I often hear old people say that what pots are covered and what dishes are put on what plates. When you get married, you have to be suitable for each other to be happier and last longer.
When I was young, I always thought I was Cinderella. I'm sure I can find a rich, beautiful and pampered person to be my other half in the future. However, in daily life, after reading the right examples, I thought I would find someone like myself and spend my life in an ordinary and ordinary way.
My aunt has two daughters. The boss looks ordinary and has an ordinary mind. At the age of marriage, he found a man as ordinary as himself, and they lived at home in a down-to-earth manner. The man is diligent and steady, and the woman is diligent and thrifty, living a rich life.
The second child has been in high spirits since childhood. After graduating from high school, he insisted on traveling. At the age of marriage, he brought back a rich boy who is said to be a big city. The man's family is said to be very rich and has a big company at home. It is said that many girls in big cities are rushing to marry him, but this rich boy has taken a fancy to his aunt's second child despite his parents' opposition.
No, I heard my daughter talk about her other half's family. At first, my aunt's family didn't agree. Later, my daughter couldn't stand it, so she agreed.
Because the economic conditions of the two sides are too far apart, every time the man goes home, his aunt's family waits on him like a bodhisattva, and the man is also very generous, bringing a lot of things every time he goes home. On the wedding day, the scene was the most ostentatious in the village. Everyone envied my aunt's second child for his luck, which was regarded as flying on the branches and becoming a phoenix.
However, after marriage, because my aunt's daughter lived in the countryside since childhood, she suddenly came to such a home, and all aspects of her living habits were not used to it, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was not very good. Later, a girl was born, and even the man began to be less kind to her. Every time I go back to my mother's house, I am alone with a child.
Chatting with her once, she said that she really envied her sister's life, which was practical and stable. Unlike her, she felt like a Cinderella and broke into a palace that didn't belong to her. Before she left, she told me not to pursue things that don't belong to you too much. Getting married is better than getting married.
After listening to her words, I really think it's better to marry my family. What the old people said is still reasonable.