are self-aware of your mistakes.
Blame, then, you will be more self-motivated, and he can make people constantly correct their mistakes to improve themselves and make you succeed in the end. When a person learns to be tolerant, he will certainly have many friends, because communication needs tolerance; He will also have a satisfactory job, because success requires tolerance. In short, whatever you need, you need an inclusive heart. Tolerance of others is not all about tolerance of others. You can tolerate a person's minor faults, but if a person commits a heinous crime, then you must never condone rape, and you must bring him to justice, because conniving at a criminal is tantamount to conniving at many people trying the law. People are bound to make mistakes, so we should learn to tolerate others' mistakes. Only by tolerating other people's mistakes will someone tolerate you when you make mistakes. Learn to be tolerant and build a bridge of communication.
Love is tolerance. This is something I still remember-
I used to be a wayward boy. That rainy summer, it was just me and my mother at home. Although my mother takes care of me in every way, I hate her bondage.
Once in an English class, I was criticized by the teacher for not attending the class, so I vented all my grievances and anger on my mother. The reason is that my mother thinks my room is too messy to tidy up and accidentally put my things away.
"I don't want you to take care of me!" I shouted. "I really don't understand why you don't rest!" And my mother was not angry, just whispered, "Mom did it for you." "For me? Then please leave me alone, ok? I am very annoyed. " I shouted to my mother again, "I really want to be eighteen soon, so I can leave this home!" " "Say that finish, I ran into the room, slammed the door and shut my mother out, with a blank face.
I cried very sadly, although I don't even know why I cried. Take a closer look at this neat and clean room. What things did my mother not buy for me? Where did my mother not help me clean? I really don't believe the man who just hurt his mother with mean words, do I? I really want to go out and apologize to my mother, but will my mother forgive me?
Time to eat. I pushed open the kitchen door. There is still a sumptuous meal on the table, and mother's face is still that kind smile. I cried and threw myself into my mother's arms, crying and saying sorry to her. "Don't be so sad, eat quickly!" Mother wiped the tears from the corner of my eyes for me. "Mom, why don't you say me? Why didn't you hit me? Why can you tolerate me? " I asked my mother. "Because, because I love you." Mother gently spit out these words. In an instant, my tears flowed down like a' pearl' with a broken line.
I think: maternal love is selfless, love can contain everything, and the word "love" contains something heavier than the whole world.
Love is tolerance. Dear friends:
First of all, let me tell a story:
Once, I went to a town in Dongtai for a test. A middle school teacher seriously exchanged his views on promoting Putonghua with me. He said, first, the Putonghua test makes us stop at the promotion of teachers' posts and titles; Second, promoting Putonghua is suspected of language discrimination. To paraphrase a lyric, it is not easy to say "I love you" in Mandarin. My heart sank suddenly. Even middle school teachers with higher education have such a strong rejection of speaking Mandarin. Then, how arduous it is to let the vast number of civil servants, teachers and window industry employees born after 1954 pass the exam in a short time!
After that, I saw several reports one after another:
Report 1: The son of an ordinary peasant woman in Ma Yang Township, Sheyang County won the college entrance examination. The villagers happily gave her a pair: "Tsinghua is the pride of your life, and Ma Yang is your hometown forever". As a mother, she understands the sincerity of the villagers, that is, she warns her children not to deny their parents for one year, two years and three years, that is, not to forget their roots and their hometown.
Before her son left home, she urged: Son, we are from the countryside. When we go to college, we can't look down on rural people, but we can't forget our roots. After going to school, this simple rural child has never forgotten his mother's words. Even when he calls his mother, he will try to remind himself not to speak Mandarin, but to use dialect, because this can clearly tell his mother that he has not forgotten his roots! One day, however, when he heard his mother's stiff Mandarin with a strong local accent on the other end of the phone, he was shocked: how can a peasant woman who has never been out of Sheyang in her life speak Mandarin? Mother seemed to feel his surprise and said, Son, the business of Chinese herbal medicines in Mayang is very good at present, and foreign merchants have come to order from us. If we speak dialects, people won't understand this kind of speech, so the villagers are learning Mandarin at present. From this day on, you should speak Mandarin when you talk to your mother, which is also a good opportunity for me to learn Mandarin. My son was filled with emotion: On this day, the rural economy is developing, and farmers' language concepts and language concepts are also advancing with the times!
Report 2: Hiring a nanny is new. You must be able to speak Mandarin. Mr. Huang of Nanjing wants to find a nanny for his son who is under one year old. He advertised in the newspaper that the nanny must have a high school education and must be able to speak Mandarin. Mr. Huang told reporters that the nanny's words and deeds will have a great impact on the children, and high demands on the nanny are responsible for the children.
Report 3: Can speak Mandarin and get a discount on shopping. The Putonghua Channel of Radio Television Hong Kong decided to hold the first Putonghua Day on September 20xx (13), sponsored by the HSBC Putonghua Fund, to encourage Hong Kong people to speak Putonghua. RTHK also cooperated with the Hong Kong Tourist Association and the Hong Kong General Chamber of Commerce to invite about 3,000 people from the industry to launch the "Putonghua Day Shopping Discount". On September 13, customers can enjoy a 15% discount when shopping in Putonghua in shops with "Putonghua Day" posters.
Oh, it turns out that Mandarin has entered all levels of social life, and speaking Mandarin has gradually become the conscious behavior of many people.
"Facing modernization, promoting Putonghua" and "Speaking Putonghua well is convenient for you, me and him". With such a good social environment, I think, I want to say to you sincerely: in fact, it is easy to say I love you in Mandarin.