The idiom "perfect" does not apply to everything. Everything on the earth is flawed, people are tall and thin, plants are lush and sparse ... but the shortcomings and advantages are not absolute, and sometimes they are relative.
For example, this hare, when it doesn't snow, the hunter doesn't even have a chance to catch them, but once it snows, they naively think that the road they have taken is risk-free, so it will be safe to return to the original road, never expecting to ruin their life. At this time, cunning has become naked stupidity. In different situations, shortcomings can be turned into advantages. Similarly, advantages can also be transformed into disadvantages. Don't think that shortcomings are shortcomings, and advantages are advantages.
In martial arts novels, two people with high martial arts skills fight in a small room. One of them is holding a dagger, and the other is holding a sword. We all have a habitual idea: a long sword is more dominant, and you can hit your opponent when you stretch it. But in the narrow space, the long sword no longer has the advantage, but has become an obstacle, and the short sword has the upper hand.
In reality, dwarves will feel humble because of their height, fat people will feel annoyed because of their size, and poor people will complain because of poverty ... Have they ever thought that when the hiding place is small, short people can hide in it? Yang Guifei was loved all her life, and smoothness is also a kind of beauty; Poverty can sharpen a person's will, and they have great ambitions in their hearts ... this is their advantage, their own advantage.
When we are complaining about something, we should think carefully about whether our shortcomings are also an advantage, and others have tried the ups and downs you have experienced ... in this way, our mood will become particularly pleasant and comfortable, and our life will be relaxed and happy. Most importantly, don't let your shortcomings suppress your heart. Use the theory of relativity to learn to master your shortcomings and make the best use of the situation.