There is a kind of magnanimity called tolerance.
Tolerance is a virtue, an ideological accomplishment and an excellent quality of life. It likes the company of generosity and is willing to be humble.
People have an eye for employing people. Talent is the first resource. Only by recruiting talents, attracting talents and making good use of talents can we promote career development. Liu bang was born in humble background, and his literary talent and martial arts were mediocre, but he could unify the whole country. What is the reason? When summing up his successful experience, Liu Bang said a thought-provoking sentence: "My strategy is not as good as ovary." I'm not as good as Xiao He, because I can help the country and the people, and I get paid. Even if it is a million-strong army, we must win the battle and attack it. I am not as good as Han Xin. These three are outstanding people, and I can use them, so I win the world. "The talent of employing people is a kind of mind, a kind of wisdom and a kind of realm. There are many models of tolerance in ancient and modern China and abroad: Xu Shu recommended Zhuge Liang and Zhuge Liang recommended Pang Tong; Xu Teli gave the position of Minister of Education to Qu Qiubai, who was willing to be his hand; The pianist Liszt recommended Chopin, who was still unknown at that time.
Let people have the courage to forgive others. Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. During the American Civil War, President Lincoln appointed General Grant, an alcoholic, as commander-in-chief. At that time, he was warned that he was addicted to alcohol and it was difficult to take on a big position. Lincoln disagreed. He didn't know that drinking would spoil things, but he knew better that Grant was the only commander-in-chief among all the generals. Facts have proved that Grant's appointment was a turning point in the Civil War. Lincoln was praised by later generations for being able to develop others' strengths and forgive others' shortcomings when employing people. Of course, forgiving others' shortcomings is not unprincipled. The so-called tolerable "shortcomings" must be secondary and will not affect the overall situation. If it involves fundamental principles and hinders the overall situation, it cannot be understood.
People have the tolerance to forget other people's mistakes. It is human nature to make mistakes. As long as we can tolerate people who are at fault and encourage them to turn over a new leaf, he will make unlimited creativity and contribute wholeheartedly to the generation. At this point, the kindness to Xu is a successful example. 1937, the party unanimously denounced Xu, commander-in-chief of the marked army who returned from a crushing defeat, but greatly comforted him and urged him to reuse it. Finally, in 1948, Xu led a team of less than 60,000 people reorganized by local armed forces, wiped out more than 100 people in one month, and liberated 14 county, creating a miracle in military history. People will inevitably make mistakes in their lives. We should treat the mistakes made by others fairly. We should forgive them, forgive their losses, soothe their pain and feel at ease, so that those talents with development potential will not be affected by a shortcoming, trapped by a mistake and bound by a stain.
Let people have the mind to release their grievances. Let bygones be bygones and turn enemies into friends. This is the ultimate tolerance. Before the battle of Guandu, Chen Lin wrote a campaign against Cao Cao for Yuan Shao. In the battle, Cao Caozu was scolded to death for three generations. Cao Cao read the essay and praised it again and again: "Chen Lin's article is really well written, and it is a good scolding." After the battle of Guandu, Chen Lin fell into the hands of Cao Cao. Chen Lin thought, I have scolded all the ancestors of Cao Cao, and now I must die. But Cao Cao not only didn't kill Chen Lin, but also appointed him to do the paperwork himself. Chen Lin was deeply moved by Cao Cao's magnanimity and tried his best to assist Cao Cao, benefiting a lot.
"A skillful craftsman never abandons wood, and a wise man never abandons a scholar". The sky contains every cloud, no matter its beauty or ugliness, so the sky is vast; The mountain contains every rock, big or small, so it is majestic; The sea contains every spray, whether clear or turbid, so the sea is boundless. If each of us is open-minded, humble, humble and self-effacing, why worry that people can't understand each other, and why worry that the world won't get better?