Collected yesterday.
In fact, you already have the best life mentor, and that is yourself. This is not prevarication. Although the process of life will be greatly influenced by society and the times, the basic clues that run through it are always inseparable from one's own individual life. The integrity and coherence of individual life will constitute a great power, so that any little point in life points to the overall value. A person's sudden depression, despair, despair, often because of mental "short circuit." If at that time, he accidentally picked up a photo of his childhood, or a few pages of his diary written when he was a middle school student, stared carefully and read slowly, it is likely that his mood will be relieved, his brow will be stretched, and he will return to a calm and rational state. The strength comes from life itself, far greater than the persuasion of others.
Picking up a photo of myself when I was ten years old is not sighing that my youth is gone, but staring at those clear and innocent eyes for a long time. It reminds you that you once had such a strong light, such a big space and so many possibilities, and all this has not completely disappeared; It tells you that you used to be so clean and relaxed, and everything that bothers you today does not belong to you. At this time, you find that your eyes gave instructions in your early years, asking you to find your treasure and put back what does not belong to you. Besides photos, there should be more signals connecting our lives. Because of this, I really hope that more people in the world will cherish every footprint of their own, be diligent in recording, be willing to revisit, dare to laugh at themselves, and be good at correcting, so that the whole life can be watered and nourished by each other. In fact, the genealogies of prominent families in ancient China are also updated from generation to generation, and they irrigate and nourish each other. You can see that the clear and orderly time process presented in the genealogy is so powerful that the previous generation is self-disciplined and the next generation is self-reliant. It is endless. Personal life is also a time process of mutual assistance. People are like family. Whether they have identity, credibility and responsibility depends on whether they can carefully preserve the complete evolution.