Saying is not a kind of giving up. You are suffering from unremitting pursuit, even going through hardships. When you are one step away from success, you can't persist. You show pain and shake your head helplessly: "No,no."
Saying no is fighting back. Perhaps, you have suffered too many inexplicable misunderstandings; Perhaps, you have suffered too much humiliation that only you know; Perhaps, you can't stand those irresponsible accusations any longer. Finally, you fought angrily and roared out: "No! Shut up! "
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No one can deny that it is not an innate human right, but your innate right. You can say no in all kinds of situations. However, as your sincere friend, I still want to tell you seriously: "Don't say no easily."
The reason is simple: just as you close the window because you can't stand the noise and flying dust outside the window, if you don't open the window, you also refuse all the bright moon, cool breeze, birds and flowers; Just like "even if there is a glimmer of hope, we must make a hundredfold effort", since we have been sweating in the ruins for more than ten hours, we will never give up until the last moment for that life struggling in the dark; Just as our country still smiles and patiently explains "Tibet is China's inherent territory" in the face of so many people who don't know the truth, we can suppress our grievances and anger, because we know that simply speaking, we can't convince others.
In fact, the Book of Changes, one of China's traditional classics, has long told us that only by taking advantage of the "endless" law of Yin and Yang, can we master the human nature of heaven and earth and teach us to cultivate our self-cultivation, can we be "ethical with righteousness and reasonable with reason". Confucianism advocates "gentleness, courtesy and frugality", and emphasizes that being a person, especially being an educated China person, must keep a low profile. Only in this way can we live in harmony with the people around us, which is also the necessity of building a harmonious society advocated by our country. Saying no at any time will only increase discord and make everyone unhappy and angry.
Even so, my friend, I still want to tell you: don't say no easily, not don't say no, when it's time to say no, you must say "no!" " Clearly and loudly.
Just like Qu Yuan couldn't stand Chu Huaiwang's fainting any longer, and he didn't want to go along with the adulterer. In a rage, he threw himself into Miluo, thus shouting a deafening "No" to the authorities and people of Chu.
Just as Wen Tianxiang didn't want his noble soul to be trampled on by the Mongols, he would rather sacrifice his own life, but also resolutely rejected the temptation of a high official and generous, and maintained the pride and integrity of a China scholar. His "No" in Sky in Gao Zhen really carved a "Dan Xin" in the splendid "history" of China.
My friend, I firmly believe that in the near future, when our Chinese nation really rises in the world with a peaceful attitude and is polite to all powerful countries in the world, we will no longer need to hide our strength and bide our time, and we can say no loudly to those accusations full of arrogance and prejudice!
So, don't say no easily, it will cause repercussions all over the world.