Many people will associate tolerance with helping others to abuse. They say that tolerance means "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Be lenient with others" also depends on the object. People who are tolerant but don't cherish tolerance are promiscuous. Tolerance to those who are not worthy of tolerance is tolerance; Tolerance to unforgivable people is indulgence!

I remember a story: in a temple, one night, an old monk wandered around the yard without sleeping. He happened to see a chair in a corner. Suddenly, he understood that a monk had slipped out to play at night. He moved the chair away and leaned there. Time goes by. Until late at night, sure enough, a young monk secretly climbed up the wall, turned around and stretched his feet. It went well. But when he found that he was stepping on the old monk's back instead of the chair prepared in advance, he bowed his head in shame and waited for his punishment. Unexpectedly, the old monk did not teach him a lesson, but said with concern: "It's cold at night, remember to wear more clothes!" " You can say that the old monk indulged the young monk in becoming a monk and encouraged the young monk to break the precepts. But I want to say that the old monk didn't mean to do this. He wanted to be lenient with others, convince others by reasoning, and let the young monk realize the truth, be brave after knowing shame, and remember it next time. The most commendable thing is that the young monk will also learn to be tolerant, and he will learn to be tolerant in dealing with people in the future. Su Lin said, "Sometimes the moral shock caused by tolerance is stronger than punishment."

Today, I want to say a few words from the perspective of people who practice tolerance. In fact, their intentions are good, but sometimes the people they tolerate don't understand their hearts! I think I can push my luck and do whatever I want! In the eyes of others, they use tolerance to help others. Some children are tolerated by their parents. They didn't even perform well. This is aiding and abetting. But is this what parents think? They just don't know how to be moderate. Therefore, I said that tolerance does not necessarily help evil, and its original intention is not to help evil, but later, because others did not know, they made the opposite explanation. What a libel! Today, I want to clarify for them that their hearts are good and they have done something wrong. Can't they be forgiven?

Besides, the result of tolerance is not always helping others. There is a true story: a classmate seems to have no chance to learn math. Her grades in all subjects are not the best, but she is ok. Except for math, she can't even get 40 points in every exam. That day, she was working on a math problem, but she couldn't work it out for a long time. She was angry, rubbed the manuscript paper and threw it in the classroom. Unfortunately, the teacher just passed by. She stood up timidly. "Yes, I am," she said hesitantly. Listening to the teacher's footsteps, she was very scared. Unexpectedly, the teacher unfolded the paper ball and leaned against the table to talk about the topic: "This question should be changed as long as you look at the negative sign with your heart." She froze. After the teacher finished speaking, she was stunned. She nodded in shame and was puzzled, but since then, his mathematics has advanced by leaps and bounds, ranking first in his class every time. This is not helping others, but the teacher gave her encouragement to regain her confidence! There are many such examples. It is precisely because of this "not helping evil" that tolerance will be recognized and advocated!

If we want to link tolerance with aiding and abetting, I want to say: tolerance does not help and abet!