A mature person holds the key to his happiness. He will not bet happiness on others, expecting others to bring him happiness forever, and actively pass on happiness and happiness to others.

Whether it's a cold and snowy winter or a warm and fragrant spring, continuous joy spreads around him, attracting friends to take the initiative to approach and share his happiness and happiness. Each of us has this "key to happiness" in our hearts, which often backfires and gives it to others without feeling it.

A girl complained, "I am very unhappy because my boyfriend has no time to accompany me." She put the key to happiness in her boyfriend's hand.

A mother said, "My children have poor academic performance and are naughty. The teacher always invites me to school, which makes me very happy! " "She gave the key to the child.

The man said with an unbalanced face, "I work hard every day, but the boss doesn't give me a raise." The key to happiness is in the boss's hand again.

Another busy afternoon, when I was busy, a little girl from this department came crying and said:

"I can't do this job. If she is still here, I will leave. "

"I am young and can eat a bowl of rice everywhere." Look, youth is capital, and there are many opportunities to choose from.

I am glad to see this situation. I thought to myself: what happened is so serious, so incompatible. To tell the truth, this is the first time that I have directly done ideological work since my promotion. The quality of mediation will directly affect my future work, so I attach great importance to it. After talking to them respectively, I found that they were incompatible in personality and didn't communicate in time at ordinary times, which led to a long backlog of contradictions.

Modern society is an era of individuality. Young people show their personality more, but don't be too accommodating to others. Uncompromising people will only get angry for no reason, so that virtually they all let others control their emotions.

Under my constant mediation, now the two little girls live in peace, have a harmonious relationship, and their work efficiency is improving day by day. They are in no hurry and can control their emotions smoothly.

In fact, life is like this. You can be the master of your own mood, even if you have great difficulties. Otherwise, you will pay for it.

When we are inadvertently controlled by others, we feel that we are victims and can do nothing about the status quo. Complaining and anger become our only choice.

We began to be dissatisfied with life, and pushed these sins to others, constantly conveying a message:

"The reason why this situation has caused me pain is that you have caused it, and you are responsible for my pain!"

We began to pass the buck and blame the people around us, just to ask them to give us happiness.

This proves that we can't control ourselves, we can only be pushed around in vain.

If you accidentally become such a person, please think about it:

Will others like and be close to you?

I believe there is only one answer: such people can only be daunting.

A mature person holds his key tightly, does not expect others to give him happiness, but actively spreads happiness and happiness.

A mature person is emotionally stable and responsible for himself and others. Being with him is a pleasant enjoyment without any pressure.

A mature person, his personality charm inspires us invisibly.

Where are your keys?

Everyone has a key to happiness, but we often give it to others unconsciously.

A lady complained, "I am unhappy because my husband travels a lot." She put the key to happiness in her husband's hand.

A mother said, "My child is disobedient, which makes me very angry." She gave the child the key to happiness.

A man said, "The boss doesn't appreciate me, so I'm depressed." The key to happiness is in the hands of his boss again.

A mother-in-law said, "My daughter-in-law is unfilial. I'm really unlucky." She put the key to happiness in her daughter-in-law's hand.

A young man came out of the stationery store and said, "That boss's service attitude is really bad, which makes my lungs explode!" " "This key to happiness has been put in the hand of the stationery store.

These people all made the same decision, that is, let others control their emotions. When we allow others to control our emotions, we feel that we are victims. For the present situation, we have no way to complain and get angry, or this is our only choice.

We began to blame others and sent the message: "You have caused my pain, and you are responsible for my pain!" " ! At this time, we entrust a great responsibility to the people around us, that is, asking them to make us happy. We seem to admit that we can't control ourselves and can only be at the mercy of the poor. Such people make others dislike approaching, even daunting.

A mature person holds the key to his happiness. He doesn't expect others to make him happy, but he can bring happiness and happiness to others. He is responsible for his emotional stability. Being with him is a pleasure, not a pressure. We should always be happy, keep praying and thank everything.

Where are your keys? Is it in someone else's hands? Go get it back!